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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

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Sex: Help and advice

I need help! What can I do to make him feel better when making the first move with sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - i'm with my bf 16 months, at the start we were both very shy, it took a lot longer for him to come out of his shyness. we'll we started having sex after 3 months, i'm very happy with our sex-life its just i always make the first move, our sex just ...

The constant worrying is driving me insane!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers my boyfriend and i started having sex about 6 months ago and he uses a condom every time, but the thing is im always very concerned that it will break! he doesnt seem to feel the worry i do and probably thinks im being rediculous...

WHY does he want anal???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - dear readers, recently by BF has taken to asking me to have anal sex, but i really dont know what to do here? i dont really want to, but at the same time i am a bit curious. i want to know does it really hurt? does it feel better for him? is ...

I'm afraid of making my boyfriend bored when we have sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi, I recently become sexually active with my boyfriend. I'm in my early-twenties and it is my first time having sex with anyone. I feel kind of insecure about my body and too shy to let my boyfriend see it. Whenever we have sex (it has only bee...

Is he just like every other man who gets what he wants and leaves?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hi All. Theres this guy I talk to regularly on facebook and sometimes I see him out. Hes really flirty over facebook with girls, including me.. but hes all talk and never acts on it. I'd go out for random drives with him and i learnt hes pretty shy ...

Why do I want group sex so bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - My wife and i have been happily married for 16 years and have 2 good kids, we tried the group thing with some friends but my wife does not want to do it again. I, on the other hand i loved it and want to try it again. I can tell the different be...

I want him there as MORE than just a "virtual sex partner."

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31 January 2011 (?) - dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been friends with for a little over four months now. back when we first met, i had a pretty big crush on him. when i told him that, he basically told me that liking him would be a waste of my time, as h...

I'm giving my girlfriend her fantasy to be with a former lover/friend. Will I regret it?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - I would appreciate any help and comments on my situation. I met a wonderful woman last year and we had an immediate connection. Stronger than any I've known before and she said the same thing. On our third date we were talking openly about fan...

Both virgins, on birth control pills.... do I REALLY need a condom?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both virgins but we are planning on having sex in a couple of weeks. She's started taking birth control pills so there is no chance of her getting pregnant. We havent had sex so STI's are also out of the equation so do i ...

I hate condoms and she won't go on the pill!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2502 days ago

31 January 2011 (?) - I am in a bit of a predicament with my new girlfriend. We're both 22 and have been going out for 2 months. Last week we talked about having sex with each other for the first time, it's not that one of us doesn't feel ready it's just an issue with ...

Should I be worried about my girlfriend after we had anal sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Me and my girlfriend had anal sex for the first time and the next day she was complaining that her butt-hole hurt and it bled when she tried going to the restroom. is this serious should I be worried?? Please help!!!! (Note this was our first time)...

How do I persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - How do i convince or persuade my boyfriend to perform oral sex on me,i have talked about it a couple of times but he said that he is not comfortable with it.What else do i do cause i really enjoy oral,moreover he doesnt last long during sex and i ...

How do you make a girl feel great in bed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - dear readers, i love my girldfriend very much and i am very intersested in pleasing her in bed. but i am unsure in the way to best make her feel good? i know how to do some things but would like to know if you guys out there have any good id...

First sexual encounter : Is there anything you wish you knew / did your first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Im 19 and I am still a virgin - I'm not too particularly worried because I will probably lose it this summer as this boy and I are getting more serious. The thing is, he is almost 22 and not a virgin. We havent gone very far and now we are in LDR. ...

I rejected him twice, now we're friends with benefits...and while I want a commitment, there's nothing from him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - Hello everyone:) Thanks in advance for reading this. I am dating this guy sort of, it has been 6 months about. He really pursued me hard, and I had let him know that I was not looking for a bf. I had been through a lot and didn't feel I was in the ...

I've got a whole lot of perversions and moral failings that I'd like to disclose to the girl I'd probably get involved with. How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

31 January 2011 (M) - Hello World, I've got a question that I think I already know the answer to, but would like some reassurance with all the same (or other answers if any). It's about a woman I've been getting close to (in a strictly non-GF/BF way), and would like g...

While my boyfriend performs oral on me, he masturbates?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

31 January 2011 (F) - OK so the other day my boyfriend was going down on me and I noticed that he was masturbating while he was doing it!! This made me feel like crap because it's like, is going down on me SO boring and unsexy that you need to touch yourself to make...