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writes:Cringe!!!!! Went out with my boyfriend last night for my birthday and had a few too many drinks. Were staying at his parents for awhile. Came home and had two lengthy sex sessions that involved a little bit of (amateur) BDSM (rope leather and LOUD spanking) No idea exactly how much noise was made and now I'm mortified to leave the bedroom. I have the fear! Do I just pretend nothing happened or do I hide here until tomorrow at least?! Reply to this Question
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reader, MSA  +, writes (13 April 2014):
 Haha.. well I'm sure by now you've left the bedroom! Just pretend nothing happened.. they might not have heard any way.
Next time try to go some where else ;)
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 April 2014):
 Pretend as if nothing happened. It was just sex between consenting adults , after all .
Although, next time I'd be careful and I'd keep down either the alcohol intake or the noise level ,or both.
Parents do not expect a 30something couple to be celibate, but I guess they don't expect either to get front row seats for said couple 's kinky performances.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (12 April 2014):
 I've always wondered how people who live with their par4ents manage. One way to look at is now that the secret is out, you have nothing to hide. As a parent I wouldn't expect a 30 plus year old couple to be celibate. At least you don't need to explain why you'd rather stand for breakfast.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2014): Act normal. But next time keep the wild sessions for when they're not around... or you at least have privacy. Nobody wants to hear other people having loud sex, I sometimes hear my neighbours, lol.... it's not very respectful.
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reader, llifton +, writes (12 April 2014):
 Lol!! I feel your pain. I've experienced that before but not with parents. Just roommates. Either way, you're going to have to face them at some point, so you might as well face it sooner rather than later. Especially since you're staying with them for a while.
I would just pretend nothing happened and just carry on. I highly doubt they will make a comment about it. Just pretend it didn't occur. Lol.
Good luck.
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