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Archived questions from: February, 2011 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My boyfriend rarely wants to have sex! Am I too demanding or am I right to question him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5007 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever want...

Everyone now sees me as the "bad girl" after a regrettable one-night stand. What do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Okey, this is a story I rather not tell but I really need some help on this one. A week ago I met some boys at a party.. we all became really drunk and later that night we went to one of the boys' houses. A lot happened that night, but to tell the...

He says I'm crazy because I'm bipolar!?!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Me and my husband have been married a little over a year. I found out he had been talking to someone else for over 4 months. He swears nothing is going on. He says i'm crazy because i'm bipolar and it's all in my head. He hardly ever wants to have ...

Do men actually like this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Do guys like giving oral to girls??? I mean do they like fingering, and going down and you know? The taste, the look, when it's clean and partially shaven. I am so trying to explain this well, but just really wanted to know if they like kissin...

I've never had a relationship and I've always used escorts. Would it be fair of me to have a real relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Dear All, I am having a complex problem as of now and need you to give me some advice. Let me first give you a brief summary about myself. I am a 28 year old moderately successful man. I was born in poverty and learnt the hard lesson of life qui...

How do we draw a line under this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I found out my fiancé had been going to massage parlours for massages and 'hand relief'. This is what he told me at first. I found out as he hadn't deleted messages from his sent box, arranging time and what address he had to go to and what he ...

Why did this happen? Is he not interested in sex with me anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (?) - I was having sex with my bf of a year the other day. I was on top and he went a bit floppy, enough for it to keep falling out/being hard to get back in (sorry to be graphic). After about 5 mins he ended up finishing. Im just wondering if anyone h...

Will my boyfriend be upset about my past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hello all, I really need some opinions and information, please. My situation is as it follows : I had a bf, then we engaged and wanted to get married. We haven't had actual intercourse, nor did we have oral. But we engaged in some heavy pet...

How do I ask my boyfriend if we can have a threesome with his friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - i have a boyfriend and i would like a threesome with a guy friend of his, and i do not know how to ask him? please help me on this someone xxx...

How to turn a drunken hookup into more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Friday night I drunkenly hooked up with a guy I was set up with to go to a college formal with. I am interested in continuing to talk and possibly hook up more, but how do I find out if he is too? I waited until Sunday to text him, but he didn...

Is it ok to tell your girl that you masturbate?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Since masturbation is selfless and innocent act and all woman know that single man do it and also in there mind they feel relaxed that the guy she would be knowing or is going out with is masturbator and doesnt exploit woman just for release etc etc ...

My FWB was hitting on my friend even though she has a boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I've been with my fwb for more than two years. Recently we had our first time hanging out in public. We had been in this type of relationship as a secret so finally we were introduced. He had a little smirk going on and so did I but no one saw. W...

Does stress affect morning erections? Or is he not that interested in me anymore?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'd love some advice, esp from male readers, about morning erections. Usually, when my bf of 6 months wakes up when I'm with him, he has an erection. But for the last 3 times we've woken up together, he's been soft, and we haven't had sex the ...

15 years old and pregnant, with a strict Mom who doesn't know. What do I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 15 years old and my mom is already is thinking of me having kids!! Almost every day when i come home from school she asks me if I'm still a virgin, and obviously i say yes(the thing is my mom wants to arrange me with someone from our ...

What's this sex position called?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - I'm seeing a new guy outside the U.S. (just a FWB thing, no relationship) and he showed me the most amazing position the other night (not in terms of ability required, but in terms of how it felt)--He wanted me to lay flat on my stomach, except with ...

Can I still please a woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi!! I am 25 years old and I have a penis that is 3 1/2 inch when it erect but it is not thin, do you think that I can still please a woman with that size?...

Is it risky to use coconut oil or butter for vaginal lubrication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Will using coconut oil or butter for vaginal lubrication be unhealthy or risky?...

Should I leave him, sleep with him or just keep on fooling around with him, knowing it will not lead anywhere???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - So, I am 21 and have been fooling around with a 45 year old musician. We have done every sex act imaginable without penetration (I have been holding off). Here is the hang up: he has a rather new 'girlfriend' who is his age and a teenage son. Now, ...

Performance anxiety!! On the verge of losing my virginity and couldn't get an erection!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 February 2011 (M) - Hi I'm 17 nearly 18 and was on the edge of losing my virginity a few nights ago, but I couldn't get an erection! When there was foreplay, I got one, and even when were just making out and shit. But once we both got naked (first time i've gotten...

I can't get it up for sex...help!

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28 February 2011 (M) - Hi, have been dating my gf for 2 years. When ii lost my virginity to her everything was good and the sex was perfect. Untill we have stoped for a month because of exams and everything...After that we wanted to have sex and i couldnt get hard. Sh...

How do I tell my boyfriend I'm ready for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - So, here's the problem- my boyfriend and i have been dating for nearly a year. I am ready and willing to have sex with him, However i don't know how to tell him i'm ready. Should i just suduce him? Should i start touching him while kissing? i have ...

STDs' possible from oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Can you get stds from giving and receiving oral if both of you have never had any kind of sex before? ...

I had sex with my mom's partner!!

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

28 February 2011 (F) - Hi, I did something really horrible and I don't know what to do. Basically I had sex with my mum partner and they been out with eachother for 8years. I'm only 18 myself and I don't know why it happend. I'm carrying so much guit with me all around ...

My boyfriend was losing interest, so I broke up with him. Later, we had sex, but now he is ignoring me! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - My ex boyfiend and I broke up 6 weeks ago. It was my decision as he seemed to have lost interest, though he said he still liked me and wanted to still see me and occasionally go out! He started texting me almost straight away, it got dirty flirty ...

After my girlfriend told me about her sexual past, I am disgusted! Should I have sex with her and leave her, or lose my virginity to another?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I have been dating this girl that is crazy in love with me. However, she started talking about her past. She told me that she didn't want anything between us and that she needed to tell me everything, because she trusts me and so on and so forth...

My husband works alone at night, and someone caught him masturbating. Please help me understand why he did this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well,the last time I told all about my husband playing with himself at work and losing his job. He worked at night by himself, but someone caught him and he has done this before. Just never got caught. I asked him time after time and he is ...

Oral sex or a hand job? Guys, which do you prefer, or are they just the same?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have a question for the guys here. This is so embarrassing because I'm a female, but which one feels better and why? Hand job or blow job or is it just the same? ...

I googled my girlfriend's name and found a homemade sex video that may be of her. Should I ask her about it, or just drop it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - So, I regularly play on Google just randomly googling up stuff and I tried googling my girlfriend just to see what came up, all ordinary, Facebook, Myspace, etc. Then I took off the filter and after going through many of the main pages, I found ...

I love her but her last lie may cost me my life. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hello everyone, This is my first time writing, I'd really like some good advice with the situation I am in involving myself and my ex girlfriend/girlfriend - this I will explain below. There is so much to consider it will be difficult for me to ex...

I gave my boyfriend my first hand job. Was his reaction good or bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well, I gave my first handjob after wracking my brain for two weeks about doing it. My boyfriend and I were together a month and a half last year in September/October. He broke up with me, and we got back together in December and are still together...

After watching porn, I feel insecure about my penis size. Is there a way to make it larger?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - Hi, I am 22 years old man. My penis size is 2-3 inches in normal condition and it is 5 inches when erect. I am feeling so shy about my penis after watching porn videos. If I get married, will my wife live happily with me? These are some of ...

I've had a rocky time, is this choice gonna make things better or worse?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - 2009-2010 was not a good year for me. There was bullying and a lot of other stuff going on. At the end of it I was pretty much broken and suicidal. In August I hit rock bottom. Then I started to heal. Now, I've started to enjoy life again. I've...

Riddled with guilt, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a 35 year old woman married for 3 years now. I had a lapse of judgement a few months ago and had an affair with a man in the town that I live in. I saw this man for three months and we were very sexually active. I broke it off after I thought ...

I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...

She denied cheating on me, and I've gotten over that hurdle, but now I am losing her! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I am in a long distance relationship with a girl I met about 7 months ago. We only officially started dating about 3 months ago. Things were wonderful in the beginning. We got along so wonderfully, we would talk all night on the phone. We would ...

I'm straight...is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5002 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am 23 female and straight. But i'm only turned on by lesbian porn, is this normal???...

I'm not that experienced but my boyfriend is, I need help..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Okay so my boyfriend has been pretty sexually active before and I haven't. I want to know how to practice giving a blowjob before I do it on him?...

I just want to know if you can or not....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am a virgin but my boyfriend has been fingering me a few times. I was wandering if there is any way I can make my vagina hole smaller again???...

1 last thing before we settle, should I let him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been friends with my guy for over 10 years and we hooked up at new year, 2010. We are both in our late 30's and it feels very serious and we are discussing getting married and having kids. Basically he booked a holiday to Thailand before w...

We both just got out of other relationships. I like him, but he acts hot and cold toward me! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Well where to start with this one ... My boyfriend, now ex boyfriend, who I was with for 4 years, (I am now 20), well we have split up and it has been very hard for me. He was my first love and boyfriend but we have been through some very difficult ...

Could I get pregnant doing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - okay so i want to remain a vargin until marrige but my boyfriend doesnt so we do mess around. He has rubbed his penis around my anus area and almost by my vaginal area i just want to make sure that there is no way i can get pregnant unless the penus ...

Which guy wants me for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I have been infatuated with this guy for about 6 months now.. i asked him out twice in the time i liked him, and even though i knew it was wrong, i used to sext (sex text) him, but recently, i moved on, though i still love him. I now fancy another ...

Why do men like to finger women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I am just curious why guys like to finger their girlfriend? Do they get any pleasure beside her returning him a favour like a bj?...

Male input please!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Having read so many posts from blokes complaining about their girlfriends, wives etc never initiating sexual acts (be it oral, full intercourse or whatever) I realized I'm one of these women. I read one post that struck a chord - my boyfriend ini...

I am a virgin, is moving in with my fiancé a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - Im a virgin moving in with my fiancée, is that a good idea? We have been been dating for 2 years, and have been engaged for 4 months. Our wedding is in a month. We have recently bought a house (it has three bedrooms). My fiancee wants us to move in ...

My 13 year old son is making out with his girlfriend? Should I allow this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - my 13 year old son has a girlfriend the same aged as him. They always hold hands, Kiss all the time, And slap/squeeze/grab each other on the bum. Should i allow this? I think its fine because they aint going far. ...

How long is the perfect time to go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4951 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - OK, so I've been wondering something and I'm sure that every guy is wondering too, what is the perfect size for a mans erection? I was just wondering, and how long of a time is perfect in for you to orgasm (10, 15, 20 minutes!?). Please I would ...

My best friend is pregnant. My fiance is the father. Should we continue with planning our wedding as he wants to?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for five years and we are getting married in six months so technically he is my fiance. Everything was going so well for me i felt like i was living in a fairytale. My best friend since second grade was help...

Twenty-five year old virgin, help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

27 February 2011 (M) - I know a lot of guys have problems getting laid, but I’m having a crisis. I’m 25 years old and considered a virgin by everyone. In reality, I did lose my virginity, but not in a way that is something I would brag about. Nothing illegal or immoral, ...

Male opinion needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

27 February 2011 (F) - I live across the street from this guy and girl. The girl: 'X'and I, are friends, not best friends just friends, me and the guy 'Z' and I have a flirtatious relationship, and I made sure X knew that. One day I came home from school and I saw...