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Archived questions from: April, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

He was rough during sex and I bled from it. How do I bring this up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - I met this guy and we slept together but he was quite rough and I bled, I know why I bled, it's because I only lost my virginity a few months ago and I've only had sex twice since. He doesn't know this and assumed I was just coming on my period, how ...

Oral sex with no protection..should I worry about disease?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3828 days ago

30 April 2014 (M) - I'm in the habit of frequenting sex workers on a weekly basis. Now, I typically use condoms where penetrative sex is concerned but there have been occasions where I've received unprotected oral sex. I've done some research and apparently, it's ...

Is porn getting in the way of our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3863 days ago

30 April 2014 (F) - My bf is 22 and I am 24. He watches porn A LOT. As in, a few times a day. I know that most men look at porn, but is this like normal? Our sex life is ok but I feel it sometimes comes to a point where he prefers watching porn over having sex. (He, ...

Married now and sex life has bombed, what to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

29 April 2014 (F) - Been married a month, living together 6 months and dating 3 years prior to that. Fabulous sex life until now. It's like as soon as we were married he wasn't interested. There are no worries now except for his job but they're the same worries as b...

I had sex with my best friend, but she is married to somebody else!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

29 April 2014 (M) - Hi everyone. Sorry, this is a bit of a long one. My best friend is female, we've been friends for about 10 years and she's married. The past couple of years, she's sank into depression. This is due in part to her husband never being there due ...

Is it wrong to have an intimate relationship with someone who's still married, and connected through family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3860 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I am a little confused about family relations. Recently I have been confronted by my aunt's brother in-law whom confessed feelings for me. I too have had feelings for him. My aunt is still married to his brother. However, it has been said they wil...

Can you have an orgasm without the contractions? Or is it possible to experience a different sort of orgasm when you make yourself do it or your partner does?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3866 days ago

28 April 2014 (F) - I've had two sexual partners. Being with the first guy was rather underwhelming, but I had a lot more chemistry with the second. He was pretty experienced, too. Everything he did felt amazing. What I genuinely don't understand is, every part of my...

Do women care about premature ejaculation from a bj?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2752 days ago

28 April 2014 (M) - I tend to have a problem with coming too quickly and so I expend a lot of effort trying to make sure I don't. Obviously this is an issue with vaginal sex, but what about with oral sex? I try not to orgasm too quickly when receiving oral, but...

His worry over bills is getting in the way of intimacy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - OK, so here goes. I am a 32 yr old professional, husband's 29, we've been married for 2 years now. We're middle class, life is good (in terms of friendship, employment, money etc.), we earn enough to live on However, in the last few weeks the sexu...

When we try to have sex, he goes soft. Could he be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - Hi, so I have a question about the sexuality of the guy that I am seeing. The guy that i am currently seeing is 20 and I am 19. Him and I have not been seeing each other very long, just about a month, but for the past two weekends we have been try...

His focus is not on me anymore. Is this the beginning of the end of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3862 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need to start by saying i feel like a stupid teenager for feeling the way i do bout the changes in my relationship. Like i'm being a whiney, clingy, insecure, jealous teeny-bopper. But, this is how I feel, so here goes. We've been together 10 ...

How do I handle this? My long term Bf cannot look me in the eye. He is also sleeping a lot. What could be wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

27 April 2014 (F) - I need some people to talk to please.. Ok now today my boyfriend wouldn't look at me all day. We been together half our life's i know something is wrong. But finding out what it is will be hard. He just keeps saying everything is fine nothing is w...

Sex/Intercourse with a partner versus Head/Fellatio with a partner? Why can't I orgasm from the latter and prefer Intercourse instead?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

27 April 2014 (M) - So is something wrong with me that I can't seem to come from getting head? I've only ever gotten it from my girlfriend (she's my first) and I never come from it, I got close once but generally it doesn't feel as good as sex. Is this normal? I me...

I hooked up with my ex, but we're both seeing other people. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

26 April 2014 (F) - I'll try to make this as short as it can be! I broke up with my ex a few months ago. The break-up was sudden, but I was at a point in my life where I felt I was being tied down: he wanted to settle and I didn't, I also felt that I needed to be sin...

Is it always the guy's fault when things go wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3850 days ago

26 April 2014 (M) - Its going to be a long story so please be patient. In Dec 2010, I met this girl in a party, we clicked instantly and hooked up in the next week itself. 2011 was a breeze, we had an amazing time, took vacations, had sex like crazy. We were a fun co...

How can I tell my ex that he gave me an STI without freaking him out or sounding like I'm blaming him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I found out today that I have an STI. It's common and treatable and hopefully not a huge deal, but I'm still pretty mortified. I had negative test results before I got together with my ex, and I also had a negative test about 6 weeks after we ...

Love or sex? What do you do when they aren't a package deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3869 days ago

25 April 2014 (F) - I need suggestions/opinions please! I am 24, my husband is 32. We have been married about a year and a half, together for 5. He has always had a large collection of porn and used it frequently and I was fine with that. My dilemma is this: for many ...

I found out my married lover is not planning on getting divorced after all! Who should I confront, him or his wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

23 April 2014 (F) - I fell for my coworker who told me that his wife had left him, only to find out from another colleague that they are actually planning buying a new house together! I feel so stupid and sick to the stomach, but I can't bring myself to say anything...

I hate the fact that I am with someone that carried on an affair with a married man in the past, and I actually know this guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

23 April 2014 (M) - Recently I found out that my girlfriend has (in the past) dated and slept with a married man. I happen to know him too. We're not close, but we've hung out before. I had no idea they had that type of situation in the past, and even though it is in ...

Met a girl I like but am a virgin and want to tell her but don't want to seem pathetic or clueless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3872 days ago

22 April 2014 (M) - For various reasons (a mix of bad luck, bad timing and my own commitment issues) I've never have had a girlfriend. Sure I've been on dates but it's never gone anywhere because either I'm not interested or I struggle to pursue something I am ...

The sex isn't doing it for me and I'm waiting for him to open up about his feelings. Where to go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3871 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - Hey everyone... I've been dating a guy for 3 months now, I'm 25 and he's 29. He's really sweet, kind, caring and good fun to be around, however the sex is just not doing it for me. During my two previous relationships, we've both initia...

Sex isn't what I thought it would be!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3869 days ago

22 April 2014 (F) - So I've recently lost my virginity to my lovely boyfriend, and we have sex when we can but we both have house mates which makes the situation slightly awkward! He made my first time great, and although it was still uncomfortable, he was very swe...

What sexuality am I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3864 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Okay this isn't a major problem but I just wondered. I have always wondered about my sexuality, and when I was 15 I was pretty sure I was bisexual, but since then its kinda changed as I presumed that was just...

They've asked me to join them for a threesome, any one have experience in this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Basically I have two friends who are friends with benefits, they've been sleeping together for years and recently approached me and asked if I would join them for a threesome. I really want to try it but the only thing that bothers me is that fact ...

I think he is cheating and that makes me not want to see him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

21 April 2014 (F) - Hi. I need some honest opinions on this. My boyfriend and I are now in a long distant relationship due to work. Normally we would see each other every other weekend but it so happened that we haven't seen each other for almost two weeks this time. ...

He's quiet while I'm confused....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - Guys, please please tell us why so quiet? I have a boyfriend who is extremely quiet when we have sex. I like to make noise but have to be more subdued for two reasons, 1.his roommates and 2.he has told me once that it was one of the reasons why he ...

I don't believe him when he says he won't seek sex elsewhere when I'm recovering from childbirth!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

20 April 2014 (F) - hi all i am seven months pregnant with my first baby. she wasn't planned but my boyfriend and i were over overjoyed. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 years and are deeply in love. we've always had a great sex life and since i've be...

Since the baby came I have no time to myself and am not interested in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

19 April 2014 (F) - I need your advice on how to start feeling in the mood for sex again, please. My husband and I are the same age. We have been together 4 years, married for 2 and have a one year old baby. He nagged me a lot about moving in together and let me k...

Our passion led to unprotected sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3873 days ago

19 April 2014 (M) - Before I get to my question, I realize there are steps I need to do instead typing my question on this site. I am already ensuring to take them as far as seeking them, but I do have to wait one more week in order for detectable antibodies to begin ...

Husband says he feels like a prostitute because I want him to have sex with me? What can I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3874 days ago

18 April 2014 (F) - My husband does not have a sex drive anymore. We are both young in our mid-twenties. We have been together for nearly 10 years. Our sex life has been at times amazing and at times sparse. I always seem to want it more than him. In the past he has u...

Should I ask her about her sexual past?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3868 days ago

17 April 2014 (M) - I have been dating a new girl for about 6 months now. Recently we were at the grocery store together when we passed a bottle of chocolate syrup. My girlfriend laughed and said: "I haven't had that stuff since I licked it off some guy's d*ck." M...

Why won't these lusting feeling leave me alone about a man whom I know is taken?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

17 April 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid , I am really in lust with this guy I have tried to fight my feelings but my feelings always win.He is a brick house stallion this man is taken and I know this. But we flirt back and forward with our eyes that's all but i really want to ...

Why do I have to pretend to care when no one has cared themselves enough to invite me along those journeys of life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3878 days ago

16 April 2014 (M) - I'm discouraged, confused, heartbroken, etc... It doesn't what I say, or how I ask it, no one cares enough to help. How do I know if a girl likes me? I've never been able to tell. How would I tell myself, as opposed when I'm unsure about a girl, and ...

Teen daughter asked me to get her a vibrator

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3876 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - caught my daughter (15) using my vibrater she finished then came to me she said that had sex once and did not like it she like pleasing her self better than she asked if I could get her a vibrated of her own an teach or help her to makes sure she is ...

I'm a virgin. For how long should I expect sex to be uncomfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

13 April 2014 (F) - I am a 19 virgin and going to lose my virginity to my bf soon. Heard that will feel some stretching in vagina. Is this stretching only felt in first few time or will I still feel it after sexually active? Is the stretching painful? How it is like?...

How real are those 'hook up tonight' websites?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - I was tempted to lie about my age when I was posting this question because anyone as experienced as I am have must leaned these lessons by now but I have not. When my marriage dissolved I had been with him from the time I was 14 until i was 27. ...

I don't like sleeping over.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. My sister has recommended this site to me because she's been on before. I really hope you can help me :) I am a 28 year old woman and I'm having an issue with the fact I hate staying at my boyfriend's house. I have never liked...

Loud sex noises at boyfriend's house and now I'm afraid to leave the bedroom!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

12 April 2014 (F) - Cringe!!!!! Went out with my boyfriend last night for my birthday and had a few too many drinks. Were staying at his parents for awhile. Came home and had two lengthy sex sessions that involved a little bit of (amateur) BDSM (rope leather and LOUD ...

I thought he just wanted sex, so why would he text me afterward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3883 days ago

10 April 2014 (F) - I met a guy on a dating site . We text each other for a while and exchanged pictures . He asked if I wanted to meet up and stay the night at his and have a bit of fun . I agreed . When I met him he was really quiet and gave one word answers . I ...

First love, reunited 30 years later, he's married!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

9 April 2014 (F) - Where do I start? Guess at the beginning ... 30+ years ago, I fell in love with a boy that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with. He was my first love, physically and emotionally. His family moved away and our relationship, due to ...

Did my B/f enjoy the anal play?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3575 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - Hi everybody. Keep it simple. I've been with my boyfriend just over four years. We've always had a good sex life but never really experimented with anal play. This was due to a previous experience I had when I lost my virginity with a different...

My friends are getting married and starting families while I'm still chasing casual sex and other cheap thrills.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3865 days ago

8 April 2014 (M) - A really good friend of mine just announced to me about a couple of days ago that he's getting married. Obviously, I'm really happy for him but strangely enough, there's also another part of me that feels a little nostalgic and wistful. I remember ...

It's been two years -- will I bleed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - It's going to sound odd and I am going to try and phrase it in not too much gruesome detail, the only time I have ever had sex was with my ex boyfriend, I bled a little when we first did it, it's almost 2 years ago that we broke up and I haven't had ...

How to get our sex life back to the 'honeymoon' phase? And how do I deal with the issue of this old friend of his?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

8 April 2014 (F) - I'll just get to the point....I've been married to my husband close to 7 years...lately he hasn't been wanting to be that intimate with me. Idk if he's stressed, or just doesn't find me attractive anymore. I've tried spicing things up a ...

We had one threesome and now my partner wants to do it and I don't!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - Hi Ive been dating a guy for a little over a year now. We see each other every weekend and once maybe twice through the week. We have an amazing sex life and we enjoy each others company, we have the same interests and everything is just...

Seeking advice for BBW sex and how to become a premature ejaculator.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

7 April 2014 (M) - I have been dating a wonderful woman for nearly 4 years and we both know once we sort out our families and other commitments, like work, we will get married, move in together, start a family etc. That’s not the issue; I’m just letting you know we ...

My wife told me about her past sex life and now I can't even look at her

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3875 days ago

7 April 2014 (M) - My wife told me of her sex life before, she would go on no strings attached websites and meet men ...3 sums , now I feel sick my wife was passed around groups and used as a sex toy and she loved it , now I can't even look at her, what should I do?...

I've lost my sex drive! Is it my medicines?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

7 April 2014 (F) - Need help my boyfriend wont do anything???? To make me horny?? But back then he didnt have to do anything i was always horny whats wrong with me???? Im 35 is their a womens pill??is it my medicines doing this to me i take alot of sleeping ...

Is there such a thing as having too much sex in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3888 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - Hey guy, hope you're all good. I'll keep this short and sweet. Is there such thing as "too much sex"? I think me and my boyfriend are just overdoing it. We have sex 7 days in a row, but sometimes we have a one day break or two. I just feel like we ...

Relationship went from bad to worse after I moved in with my boyfriend, but I don't dare leave him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3887 days ago

6 April 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and two and a half months ago, I moved into his one bedroom flat with him. Our relationship has been far from perfect but since I moved in with him, its gone from bad to worse. I agreed to mo...