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writes:Okay so, this is kind of awkward but I really want people’s opinions... I've been with my boyfriend for a year now and everything is really great, we get on well and he makes me really happy :) There is only one problem...he barely ever wants to have sex! I’m talking like 4 times a month, TOPS (we see each other about twice a week). I'm 20 and he's 24, my logic is that at this age we should be at it like rabbits right? I'm very attracted to him and he feels the same, but he says he 'almost prefers cuddling to sex' wtf?!! Don't get me wrong, I love the closeness we have, but sometimes it's really frustrating. Am I being a demanding b*tch? Or am I right in questioning him? And yes we have spoken about it, but he says 'he's just not that sexual' So where do I go from here? Help??! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011): Have you tried seducing him instead of asking for sex directly? Try having some erotic conversations and he will want you more.
We humans can enjoy sex and love much better by using all our five senses. Remember that.
If it was just sex, we would rather have been rabbits.
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reader, Flashtony +, writes (3 March 2011):
You need more sex, he needs less.... It's a mis match... I know, I was married to an ex who didn't want sex.. Just cuddling... We ended up growing out of the habit... I needed more... Finally we divorced... My girlfriend and I have been together 18 months, we do it every night we meet and most mornings.. About 16 to 20 times a month... We are crazy in love.. I wasted so much time.... Deal with it or move on... Sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I think Bernard is right.
There won't be much chance of your bf changing.
But with your 4 goes a month you'd be shagging him once a week right? Of the 2 visits per week you shag him during one of these visits. Not bad if you ask me, especially if you only see him 2wice a week!!!
I rekon if you want more sex, you'd need to see him more.
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