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writes:Well, My name doesnt matter. I'm 19 years old. My bf is 28 years old. And we've been together for almost 3 years now. And I'm pregnant almost 3 months. I love him, and I do love him to death, It's just hard for me to tell him, I love you, after my ex. We've both been heart broken by some bitch, or prick, and I've never complained about Him NEVER telling me I love you. Hugging me, kissing me. We used to have sex like bunnies, lately, he says he's to tired, I find him looking at porn, and earlier this morning, he just said something that completely broke my heart. He doesn't love me... So, I should move out. But, every time I try he yells and stops me, I don't know what do... I don't want to leave him... But, I'm DEPRESSED and stressing it really bad because, of HIM. What should I do?
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reader, lovesick2 +, writes (16 January 2009):
You may love him but he has told you that he does not feel the same.I think you know that you need to get out of this relationship.Secretly save some money if you need to or move in with a friend or family. I would suggest moving out when he is not at home. Do not tell him of your plans, just do it.
I was in a bad relationship once,I was afraid of him so I secretly rented a storage unit. Everyday I would take something little and put in storage on my way to work. He never noticed. Once I had enough money saved, I planned a day that I new he would be gone all day.Two of friends came to help me move the few larger items I had left, quickly.By time he came home I was long gone and I did not have to deal with the yelling and screaming of someone that did not love me.
It took many months before I felt like my life was going to be normal again. So you will need to be strong and do not give in to him, if he contacts you.If this is an abusive relationship and you are afraid for you child...Run and do not look back.
Good luck to you
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): It does not sound safe environment for you and for your baby-GET OUT ASAP. This is very dangerous, watch out for your safety.
You can call to the police or somebody else if you need help with getting out.
He is not healthy for you if he yells etc-he's not mentally OK. These kind of men do not know how to love or respect a woman.
Get out ASAP. Don't let his behavior stop you. Yes, he feels hurt etc that you want to walk out, because for once you want to do something different from his "plans".
If you stay or don't get away from him HE MIGHT KILL YOU, SO DO A SAFETY PLAN.
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reader, Ask JenniHearts  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 move out... you have a baby to think about. this stress you bad for you and the baby. you depressed and not happy. leave him to his porn. i know you love him but sometimes we love something we shouldn't. i know you have the baby to think about but YOU need to be happy too.
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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