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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My Bf claims I'm not a REAL girlfriend. Is he right, wrong, or something else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

30 November 2012 (M) - I have been with my bf for 2 1/2 years. I'm 22, his 23. He was a sweet guy and totally loveable in the beginning. I'm studying full time and I'm working part time and I currently live with my parents. I pay rent and bills and I'm getting my car s...

He says we have sex less often because I've put on weight. Could this be the real reason?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - hello, i have a problem. i have been with my boyfriend for 7years. we only have sex sometimes once a week or once a month. he says it's because i've gained weight and it feels different. Can this be true? Also i sometimes think he's cheating ...

How should I ask my girl friend to consider a small change to our routine when we make love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 November 2012 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost three years now. We have a pretty basic sex life, nothing ever too wild. One of my favorite things she does is let me finish in her mouth when she gives me oral. She doesn't give many blowjobs...

We have sex 3 times a week but this isnt enough for me, any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - I have a very healthy sex life. I loe to explore and try new things. I could have sex several times a day if my partner would let me. I have never had a man turn me down for sex before but my current partner stops me from touching him sometimes. He ...

To those who are married/in relationships: Do you masturbate? If yes, why?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 November 2012 (M) - Hello I want to ask people who are married or in relationship if they masturbate, if yes how often they do it and why? Thank you....

Orgasms out of sync with ejaculation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - I have a question about an issue I've been having. Basically, it seems like my ejaculation and orgasms have gotten out of sync. This has only happened in the past 5 years or so, previously they happened at exactly the same time. I'll try to ...

I feel that I am not the best lover for my wife

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

28 November 2012 (M) - First of all, I give my excuses for my English. I am from Argentina. I got married 3 years ago when I was 44 and my wife was 42. We met each other one year before our marriage. The thing is that I am extremely jealous of her sexual past. She insis...

I'm 14, am I ready for sex?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4355 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so ...

How do I get over this cheating guy? He's just found out his ex is pregnant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - Ok soo I have this really huge crush on a senior nd well we've been talking nd been friends for about a year now ok Hey asked me out over the summer but I said I wasn't ready I then asked him when I was ready. He said I'm not ready I'm starting...

Any advice on ways other then oral sex or girl on top, to get my girlfriend to orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - I am in a loving an monogamous long-distance relationship. It's been going swimmingly even though we're both in college. When we do get to see each other (about 5 out of every 30 days) we generally have a lot of sex and its been amazing. The only ...

I have trouble reaching climax and ejaculation.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

27 November 2012 (M) - I'm a fit and healthy 21-year-old and everything's fine in my life sexual health wise but there is only one problem- I can't ejaculate. I can feel everything fine, but even during unprotected sex I just can't climax. I used to masturbate in the face ...

How did I get HPV if I have had only 1 sexual partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

27 November 2012 (F) - So I got a Pap smear recently and my doctor told me I had abnormal results and needed a colposcopy. The results from that showed that I'm HPV + ! However I have only been with 1 person sexually my whole life, my current boyfriend. He on the ...

Have I trained myself to orgasm only with this vibrator?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I'm only able to have an orgasm with the [insertion type vibrator]. I have been successful once in a great great while with just manual stimulation. Is there any ladies who have been in a similar situation but have been able to become orgasmic ...

Why do I go dry during intercourse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Ciao! I don't know why when i get wet during sexual intercourse it doesn't take time to dry up after which i'll start having pains. When this happens, i wud not enjoy it any longer and that makes my boyfriend because he complains that he's not ...

I think he wants to marry me only because he says I am good in bed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 years. The other day, for some reason, I asked him, Are you still looking? Looking as in keeping his options open for another girl. He checks out other women all the time when we go out and I think that...

I ended the relationship after the "where are we going" conversation! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been in an exclusive relationship for almost three years (both of us over 45). We see each other five times a week, taking turns sleeping at each other's home. My home is a lot for me to take care of (large yard and pool), n...

His ex attends the holiday gatherings with his family, isn't this disrespectful to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - So I began a relationship with a guy that ive known for many years.Early in the relationship we moved in together and I started having second thoughts.So I told him him we were done.I regret it but I spent the weekend with my ex and yes I had sex ...

What were his motives? Why did my ex ask me out, thinking I had a new Bf? But then get all upset after he realised I wasn't dating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - My ex boyfriend started texting me last week. He thought I was still seeing someone but when he mentioned it I replied saying that I wasn't. Well it turns out he never got that text and asked me out anyway thinking I still had a boyfriend. Wel...

Why do I always seem to meet jerks who only wants to sleep with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4361 days ago

26 November 2012 (?) - Guys, what goes through your mind when you meet a new girl and only want to sleep with her? Why do guys I meet only want or try to sleep with me? I met a couple of guys from club online and even "friends of friends". Their only motive is t...

I have refused to do this. So why is my Bf obsessed with wanting to see me do oral with another guy. What else can I say to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - hi i am in a long term relationship since my teen years and the last 4 years long distance. but late 1 year my guy has been obsessed about seeimg me doing oral with another guy. i have always said no. but he has kept on asking for this.. i dont kn...

Am I insecure about her sexual connections with other guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - Hi guys, hope someone can help me on this one? So I've been with my GF for 11 months now and living together for 6 months. We dated on and off for 7 months owing to her going through a divorce at the time and me not wanting to commit to someon...

Is there something wrong with my libido? It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt. Now I'm just not in the mood

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - Hi everyone. So I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. We first had sex when I was 16 and him 17. It was good at first but then as time went on it started to hurt but I'm just not in the mood for it...ever! I'd happily just have a ...

Will girls care if...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - A few months ago a strange red mark appeared on my penis. Theres nothing painful about it, it is just a red patch on the skin on a bit bigger than a thumbnail. I went to the doctors and it is a skin condition called vitiligo. It is apparently ...

He said he wasn't ready, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for a little over a month, and we are in college. I am 20 and he is 22. At first we mostly went out to bars together with his friends, and then i stayed over his place, but then we started hanging out at his appt with his ...

With holding of sex

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - why is it when my girlfiend with holds sex its okay but when i do she gets mad about it?...

I feel like he sees me as a mom not a lover!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I'm engaged to the man of my dreams but recently our sex life hasn't been good. I've tried everything I can think of to spice things up and he really seems to enjoy it when we do have sex but it's not making him want to more often. I recently lost ...

How do I deal or forget her past sexual experience? Because I really love this girl and don't want to lose her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

25 November 2012 (M) - Okay well I have been dating this girl for 2 months and i have really started to love her she is the first girl i have ever wanted to say i love you to but when i start to think about her past with all of the men she has slept with it really ...

Help me to be reasonable and rational about this matter please? My Bf wants me to use Birth Control Pills but I think it's risky.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

25 November 2012 (F) - I have been seeing this guy almost for a year. We are thinking about starting to have a future together soon. We are no longer use condoms every time after we became exclusive and came clean to each other about STD history and all. We sometime...

Should my girlfriend and I just laugh off the weird noises during sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4365 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - Since our 1st time a couple of months ago me and my girlfriend are now enjoying regular intercourse.We've started moving our bodies more to increase the pleasure.What's started to happen though is my girlfriend has begun to release a pooping sound ...

Any advice on how to stay faithful to a sick partner who no longer desires intimacy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been living together for a lil over a year now. He is 56 and I am 49. Roughly about 6 months ago he has been diagnosed with several chronic conditions which require him to be on medications. Here is the issue at hand. He ...

I'm a secret cross dresser. Wife is threatening divorce and friend wants me to perform sex act on him! What should I do?.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - Hi, I'm a married guy of three year's and been a secret cross dresser for 15 year's. The problem is my wife has caught me and has said if I don't stop then she will divorce me. When I spoke to a friend about it he asked to see me dressed up, he a...

How often do you have sex a week?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - Hi I want to ask peope who are in relationship or married about their sex life. How often you have sex per week? Are you sexually active?...

I had a fling with a married co-worker now he's seeing another worker but he treats her so much better than he did me! WHY?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I am so mentally messed up over someone and i don't know what to do about it! I can't stop dwelling on him! And I am driving my own self crazy!! So here is the story...... I started a fling last year with someone at my work. It was mostly sexual. ...

I'm pregnant are there any precautions we should use during private time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I'm 2 months pregnant and I was wondering if there are any precautions my husband and I should consider during our "private time". My obgyn said everything looks normal for now but just curious of anything we should avoid?...

Please help, I want to know if this can still be fixed

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4366 days ago

24 November 2012 (M) - You need to know my back history to understand this. High school i dated a girl three years, senior year she left me for someone else and was with him the night we broke up. She left because for two years we were plagued with bad sex mostly because ...

How do I get over my married lover who is also the father of my daughter? I've tried, but it's so difficult.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - MY daughter's father and i broke up 9 months ago. I'm still not over him. We have a 15 month old daughter together, he is married and is having another baby. I know you might think what do i want with him? It's not that i want him its more so i c...

I am in love but he doesn't want to commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I'm in love with someone who at the moment doesn't to commit to a relationship. Right now, we both are good friends, we help each other, hang out, text and call each other regularly. We have grown to trust each other and have each others'backs. When ...

Girlfriend of 3.5 years has very little interest in sex anymore. We have a child together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - Hello everyone, I was curious if anyone had some advice on my current situation. My girlfriend and I started dating about 3.5 years ago while in college. At that time, and for around 8 months afterwards we were very sexually active and our s...

Suggestion for toys that can be worn for an extended period of time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - What are some good toys to be worn for long periods of time (few hours). I really like bullets but was looking to expand horizons beyond a tiny bullet. Any suggestions under 60$? P.S can be worn secretly while shopping ect....

Our relationship is in crisis. Can you please help me with advice, before I make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

23 November 2012 (M) - So I met this girl freshmen year of college and she's perfect. Everything I want, beautiful smart, and kind of goofy like myself. I spoiled this girl, not like buying her things, but I rubbed her back, told her she was pretty everyday, basicall...

How do I break the news to my Very Conservative Indian parents that (a) I am pregnant and (b) he is determined to marry me because he loves me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am kinda in a sticky situation. Took a home pregnancy test twice and both turned out positive. I am an Only child to my highly emotional, overprotective, highly opinionated Indian Parents from conservative background. ...

Since we moved in together he's not loving. What is really going on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - I've dated my boyfriend for 7 years. I used to go and visit him at his place once or twice in a week. Recently we've just bought a house together and we are now living together. My problem when we were not staying together when I visit him, h...

Is this an orgasm or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4342 days ago

23 November 2012 (F) - I get to the part where I feel like I have to pee but can't go past that is it still an orgasm or no cause I don't get past that part?...

I'm worried my girlfriend's past makes her a slut

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

22 November 2012 (M) - Hello im a 21 year old guy and my question is im worried about my girlfriends past, I know its the past but some people don't change. I've been talking to thhis girl for a lil over two years I met her on a site, I've never had a real girlfriend just ...

Now that boyfriend can have sex again we never do anything else sexually!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - when i first started sexual relations with my boyfreind he would go down on me all the time and want to satisfy me. As he could not get hard due to stress. He can now have normal sex and thats all we have when we have sex and I go down on him. I ...

What else could he do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4373 days ago

22 November 2012 (F) - Okay so, i've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for awhile. And we haven't gone all the way yet, (soon though) and i've always gotten him to cum (sorry for the straight up term) from bj's. but when he fingers me it"s pretty stimulating yet ...

I panic when husband and I have sex and we have to stop. I haven't been abused, why am I like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - I've been married for a few months now, and I love him to death. The only problem is, I'm terrified of having sex. Like, i enjoy it when we start, but after a few moments i just start to panic. I get shaky and start crying and we have to stop. Why ...

How do we bring back the fun in our sex life with 2 young children?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - How do I bring the fun back in my wife's and I sex life with two toddles ?...

Where do I find a guy with similar sexual interests to mine?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - Dear agony aunts and uncles, I've got a problem: I'm single for over 2 years now and struggling with finding someone new. I'm scared about a new relationship for various reasons, the biggest reason is I don't want to live through a sexually frust...

What am I? Is what I am feeling a normal part of going through puberty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

21 November 2012 (M) - ok im 13 going through puberty and i don't know what im going through. I like girls ( I HAVE A GF) but i look at boys sometimes, girls too. Though I only look when im horny. When I'm horny a lot i do masturbate. I look some gay porn pics Now I need...