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writes:hi does anyone have any advice.been with girlfriend for 3 years but she has an extremely tight vagina and it causes pain on entrance during sex. it is also hard for me to get it in and im only a normal average sized guy. she went docters and he said she was nturally tight and there wasnt much natural moisture. he said make sure she was fully aroused before penetration. even then she does not become very wet. for example never once has there been a drop of moisture on her knickers when taking them off before sex. friends tell me stories where there partners panties are soacked. how can we get her a little bit more stretched without hurting her as two fingers cause her massive strain at the moment. she also dont want to use any type of lube as she says this is false. Please help?
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x +, writes (31 December 2009):
 You can buy flavoured lubes. Maybe try telling her that you'd heard about this idea from a friend, and you really wanted to try it out. A fantasy as such. When she sees how much more you enjoy it, she'll keep doing it. It will also make it a lot better for her. She shouldn't feel as sore afterwards (if she does, and I'm just assuming she does. I apologise if I'm wrong) as the lube will make penetration easier and not rub as much. Good luck xx
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reader, WiseGuy710  +, writes (30 December 2009):
I have been with my wife over three years, and she has the same problem. Something that I realized is that it's not a problem from her. Some things that you can do is use lubricants to help the flow of things.
Sometimes I know that if you don't get it right, she loses her "enthusiasm" for it and everyone is unhappy. I've looked it up and read that for women that are that "tight", it's mainly a mix between getting her REALLY aroused and using lubricants. The psychological aspect is minimal, and it doesn't hurt if she can tolerate pain as well. For women that can't, it can make it extremely uncomfortable.
I suggest that you use something like Astroglide, or something that you can pick up at your local pharmacy or sex shop.
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reader, me sad face  +, writes (30 December 2009):
u should be useing lube dude obviously she was a virgin and u would to be her first get ice lube and u need to stretch a girls hymen (cheery) befor she will enjoy sex it needs to be done man just use lube take it easy.lol
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reader, pril +, writes (30 December 2009):
Tell her lube will make it better for her and u. Ask her just to try it one time. She will like it trust me. It will make it so much better.
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