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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello everyone, I'm just sad, and don't know what do to about my sex life any more, really it sucks! I HATE it, I'm not happee. I love my guy to death, but, the sex. Really, I HATE giving him oral, He doesn't give it to me, and I'm clean, I shave and always smell like strawberries! I just don't know.. And when we have sex I always lie on my back cuz, I don't know that's what he likes, I like doggystyle but, for some weird reason he just won't do it. I hate looking into his eyes when we're having sex. I don't like connecting on an emotional level like him. I even suggested he pretend I'm someone else, a teen that he likes since, apparently, I'm pregnant 19 and feel old status.How do I spice things up without a threesome. I can't stand ANOTHER WHORE, having sex with my bf of 3 years. What do I do? And I'm NOT romantic, cuz, it reminds me of his stupid exgirlfriend. We don't celebrate birthdays of holidays, or Valentines because, everything is about the ex.. People? Really I need help?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): I'm kind of the same, everything reminds me of my boyfriends ex, but it's so stupid and ya have to get over it... push her out of your head, you're pregnant, you're with him 3 years, someone he was with when he was a kid (i assume, might be wrong, 16?) shouldnt get in the way.its hard when a partener does not want to connect on an emotional level sometimes. simular to you, all i ever wanna do is "come" and then i turn my back on him.... i even told him not to tell me he loved me during sex.but it doesnt mean i dont love him with all my heart.A threesome can often wreck a relationship, because the idea of him with another girl is like a punch in the stomach really. its daunting. makes ya feel ill. so screw that, every man says they want a threesome but the majority wouldnt wreck a stable relationship involving a child for an experience that would only last a little while;) its ok that he dosnt like oral, sme guys are weird like that... but its not THAT great really. I know ya wanna spice up the sex life but maybe you should do something unexpected like actually get him a gift randomly or something nice like that.. he'll appreciate it.just because youre knocked up doesnt mean ya cant be sexy, you might if you actually do connect ith him on an emotional level and let him tell you you're beautiful. all the best xx
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