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writes:Last night, my boyfriend and I were having sex. We went on round after round til he was so worn out. I still wasn't so I moved his hand to caress me under there. He got into it and started doing something that made me feel soooo good. I felt like crying so I told him to stop cause he was going to make me cry. He didn't (yay) and I started crying. Tears just rolled down my face and didn't stop. I lost control of myself. I closed my eyes and just did not know what was happening other than it was so amazing. He moved over on top of me, and it felt sooo good to have him hold me as I shook underneath him (even though his fingers werent there anymore).He kissed me ardently and I loved it. I was in such a bliss. He did the same thing again, and I cried even more. He would hold me again and kiss me and look into my eyes.When he went into me, I kept on crying. I looked into his eyes as he looked at me, and it made me so emotional and it felt soooo good I kept on crying. After he finished, I just laid there, sooo worn out also and almost slid to the floor, but he caught me. and put me back on the bed and held me. I was so weak I couldn't even stand and he had to carry me to the bed when I fell. I was still in such a bliss and sooo weak from whatever took over me.After, he said he was getting worried because he thought that when he was in me, and I kept crying he felt that perhaps, I didn't want him in me anymore. He said he wasn't freaking out when it was just with his fingers tho. I told him that it had felt so good. I just wonder how exactly a guy feels when the woman cries during sex. Does it give him an ego boost? Does it turn him off? Did my boyfriend like that? He said it was really nice to see me shake and tense up from what he thought was pleasure.Based on what I told you, what happened here? To me? To him? I'd just like an unbiased opinion which is why I'm posting. Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (31 January 2011):
 In all my many years (you would probably consider me a fossil), I can recall only one girl who in about 1968 seemed to break into tears while we first (and only once) had sexual intercourse. Although she slightly began to cry as I was coming in her, it certainly killed my mood. That had never happened to me before.
Minutes later, she said that she was just fine and enjoyed it, but being a fairly sensitive guy, I felt that I had somehow done wrong with her. She certainly led me on prior to the sex, but then left me feeling bad after, which is why we never again got together. Well, I'm very sensitive to treating girlfriends kindly and respectfully, but that one young college gal who cried quietly during sex really blew my mind. Fortunately, for me, no one else ever did that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): If you've never cried during sex before, you could have just felt particularly close to him that night -- very emotionally connected.
Crying probably is a turn-off, but it didn't sound like your boyfriend minded at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL "magical fingers" ... I asked him what he really thought, aside from the fact that he really liked seein me feel so much pleasure. He said that it was "freaky" when my body just lost control and twitched in pleasure and he got even more turned on when i didn't know what to do or what it was. And all day long, he's been talking about it. I think it gave him a boost or something. He said I'm also the first that reacts this way and I'm also the first that he does that too (I'm thinking the way he went in down there).... As for me, I'd love to experience that again, given that he enjoys and loves it nearly as much as I do. I'd just want to give him the same orgasm as he gave me. And wow, I orgasmed, but it felt like I almost died in bed, relived, he did that again, I was in such a bliss... God...
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reader, AbscentMinded +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Geez Lady wish i could be brought to tears in a moment like that. Congratulations on that kind of sex and second he is just worried about you crying and it's hard to fucus on hard things when you're focused on hard things if you catch my drift. Take it as a complement be glad that he didn't want to force you into anything you didn't want to do and enjoy the good f he just gave you.
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reader, empty-1 +, writes (31 January 2011):
What did he do?I need to know how to do that!Seriously, if he can make you CRY from feeling so GOOD, this is information you need to share with the world. It is your sacred duty to let the technique be passed on and thus ensure the sexual gratification of generations yet to cum!
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reader, Imoginv  +, writes (31 January 2011):
Mayby it was tears of joy!
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