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writes:Ok I have been with my boyfriend for a good while now and this is stupid but I figured I could get tips and advice here... So anyhow I was wanting to know what are somethings men like while in bed! Our sex life is wonderful and full of passion but I want to spice it up! Do things for him too... I'm just looking for tips and ideas to please him and make him wanting more! Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2009): The "male g-spot", or prostate gland, can really make an orgasm something totally else. Once he's getting near orgasm, try rubbing his perenium (the space between the scrotum & anus); you may feel a small, roundish, bump. That's the prostate, the gland where semen is made. Stimulating it by pressing (hard! don't hurt him, but you need to use some force) results in longer, more pleasurable orgasms. Also a good way to come when he's having a hard time.
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reader, Olivia(Y).  +, writes (28 May 2009):
 Men like different things.
My boyfriend likes it when i kiss his chest and neck and tell him things that i want him to do.
We have a rule that we can only use a sex position once in a week, it never works but it makes sex more fun when you try different things.
Mabey try getting some sexy underwear and some toys? They always spice up a night!! Fluffy handcuffs.. Tie him to the bed and kiss him all over, tease him.
You could try chocolate sauce! I got some Chocolate body paint from Ann Summers, it was something different and tasty!
Good luckk!!
Livia
xoxoxox
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (28 May 2009):
Okay (sigh). The threesome, bad idea and good for you.
The pictures, again, another bad idea.
Stick to your guns girl, and hold him up to your morals and don't let him undermine them, okay! You sound like a real sweetie. For him? He is beginning to worry me, on your behalf of course.
Be good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk thank you all very much.. To answer a question I am kind of bashful I hate my body! 5"4 98 lbs I'm very small so dressing up I want to do but I feel I can't! As far as blow jobs I do very frequently! The only thing he says he fanicizes about is him with two females which he knows that will never happen. And taking nude pics of me. Most men go all out when they fantasize but he don't so this is like a guessing game for me! I have told him my fantasies and he don't like the ideas of them I'm at a loss
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): I don't know what you already do.
So, sorry if these are some these suggestions are already things you practice.
Pay attention to his balls. When he is in you and they are accessible, take a hold of them, but not too hard. Some guys are too sensitive for this, but some love it. Some can deal with having their balls handled a little more roughly than others, and like it more.
Sex acts in strange places are good, sometimes a little uncomfortable, but can be fun. Outdoors (far away from the possible view of others of course!) is great.
Sex positions?
This is a passive role for you--Depending on his length and sensitivity this could be a good one--lie down flat on your tummy with your legs together. Let him enter you from behind and you don't have to move much, just enough. He will probably like this.
If he wants to try out being really passive, get on top of him and ride him while he's barely moving. Really get into it. Take on the more aggressive role of male dominant movement.
I don't know how sensitive you are, but if there are positions that he likes that don't bring you to orgasm (perhaps such as any position from behind), manually stimulate your clitorous while he's in you. He'll probably think it is very hot (if he's not so immature as to think that all stimulation has to come directly from him), and obviously it will feel great for you.
And then there's speed of movement. I am learning to gain more pleasure out of moments of faster movement from my partner, but sometimes it feels so good for both (at least from my experience, and naturally for me) to move a bit slower, really take in the sensation and movement of the other at a slower pace.
Of course, the surprise blowjob (unless he's really not in the mood for it), will make him happy. And when you're giving him a blow job (an you're not in a hurry), try to bring him almost to orgasm, but then stop and do something less stimulating until his arousal drops a bit. Then try again to bring him to orgasm. Do this one or two times. Teasing like this will bring him great pleasure when he actually does come.
These are just some things I've learned that the few men I've been with at least, really enjoy.
You probably already know this, but they love it when you are not afraid to try new things, and also when you suggest new things. The more you enjoy sex in general, the more they are happy, so try to enjoy yourself as much as possible. And if you haven't already, ask him if there's anything he's been fantasizing about or would like to try out with you, and tell him your ideas and fantasies as well.
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reader, usnavelvn +, writes (28 May 2009):
One thing I like to do is buy a can a whip cream and take turns putting on each other and licking it off. But you have to vow not to have sex until the can is gone. Personally I've never made it through a full can...
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reader, rocknroll +, writes (28 May 2009):
Men like a routine. We do not like the idea of always having to changing things up, it becomes burdonsome after a while.If things are going well, then I'd resume them the way they are. Now if there is something you would like to open doors up in the future, such as more thoughtful gestures, such as waking him up in the morning with a blow job (warning though, some men can be violent when woken up, my girlfriend found this out the hard way, but learned what she needed to do to bring me out of a deep sleep where I woke gently).Giving him a night cap blowjob before he goes to be (without him ejaculating but allowing him to drift off to sleep) is mind numbing!This could progress where he wakes up first or goes to bed last and does the same thing for you. Believe me, what a rush, makes you feel like you are either on cloud nine, or in paradise.
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