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Archived questions from: May, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Why do guys wake up with an erection?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i were chattin, and we got onto the subject and he said he often wakes up 'fully erected'. my question is, who knows why this happens? maybe its a stupid question but i realised i really dont know why. thanks for any answers!...

The annoying thing on my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Hey, I'm a 16 year old guy and will be 17 in 2 weeks. Me and my gf both lost our V plates to each other when we were 15. My girlfriend is 3 months younger than me which makes her a year behind me in education. Thing is, even though now we ar...

How can I get past the touching phase onto something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - Im a gay guy that hangs out with mostly straight guys. Im in a situation that im having feelings with one of my straight guy friends. He has a girlfriend but whenever we hang out he likes to watch porn. He knows i like him and allows me to give him ...

How can I get over my erection phobia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

31 May 2009 (M) - This is gonna be long..sry ! i need help tho.. Ok so today me and my girlfriend were alone in the house..we started taking of our clothes etc..started foreplay and stuff butshe had her panties on and i was trying to think a way to go inside her ...

A question about female ejaculation...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I'm trying to learn how to cum a lot. I'm aroused by my boyfriend, but he wants me to cum so he can actually see it flowing from me. Even though I would love to learn how to squirt, but that's out of the question right now. Please someone help....

Is it normal for a husband and wife to only have sex once every 3 months?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I am a 42 year old woman who recenly got married (it will be a year in june) Is it normal for a husband and wife to only have sex once every 3 months? He looks at porn almost everyday..some of it that I found is a little on the weird side like ...

So whats he really thinking?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5659 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - I have been in contact with a myspace friend for almost 2yrs. We have talked, emailed and texted during this time. Both of us are single. I have no children as he has 4 kids living with him, he is divorced twice. 3 kids from his first wife and ...

Does it hurt when you have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5648 days ago

31 May 2009 (F) - does it hurt when you have sex?...

My wife admits that she is lazy in bed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - The problem is that my wife is lazy in bed (she voluntarily admits that herself). Mostly she just assumes whatever position I like and then I take care of both of us. She says *partly* she is not more active because she needs to concentrate on her ...

My husband never comes to bed with me unless he wants sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hi,just wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice.i am married with two children and pregnant at the moment my husband never comes to bed with me unless we are going to have sex .he has always had an interest in porn and one particular ...

Got stoned and had unprotected sex! What should I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come ...

How do I have a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x...

Do men like older virgins?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Men and Older Virgins? I know most men are into young women - especially if they are still chaste and virginal - but what do men think of older women who are still virgins? For example women in their 30s or even 40s as there are still some of us ab...

Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?...

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast t...

How can I convince him to do it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, Im a bisexual boy and I currently going outwith another boy who is gay. We have had anal a couple of times but just before he cums he always pulls out, I always tell him to finsh inside me but he never does. How can I convnce him to d...

Why did my period end so soon and was so late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Hi, was having unprotected sex with boyfriend for about seven weeks. Period was three weeks late and finished after two days (my periods last 5 days) tests came up negative, and i took four including a hospital one. Whats going on with my body? Wh...

Doggy style versus woman on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - This is more of a sex question than a relationship one but recently i've discovered that i really like sex in the doggy style position andmy boyfireend really likes it when i'm on top. I was just wonderng what everyone else thinks about these ...

I find oral sex incredibly boring!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years now..and recently he has been asking me to give him oral alot. I dont mind doing it, because i love him and want to satisfy him, but i find it incredibly boring (he says he enjoys it when i do it) but is there ...

How do you spot girls like this and not have to wait so long to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hi I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. She has consistently told me she wants to wait for sex. The first time I attempted was very early on, about the third date, when she told me she wants to wait at least another month or two. I ...

Should I have sex with this girl I don't know well just for the sake of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Im going to a party soon, and this girls going i was wondering if i should have sex with her there or just mess about as this would be my first time and i want some experiance. And i dont know her that well?...

Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ...

I am worried I have some kind of ovary problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 3-4 months now, we never use protection. I was 1-2 weeks later starting my period, so I took the test which came back undecisive. This morning I came on, but the blood flow is just water, I woke up to the ...

Pantyhose kink! Is this unusual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (M) - Hello, I am a young guy in my my twenties. tanned nice body etc. I have a kink for pantyhose and stockings. I like wearing them myself and masturbating in them. I like the thick shiny oness. Or the school opague type. I would also like a girl ...

Am I not a virgin? And do yout hink he didn't like giving me oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Alright so my boyfriend and I always do lots of foreplay, but I wanted to wait until marriage before actually going all the way and having sex. Well my boyfriend got a little carried away and started to stick it in me. I got upset and he stopped, ...

Tips to please my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - Im sixteen years old and am going out with this guy i really like, he has already fingered me, and hes amazing, but i feel like i should do something for him. The problem is that i have zero experience and dont know what to do or how to go about it. ...

Sex and virginity

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - hey, ok I have a million questions, but ill ask this one question that I have had in my head for a while. im a virgin and I always think guys want to have sex with me because of that but I also think once I tell a guy im a virgin they don't want to ...

I had sex with him yesterday and now I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

30 May 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and old friend just started talking to me again. Me and him had sex yesterday, he's 19 going on 20. I don't know what to do, I have known him for a long time, he doesn't want to hurt me. Can someone help me, please...

1st sexual encounter uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hi, Im 16 and i recently experienced my first sexual intercorse. I found it to be really uncomfortable and i didnt enjoy it. I never experienced an orgasm and neither did my partner, is this normal ? I experienced a lot of pain after it also, l...

Periods and sexual activity....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Well im a 14 year old girl and i havent started my period yet. but i like this guy and we have been going out for sometime but he wants to finger me and i want him to but can i be fingered without starting? x...

Are there risks involved with having sex with two women at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - hey, can i get any STI's or anything like that through having sex with two woman at the same time, without using a condom. is it safe to put my cock into one woman, then into another and back again? is there any risks?...

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - We have been dating for a month, we got drunk and went to a hotel, had sex, he then had a blackout and cant remember a thing and is so upset as now he thinks i feel used, is this relationship doomed? I dont want to seem like a tart.....but i really ...

Will being "loose" down there affect married life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - i am 30 years unmarried female, i have never been into any relationship before, but i am doing masturbation from last 6 years due to which i think my vagina is loose, now i am getting married soon will my husband notice it, and will it effect on ...

My wife enjoyed sex with her ex but she isnt interested when it comes to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (M) - i wanna know how do i get my wife to want me sexually cause she never wants to have sex with me i mean we do it but very often she never wants it just me or even when i ask her she gets mad somtimes when she gives it to me she tells me to hurry up ...

One week on the pill - had unprotected sex during period

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - So earlier today i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend and he ejaculated in me. I've been on microgynon 30 for a week today and so far have taken 7 pills in a row religiously at 4:50pm (when i took my first pill last friday). It's only 10am ...

In my mind I feel I am pregnant but I'm not really sure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Hello...i have a question about whether or not i could be pregnant....I have had unprotected sex several times in this month of may. I usually tend to have irregular periods. I began my period of May 20 in which was the same day I also had had sex. ...

If you are drunk, will your first sexual experience hurt less?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - Just a Quicke Question. Does The First Time hurt Less If Drunk? x...

Have had unprotected sex for 7 years, not pregnant yet, could infertility be the problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

29 May 2009 (F) - i'm 19 years old and my boyfriends 28 years old. we've not been trying for a baby but have been having unprotected sex for the past 7 weeks and im not pregnant. of course i am over the moon about it but at the same time im quite worried i could be ...

I do all the work, my partner is lazy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - when having intercouse i feel my partner is lazy wether i am on top /below /front /back i seem to be the one doing all the work we weigh the same and him being a man feel he should be stronger at times i jus dread sex cause i know what the routine ...

Fours years together, great sex before, now nothing, he's too tired, what is the problem here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hey Everybody, I need some serious help, I have been with my bf for nearly four years and we just don't have sex anymore or we do its lucky if it once a year! Its that bad that it makes me think he is either cheating and getting it somewhere els...

Is it illegal for a step-brother and step-sister to have a baby together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - is it illegal for a step brother and step sister to have a baby together?...

Keeping sex all in the family

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - okay i had sex with this woman that i knew for a while then i had sex with her teenage daughter now i want to have sex with her daughter's cousins who's 21 is it wrong because i'm not in a relationship with neither of these ladies?...

I think he was very rude to me after I spotted his white duvet a bit, what do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - I hope people don't find this too personal a question but here goes. Recently I have had sex with my fiance and unfortunately I have started spotting. He has pure white sheets and I sat on a towel but two very tiny smudges got on his white duvet. I ...

We're sexually incompatible

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - during sex my boyfreinds ercetion seems to get worse and he keeps insisting that he is erect no matter how hard he tries i have now lost interset in having sex.i say lets try different positions but hes quite set in his ways , he likes playing with ...

He's a FWB and dating others! How do I distance myself emotionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hello all, I have been dating a man I met online for about 6 weeks. It turned into sort of a "friends with benefits" situation right away, which was fine with me. He was only four weeks out from a messy marriage separation and I knew our relatio...

Tips on what men like in bed....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for a good while now and this is stupid but I figured I could get tips and advice here... So anyhow I was wanting to know what are somethings men like while in bed! Our sex life is wonderful and full of passion but I ...

Orgasms and virginity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - i've had orgasms a couple of times before but no one ever touched me and i'm about to have the first sex , i dont know if im a virgin or not, so can having orgasms affect my virginity???? and if i am , will it hurt or bleed?????? im really scared ...

Broke up and now she wants the FWB

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - I posted a question earlier saying that my ex GF dumped me almost two months ago, she starts talking to me again recently, and she wants to hang out. We talked last night and she says she isn't ready for a relationship with anyone at the moment, but ...

How do I satisfy a woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

28 May 2009 (M) - My last Question get satisfatory answer? Thanks to all? I am little confused about girls that when she has cum in sexual intercourse. normally it takes how much time to get girls have cum. can every girls have cum by sexual intercourse? what...

He starts his day by looking at other women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

28 May 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 24 and my bf is 25. We have been together for 10 months. 6 months into the relationship after he rejected my advances, I walked in on him getting off to porn. We have lived together for the whole 10 months we have been together and apa...