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writes:hello... 3 weeks ago i lost my virginity but we didnt use a condom and i went and got the morning after pill.but now i am sore and red and itchy in my virgina and i have white liquidy stuff coming out my virgina, it drips out when i use the bathroom,i am very worries because i have also put on a little weight, does anyone know what this maybe and what i can do about it?also, if i am pregnant does anyone know if i can go to the doctors and get a abortion without my parents finding out if i am only 14 ? thanks xxxxxxx
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reader, CoolCaitlyn96  +, writes (15 June 2010):
I'm also 14 and was pregneat I wanted to get an aborsion but was scared because I didn't want to tell my parents. But his dad found out so yes you do need a parent to get an aborsion
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): Sweety don't forget that your parents love you and will try to help you.Whatever happens you shouldn't hide it from your mom.If you are pregnant or have an STD you have a bigger problem than your parents finding out and as you mature you will understand that better.The sooner you tell your mom and go to the doctor the better because even if the news is bad you will know what you are facing.Please never put yourself at risk like that again always have protected sex.Good luck with everything,god bless you
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2010): thanks for everything, im not sore anymore and no more white liquid it coming from my vagina its like its back to normal. although i am still going to go see a doctor on monday to take a pregnancy test and get a sti test.
if i get an sti test and i have anything, that can be treated with antibiotics will the doctors give me the antibiotics without my mum finding out?
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 January 2010):
 I went to the NHS website and saw this quote when it came to female vaginal problems for under 18s: "If you are under 18 and you have vaginal problems, or if you are caring for a child who has them, please call NHS Direct on 0845 4647 immediately." It sounds like an infection and you don't want to let that go untreated. It could also be that you are pregnant, but we have no way of knowing that here. You must contact the NHS for guidance.
It would be better if you told your mum so she can help you cope and make the appointments for you. The thing to remember is that your mum was your age once and probably remembers what it's like to be a scared teenager. Let her help you, okay? It would be for the best in the long run.
Take care.
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reader, john08 +, writes (2 January 2010):
as long as two doctors agree yes
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): I think in england you can have an abortion without parental consent and it doesn't cost anything on the NHS. Talk to your doctor, they can screen you for any STIs or pregnancies - then you can talk over your options and remember what ever you tell your doctor is confidential, they cannot go running to your parents. I promise you that. Go to the doctor, if its nothing then you will feel more at ease and if it is something then atleast they will be able to sort it for you. You most likely know this lesson by now i imagine with all the worry and stress but always use a condom.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (31 December 2009):
 You may have contracted a sexually transmited disease. Go see a doctor about it and get them to do a pregnancy test whilst you are there.
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reader, Advice_man +, writes (31 December 2009):
 Girl, you need to talk to your parents immediadely!! They will find out sooner or later. You need their support on this, plus you cannot even afford a doctor at age of 14. Definately talk this with your parents. May God be with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): Most likely , you have chlamydia , you should go to the doctors
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