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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

We had sex, he pulled out, but could I be pregnant?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - i had unprotected sex last night and he pulled out onto my backside... i was wearing a thong tho (he jus pulled it aside when we were having sex) and he got his cum on it. i didnt take my underwear off until about 30 mins later. i jus had my period ...

Can I get an abortion at 14 without my parents approval?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - hello... 3 weeks ago i lost my virginity but we didnt use a condom and i went and got the morning after pill. but now i am sore and red and itchy in my virgina and i have white liquidy stuff coming out my virgina, it drips out when i use the b...

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's eagerness for a threesome?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Am I overreacting when my boyfriend is overly enthused about a threesome? I mean, I brought it up, but I just wanted to see what he would say. Now its all he can talk about, and he wants it with my best friend who is prettier than me and has bigger ...

I can't have without it hurting so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - I am 21 years old and my bf and I of 9 months have just started to have sex for the first time in our relationship. The problem is everytime we try I just clamp up and therefore when he tries to enter me, it hurts like hell! The pain is so bad. ...

We had the opportunity to have sex and did so but now he hasn't called!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - So this guy I've known my entire life, and loved my entire life finally kissed me. We have both wanted to openly for a long long time now but never had the oppertunity. Well knowing the oppertunity probably wouldn't come up again we had sex. I'm ...

She's controlling me with sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - So I am dating this girl and we have been have sex for a awhile but one day she randomly decided that she wouldn't have sex anymore because she's in a bad mood indefinitely. I feel its a power play on her part and so I told her to enjoy her time and ...

I masturbate so much I get headaches!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 13 year old girl. I started to masterbate when I, 7. Anyways, I masterbate like 4 to 6 times a day to the point where I have a bad headache. It's like I can't get enough... Is there something wrong with me???...

Am I supposed to feel bad after masturbating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Well I Am A 13 Year Old Girl almost 14 and i have Been Touching myself For about a year now And it feels really good but when ever i am finished i feel like really Dirty or what ever But i cant stop and i feel well kind of bad About myself. Is It ...

We haven't had sex in over 2 months

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Im 22 and I'm married to my middle school sweet heart, we have two kids together. My problem is that we haven't had sex in like 2 months. Our sex history was the greatest at least three times a day. And when we were in high school we would be ...

When he is inside me I don't feel him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - I have a problem with my bf. I cannot have sex with him because my vagina is too wide.When he is inside me i do not feel him. I am only 29, have no kids and started having sex at the age of 24 so i do not know why this is happening. With my previous ...

The sex felt different and now I'm scared about being pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

31 December 2009 (?) - please helppp! tonight my ex bf came over and we had sex. only like 2 hours ago. he is 18 and i jus turned 16 2 weeks ago. just by the way. and hes moving away to a different state this week. so anyway we had sex tonight (excuse me for this) but ...

Stomach pains after prostate massage... Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - I did some experimenting on my body tonight. I was masturbating when I noticed a cylinder shaped object about 12cm long. I decided to use it on my prostate (you know what that involves) using oil as lubrication. It was a pretty amazing experience, ...

Can using condoms & morning after pill be effective to prevent pregnancy and STDs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - out of genuine curiosity. my first time having sex with my boyfriend and we been together just over 9 months. we are long distance relationship but live only like 20 miles. we had our ups and our downs but we love each other nonetheless. ...

A lifestyle of just one night stands?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

31 December 2009 (M) - Thanks for all help in advance. Recently, my head has started acting up in spurts, as in giving me periods of strong urges to do sexual things (legal things, mind you), and to have sex w/people. Coupled w/the fact that I am awkward and unco...

I want to go all the way with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

31 December 2009 (F) - Okay so i have a question...me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now...but i always try to turn him on en he gets turned on and he turns me on too but then he changes the subject all over a sudden...en i really wanna go all the way ...

He said he wants a divorce over my refusal to have sex without a condom...how can I prove I love him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5422 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my husband since i was 15. we have been togethor for 5 years. and married for 1 year. we have 2 children. a 3 year old and a 6 month old. we have been through alot together. after a huge fight last year we were able to patch things ...

Sex w/o condoms safe?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Well, I'm a 15 year old male that has a very honest girlfriend. For the past year or so, we have been expiramenting with sexual touching, oral sex, ect,. When we we're on teh phone the other day, she asked me if I wanted to have sex. I told her I ...

Will my long labia be a turn off to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - i am 15 and i have extremely long inner labia and like all of my friends, well lets just say you cant even see theirs, and i dont know if it is abnormal. My boyfriend wants to go 'down there' and play around but i am nervous that he will be turned ...

Boyfriend asked if his was biggest

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I wanted to be honest and open with my boyfriend who I adore. It was about my past in bed, past boyfriends. I was only serious with one other. The question of size came up. It wasn't good, actually bad with my first serious boyfriend. Is great ...

How do you make it bigger?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - my penis is not so large and some time feel ashamed while havin sex how can i increase its lenght ...

First time sex and he wants me to plan everything

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex it is my first time but not his. He wants me to plan everything but idk what a comfortable position is. Can anyone please help me and tell me so i know. He also wants to know if he should finger me and eat ...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

Finger fun

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - want to make my girlfriend cum from touching/fingering her. is there any goog technigues positions to get her in. i can make her cum from oral but it would be nice to do it with fingers. I know it can happen because she told me she cums while ...

Tightness causing pain

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - hi does anyone have any advice. been with girlfriend for 3 years but she has an extremely tight vagina and it causes pain on entrance during sex. it is also hard for me to get it in and im only a normal average sized guy. she went docters and he s...

I want to masturbate and not sure how

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - hi i'm a teenager and i was just wondering how to masterrbate. what do i do with my fingers and how to i masturbate with a pillow and a bed. please help. thanks....

I'm really confused about my sexual feelings

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - hi im 17 year old male and im confused about my sexuality. i think i like boys, when i masterbate i think of them and i watch gay porn. ive been reading other questions and they seem to say that this dosent always mean your gay. ive been out wi...

Does a woman become clingy after losing her Virginity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - They say that when a woman loses her virginity to a man she becomes clingy. Is this true in all cases? In addition what are the other signs that a woman is truly a virgin, one pattern I have noticed is her behavior to make elaborate fantas...

How do you eat someone out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Right, well I feel a little weird posting here but I don't know where else to go. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while and she's been tickling with the idea of having me eat her out. Firstly, I had no idea what this meant unti...

I can't get over this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 8 months who moved away in august for another job. we weren't serious and he was very selfish and treated me poorly. i knew deep down i should have dumped him on date two, but i held on because i wanted a boyfriend. stupid, i ...

How can I get him to cum faster?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Okay, I recently started hooking up with a boy Ive known for a really long time, and I gave him head the other night. He said it was great and he did cum, but it took him FOREVER. My whole body is sore, my neck the worst. He said that he had alot of ...

Advice on sex and pregnancy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Hello all, I had a quick question concerning sex and pregnancy. I'm 36 weeks pregnant with our first baby and my boyfriend and I still have sex, its not as often as it once was, maybe only 3-5 times a week. My doctor never told us that we should ...

Why am I not able to get pleasure from oral with him anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my bf for about 3months and I've been having issues involving sex since the 3rd week. 1st 2 times we had sex he got me to orgasm with oral. Next time he tried I didn't feel much pleasure from it although he was doing the exact same ...

Why couldn't I get hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Okay so i had sex for the first time tonight and my girlfriend said she love it and we are doidn it again tomorrow. She seems honest but i really have hard time beliving it because for some odd odd reason i could not get hard. I was so ready and...

Why does my penis not discharge?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - i have had 4time sex with different different girls from past 4-5days. but after having sex my pennis doesnot discharge . . . . every time girl come angry that why ur penis does not discharging even girl come very tired?????????? so plzz suggest me ...

Could these be early symptoms of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Last Wednesday night my boyfriend and I had sex. It was the first time for both of us and it was something we were shy about but we wanted to do. We have been together for a year and we take things slow but, the night wasn't perfect of course ...

Is it okay to think of her when I masturbate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - hey, im 14 and has been in a relationship for a week, and i just wanted to know that is it ok for me to not master bate thinking of her,...

Why does he lose his erection during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - im 24 years old and my boyfriend is 42 when we have sex he loses his erection why is this? he stays hard when we have foreplay...

I have faked it for 10 years...help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

30 December 2009 (?) - i have had sex for 10 years and have never felt any sexual pleasure form it for ten years i have faked it. it hurts becasue my marriage is now over becasue it gets worst everytime, i know i wont feel nothing os i dont get horny. oral sex only gives ...

Can someone tell if you are having an orgasm in the shower?

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30 December 2009 (F) - I Orgasm in the shower at least once a day, most days more than that. I was wondering, I live with a roomate, do you think she knows what I'm doing in the shower? ...

Is it normal for me to have a higher sex drive than my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - been with my boyfriend for almost a year, we still have a passionate relationship and have sex up to 3-4 times a week, we try different things such as sex outside, sex against the wall, sex in different rooms, i love it and orgasm everytime... but i ...

I need to know all the risks of having sex!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - I know I'm too young. Thats what everybody says. But recently I've met a boy I really love, he loves me too. Trust me you haven't heard him. He wants to have sex with me. Please answer me. With all risks and everything, thank you. :)....

Did he get his ideas from a porn movie?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed ...

She didn't like finding out that I had oral sex before her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - Hello dear cupid,i'm new on this website so:i've been with my Gf for 3 years. i'm 23, and she is 22.The problem is that recently she asked me strange questions as: how many Gf did you sleep with, did they all give you blowjobs, did you like it.In ...

What do I do...Nina or Lily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 December 2009 (M) - I'll try to make this short. I'm a teenager and I have stupid teenage love problems, but I'd really like some help. There's this girl I was in love with for a few years, Lily, she was my first everything first girlfriend, first kiss, lost my ...

At 28, I resigned myself to a sexless relationship, but then I met someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Six years ago I met the man I thought was my soul mate. We moved in together and started our lives. Soon after moving in we realized there was something wrong with our sex life. It was non existent. My partner has a very low sex drive, so low that ...

He gets into things and then stops!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now, and we just starting doing stuff like handjob/fingering. He initiated it by touching me first and while doing that guiding my hand to him so that we were kind of doing the stuff at the same ...

Why does he feel anxious after awesome sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - My guy friend and i have been together for eight months we both say we agree we like our relationship how it is but lately he says he feels anxious about me after awesome sex why?...

I am interested in swinging but I worry the other men are too 'big' for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - My husband and I are very interested in swinging. I have been wanting to try this for years and now that we have discussed it for some time now we both are anxious to get into the game! I have a little fear though. I am small, height, weight and ...

He slept with a prostitute

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - i found out that my boyfriend of 7 years slept with a prostitute on a lads weekend. he had been to a STD clinic and i found the appointment slip. at first he tried to deny anthing and then admitted it. i asked him to leave, and he left the next day ...

Is he using me for sex? Friends with benefits maybe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Dr. Cupid, I'm in a real sticky situation. I'm seperated from my husband and i have been seeing this guy (best friend) for about 4+ months now. We see eachother 2-3 times per week. We have the best time when we are together and he did tell ...