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writes:hiim 17 year old male and im confused about my sexuality. i think i like boys, when i masterbate i think of them and i watch gay porn. ive been reading other questions and they seem to say that this dosent always mean your gay.ive been out with a few girls but i dont really have any strong feelings about them, ive not had sex with them and i dont really think that i want to. ive never been out with a boy but i think that would be better for me, i think that all the boys at my school are stright so theres not an easy way to date a boy at the moment.i do some times think that some girls are pritty and some of my best freinds are girls, i used to think of girls all the time while i masterbated but them about 2 years ago i thought i would look at some gay porn and that turned my one alot more.me and my friend have masterbated each other penis's and i really like that.so am i gay bi or what im so confussed about everything. ps sry that is quite alot to read :) and thx in advance for your help :)
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reader, paulofessex +, writes (30 December 2009):
 Why are you trying to label yourself. You are you, your sexuality will work itself out given time. Try not to read into things too much. Mutal masterbation is more common than you think and this doesn't make you gay, nor does watching str8/gay porn. You are also not the only lad in your school who has these thoughts/feelings.
Try to relax, continue to do the things you enjoy i.e. porn etc. You will find things will get easier and clearer as you continue through school and hopefully college.
I would also suggest that you consider gaining the confidence to being truthful if anyone asks you about your sexuality i.e. 'You know l'm really not sure yet' that way you are also being truthful to yourself and not giving yourself extra pressure
Please let us know how things go
Best wishes
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reader, Aaron8466  +, writes (30 December 2009):
You may be gay or bi possibly but if you don't emotionally like them then most likely no.
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