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writes:So this guy I've known my entire life, and loved my entire life finally kissed me. We have both wanted to openly for a long long time now but never had the oppertunity. Well knowing the oppertunity probably wouldn't come up again we had sex. I'm going to be seeing him soon and I don't think he knows how much i like him. I'm also worried he thinks I'm a slut because I slept with him, but it's only because I like him so much. Anyways i don't know what to do because if he just wants to bang I would be so hurt. Every guy always just wants one thing... that's no lie. Since I've known him so long I was hopeing he would think this was a big deal too. He hasen't tried to get intouch with me and it's been over two weeks. I don't know how to act when I see him in two weeks! Please help!
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reader, toribabee  +, writes (31 December 2009):
 really, if he had sex with you im sure he has some feeling for you, he probably likes you alot. okay so listen, i think i know why he isnt talking to you. its because he feels awkward. after you guys had sex he probably felt awkward because it is like the highest point of love. and he has probably been avoiding you because he is afraid you will bring it up and he will not know what to say or he is afraid you didnt like the experience with him. so i would try talking to him and saying hey listen, do you like me because i like you alot but i dont want to be used as a sex toy and if he likes you he likes you if he doesnt you dont deserve him and its not meant to be! you know wat i mean?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
It's not true that every guy just wants one thing. I didn't, and there are others who don't. But it sounds to me like this guy did, because 2 weeks is a long time to wait before getting back into touch. I think you've been used. Sorry to say that, because it doesn't sound like you deserved it. But if you're thinking that all men want just one thing, maybe you're meeting the wrong guys. We're not all rubbish. Take time to focus on your own life, and make very sure that when you're with a guy he likes you and doesn't just want you for sex.
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