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Archived questions from: January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I need help! What can I do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i'm with my bf 16 months, at the start we were both very shy, it took a lot longer for him to come out of his shyness. we'll we started having sex after 3 months, i'm very happy with our sex-life its just i always make the first move, our sex just ...

The constant worrying is driving me insane!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers my boyfriend and i started having sex about 6 months ago and he uses a condom every time, but the thing is im always very concerned that it will break! he doesnt seem to feel the worry i do and probably thinks im being rediculous...

WHY does he want anal???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...

I'm afraid of making my boyfriend bored when we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I recently become sexually active with my boyfriend. I'm in my early-twenties and it is my first time having sex with anyone. I feel kind of insecure about my body and too shy to let my boyfriend see it. Whenever we have sex (it has only bee...

Is he just like every other man who gets what he wants and leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi All. Theres this guy I talk to regularly on facebook and sometimes I see him out. Hes really flirty over facebook with girls, including me.. but hes all talk and never acts on it. I'd go out for random drives with him and i learnt hes pretty shy ...

Why do I want group sex so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and i have been happily married for 16 years and have 2 good kids, we tried the group thing with some friends but my wife does not want to do it again. I, on the other hand i loved it and want to try it again. I can tell the different be...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...

Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...

I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)...

How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5010 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...

How do you make a girl feel great in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - dear readers, i love my girldfriend very much and i am very intersested in pleasing her in bed. but i am unsure in the way to best make her feel good? i know how to do some things but would like to know if you guys out there have any good id...

First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

While my boyfriend performs oral on me, he masturbates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK so the other day my boyfriend was going down on me and I noticed that he was masturbating while he was doing it!! This made me feel like crap because it's like, is going down on me SO boring and unsexy that you need to touch yourself to make...

Is there anyway I can ease the pain in my throat after I give my boyfriend oral sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - My boyfriend has been teaching me gradually how to deep throat. I really enjoy pleasuring him in that way, and I'm getting really good at pulling him in deep. The only problem? It hurts! The next day, my throat is very sore and inflamed. Unplea...

Does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Maybe I'm thinking too much into this, but does ejaculation volume influence the effectiveness of the pill at all? My girlfriend and I did it the day after her period ended, and it was a longer, more intense session that had an abnormally large...

Crying during Sex: What does he feel? What happened to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Last night, my boyfriend and I were having sex. We went on round after round til he was so worn out. I still wasn't so I moved his hand to caress me under there. He got into it and started doing something that made me feel soooo good. I felt lik...

Does the size of a girl's "pearl in her flower" matter to men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Ok guys, please be honest! Does the size of girl's "pearl in her flower" matter to you? I didn’t think mine was big till my boyfriend said, “wow your "pearl" gets so big when you’re turned on.” He makes jokes about it. Now I’m self conscious about ...

I don't think I should date this online man, seeing as he exposed himself to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I met a man online 3 years ago. We chatted along time before meeting he seemed normal other than enjoying exposing himself to me. We were seeing eachother approx 5 months when I felt something was up. We would chat online and his responses...

Fell in love, married, had children, & struggled with monogamy. Now the wife wants to leave. Why are we doing this to our kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Is "male nature" setting us back again? No where in the animal kingdom do we see monogamy more prominent as we see it in human nature. Or is monogamy just something woman have come to believe as true? I, like most men, fell in love with a beautifu...

I want to please my boyfriend, but I don't like the taste of penis and cum! Any suggestions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and we have a sexually active relationship. It's all good apart from one bit... he really likes head, but the problem is I really don't like the taste of penis and cum, and he keeps making R...

Receiving a blowjob from my girlfriend does not feel good to me! Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Okay, so my girlfriend and I have been going out for three months. We have a history together and I love her with all of my heart. There's just one problem. To me, it doesn't feel good when she gives me head. She's gotten me off from her hand every ...

My boyfriend can watch my one night stand but I don't want him to join in!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - I'm bi-sexual and have been with my boyfriend for seven months. I've had past relationships both physical and emotional with other women and I desperately want to have another physical one night stand with a woman. Now, my boyfriend is the...

I'm not feeling validated in this relationship and she can't fully commit!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - Alright, this is going to be slightly long, but bear with me for a moment. I started dating this girl when I was 19. I've always had a lot of trust issues, so opening up to people wasn't something I was good at. For about 6 months things were goin...

When gay guys get aroused does their anal area get moist?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2766 days ago

30 January 2011 (M) - HI, I'm a 16 yr old gay boy and I was just curious about something. When gay guys get aroused do their ass get moist like girls get wet when they're horny? I was just wondering... I know it's a stupid question, but I just wanted to know. ...

I couldn't get into masturbating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - So i'm a virgin and last night i tried to masturbate for the first time. The thing is, i didn't really feel any pleasure from it. I read online before hand and read that it was amazing so i was thinking it would be the same for me. I touched my clit ...

Why are men so tired after having an orgasm?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, i just of the phone to my boyfriend, and well lets say what we talked about ended up in him, well finishing (cum)i would like to know why guys get so tired after they finish? for me it might make me tired for a little bit but t...

Is sex enough to keep them together?

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30 January 2011 (F) - I like this guy friend so much unfortunately he always denying and playing my feeling. Now he totally cut me off and date one of my friend(use to be really close friend) and she was from Germany.He did this obviously he want to prove his loyal and ...

Why on the face?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, why do guys like the idea of cumming on a womans face so much? what is it that attracts them so much?...

When I try to leave he tells me I'm being selfish and to think of the kids!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

30 January 2011 (F) - i have been in a relationship with this guy who is 19 yrs older than me for three years now and we have two small children together and we live together. he doesn't want to take me anywhere. he always have an excuse on why he don't take me anywhere ...

I'm curious about sex but don't want to ask my parents!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm 15 and really curiuos about sex, but I don't feel comfortable about asking my parents. Is that normal? And how can I learn more about sex without asking my parents or them finding out?...

I couldn't do it! Is that normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - i had the chance today to move forward with my girlfriend...i honestly thought that i was ready but i froze and couldnt bring myself to "do it"! is there something wrong with me or it natural or what?...

Now we only have sex once or twice for 5 minutes!

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29 January 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together a year and 8 months and married 6 of those months...we've been going through financial problems once we got married and I've noticed the last couple of months we have started to not have as much sex, I know sex ...

I cant cum when masturbating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - hi im 14 and i can ejaculate when having a wet dream but cant when mastabateing can you say if something is wrong whith me?...

I love her but my brain wont let me stop thinking about it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - I was wifes first kiss her one and only love but I broke her heart. She later went and had sex with another man for a minute and told him to stop because she knew it was wrong and it didnt feel right because she still loved me. The man did not ...

Why did she say I was the first but then tell the doctor differently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - hey , well I am in a great relationship with my girlfriend had ups and downs but we talk about our problems which I thin maes us strong. I am the kind of guy who believes in plain speain and no lies as I hate liars. Anyways my girlfriend and I have ...

How would I suggest we have a FWB relationship? And is it a good idea?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay so, me and this guy "D" were dating for about a week before I found out he had been cheating on me with two girls. This happened around 6 months ago. ''D'' and I really haven't talked much since then until a couple days ago when I decided to a...

The best way to please a guy?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Dear readers, I want to know what is the best way to pleasure a male in bed? what would make him very happy?...

How do people determine the right age for them to have sex for the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - i'm asking the readers this, male and female, young and old, to answer the age old question of how old is the right age to have sex? is it based on how you feel about your partner? the legal age? Your religion? please answer for all the many rea...

Is my wife still sexually attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

29 January 2011 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 13 years, and I love her with all of my heart. I'm more attracked to her now than when we first got married. However, I don't think that she's all that attracked to me anymore. Our sex life sucks. I want it al...

My lesbian friend suggested we have sex before I can be her gf. Is this how it operates?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I'm a virgin and a lesbian. There's this girl who goes to the same college as me and she's also a lesbian. We met in our history lecture and have become tight. She's been out for 6 years and has had lots of girlfriends. She keeps telling me that...

Threesomes, Texts, Truths and Drama

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - Okay, I have this friend, we'll call her Moon. Now she and I have been friends for almost five years. I've seen her go through several boyfriends, as she has seen me do. Her boyfriends though, ranged from emotionally abusive, spoiled brats, t...

Whats the appropriate age for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, i wanted to know when you people think is the appropriate age to have sex? i know you are supposed to when you and your partner feel ready, but is there a time that is t young? is 14 or 15 to young? what if you had been with your...

Queefing, it's soooo embarrassing!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

29 January 2011 (F) - I used to never queef but last year I had a boyfriend and we would have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I haven't had sex in six months and I still queef! It happens when I do yoga or I lift my butt up in the air. Is it because my vagina is too loose? This ...

Birth Control - Spermice & Condoms

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Is there anyone here who uses spermicidal gel and condoms? I cannot use birth control pills because of a medical condition, so what I was wondering if anyone has personal experience with this or how it works? Would it be uncomfortable or anything? I ...

Does this make him gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - My boy friend has a fantasie of me having both male and female sex organs, and he fantasizes' him preforming oral sex with the male organ, and also doing him from behind. Could this mean he is gay or bi and he's to embarrassed to say anything?? ...

My "lover" won't date me because he thinks he's gay?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

28 January 2011 (F) - Okay so i am fairly young and shouldn't really have relationship problems in the first place. But anyways, im only 15, i have a "Lover" i guess you would say that, he is 16, but i dated this guy before, and then we kind of just drifted and then ...