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writes:when me and my boyfriend were having sex the other night, he got on top of me, then started rubbing his penis in between my boobs then stopping to put it in my mouth he kept on doing it, then he cummed all in my mouth and on my boobs, i enjoyed doing this but i just wanted to know why he did this because hes never done this with me before until now, and i know that people do those things in porn movies, do you think he got this from a porn movie or was it that he just wanted to try something new, dont get me wrong i liked it but i also felt a bit slutty afterwards and just wanted to know if what we done was normal and why he did that? any advice? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): of course he did!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Yes, he got the idea from porn.
REALLY? You liked that? Weird. Not bad weird. Just unexpected weird. Wow, you must really love that one. Slutty refers to promiscuity, not exoticness.
Although, perhaps he made you feel a little objectified, which might feel like dirty or ashamed. The idea here would be that you feel that as an equal and rational being, him getting off on you like he did was blindly self-centered and disrespectful. Of course, if you thought what he did was ok and not degrading at all, then by all means continue. As long as you are both enjoying it, right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): i might add that theres a little bit of slut in most of us. I dont think that because a couple likes to experiment, its a given that they got their ideas from porn. Im sure that some do, but im equally sure that some dont. If you both enjoyed it i wouldnt waste time trying to analyze it. Whats the point of that? Sex is meant to be enjoyed. If you did...woohoo! Mal
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): hey hameleon, i couldnt agree more. :)
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reader, hameleon89  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 marriedlady- i think he saw a new thing and just wanted to try with the person he has a relationship.No more explanation, if she liked it then i think they should continue experementing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): not neccessarily...but it is possible. guys like peniseseses and boobesssess. they like them together. :) mal
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reader, meg2989  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 Lol waht you did was perfectly normal, and if you liked it then thats all the better! Its okay to be slutty with your bf behind closed doors lol embrace it. Weather he got those ideas from porn or heard about it elsewhere, I couldn't tell you. Who knows maybe he has just always wanted to try it and now he finally had the oppurtunity. I wouldn't give it too much thought, unless he were like completly addicted to porn as in thats all he did and sexually ignored you ( which it does not soud like he does at all) then I really wouldnt worry about it lol. I hope that helps! Good luck and enjoy! ^_~
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reader, hameleon89 +, writes (30 December 2009):
Well i think he just tried something new, is seems great, and be happy for it.But unfortunetly, i think like everybody we do instrunct our selfs elsewhere.
Just enjoy, it's kinda cool that he tries something new)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): it's totally normal to do that and as long as you enjoyed it and feel you want to do it then its fine. My girlfriend and i also do things like this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): He probably did get it from porn. Nice and naughty :)
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