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writes:So i'm a virgin and last night i tried to masturbate for the first time. The thing is, i didn't really feel any pleasure from it. I read online before hand and read that it was amazing so i was thinking it would be the same for me. I touched my clit and tryed squezzing a pillow but nothing really worked, it felt nice but not in a sexual way. I couldn't get into it. Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): You have to be turned on, otherwise you won't get any pleasure from it. Masturbating is basically satisfying a physical need, so you have to feel the need first, meaning you have to be very horny or turned on in the moment. I suggest you try reading some erotic stories to get you in the mood.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): I would say to try the running water thing. Touching myself has never done anything for me. However, the running water gives me the most intense orgasms. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2011): 2 suggestions, try running water, for example when you're in the bath tub. the running water will stimulate your clit and you have full control of the pressure and temp. Or try a vibrator. A pocket rocket is convenient and small so it is very discreet.
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reader, ivanichiaynus +, writes (30 January 2011):
 The most erotic part of your body is your mind, so you need to be turned on first. But, as far as the mechanics of things are concerned I have some guidance for you. Too explicit for here, but if you wish to PM me, I'll explain.Ivan.
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reader, Hanox +, writes (30 January 2011):
 get a boy to do it.. so much better if your boyfriend does it instead of you.. exspelly if you don't feel sexual about yourself it will do nothing :-) x.
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reader, tabbiecat16 +, writes (30 January 2011):
 If you havent experienced any sort of sexual activity then it will take a while to figure out the sorts of things you do and don't like. It will take a few attempts at least for you to start figuring this out. So I suggest keep trying different ways. Make sure you feel aroused before you try masturbating because if you don't feel 'in the mood' it is less likely to affect you anyway.
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