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writes:I'm trying to learn how to cum a lot. I'm aroused by my boyfriend, but he wants me to cum so he can actually see it flowing from me. Even though I would love to learn how to squirt, but that's out of the question right now. Please someone help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): growl.... (sorry this sort question really gets to me)
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http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-all-women-not-created-equal-.html
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reader, koenig  +, writes (31 May 2009):
It might not actually be possible for you to ejaculate or even for you to orgasm vaginally (if you do orgasm during sex, it could actually be due to clitoral stimulation).
Your boyfriend needs to understand this. Things that happen in porn, aren't necessarily common in real life. In fact, a lot of the time when women are seen to ejaculate in porn videos, it's real (they're either urinating or the fluid was put in their vagina prior to the "ejaculation").
It is possible, that you may be able to orgasm vaginally (without clitoral stimulation) or ejaculate through manual stimulation (either you or your partner using fingers). More likely than sex perhaps because it's hard to use the penis with much dexterity to hit the right spot.
Whatever you try, putting pressure on yourself to climax for someone else's benefit is only going to make it harder. Sex is much more enjoyable when you're relaxed and both just enjoying it for what it is.
A popular British science magazine, the New Scientist, actually ran a well researched article about this recently, I've included a link below.
http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg20227101.200-everything-you-always-wanted-to-know-about-female-ejaculation-but-were-afraid-to-ask.html?full=true
Good luck!
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