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female
age
30-35,
*olx
writes:Hey Everybody, I need some serious help, I have been with my bf for nearly four years and we just don't have sex anymore or we do its lucky if it once a year! Its that bad that it makes me think he is either cheating and getting it somewhere else or doesn't find me attractive or sexy anymore. I am beginnning to get really angry now over it because it doesn't seem to realise that I have needs aswell. I am not asking for it every night don't get me wrong a couple times a week would be great. It just making the relationship boring and feels asif there is no love or intimacy cause we had great sex at the start of the relationship till about 21/2 yrs. When I approach him he says am too tired and a relationship isn't always about sex which I do know but when it gets this bad you think why I am bothering with this guy. I am always up for trying new things in the bedroom. Please give me some advice cupid. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): That is what happened with my bf. We have only been togehter for 6 months but the first 3 weeks was great. Then it went to 2 times a month, then 1, now I am at none. Its been only 3 months but I am miserable and all these things keep running through my head. He says that a relationship is not about sex, which I agree, but its nice to get some every now and then. He has other excuses to, like being in prison for 2 years and not using it...idk what to think and I am feeling pretty down and wondering if its me, although I havent had complaints before. Dont get me wrong, he loves to cuddle and tells me he loves me all the time, but I dont know what to do, its sexually frustrating!!!!
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