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writes: please helppp! tonight my ex bf came over and we had sex. only like 2 hours ago. he is 18 and i jus turned 16 2 weeks ago. just by the way. and hes moving away to a different state this week. so anyway we had sex tonight (excuse me for this) but we did it with me on all fours and him behind me. im not on birth control and we didnt use a condom but he pulled out. which i know is a bad idea but we used to do it like that all the time ( we were together 6 months and had sex almost everyday) and i never got pregnant. but tonight he did something different.. he did it like harder i guess and it felt like he was hitting something inside me really hard and it hurt a lot. so 2 questions, what are the chances that i am pregnant if my last period was from the 19th - the 24th of this month (its the 30th now), and what was he hitting inside of me and will this have an effect on the chances of me being pregnant?please help im pretty nervous =/!!!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (31 December 2009):
I'm a man, so to be honest my advice is limited. But I can say if you're not on birth control and he did't use a condom, there's always going to be a high chance you're pregnant. So sorry to sound like your father here, but use please use protection from now on, and if you can get the emergency pill, get it now.
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reader, rydog  +, writes (31 December 2009):
did you have an orgasm? that may effect your chance of becoming pregnant
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reader, lLady Soldier +, writes (31 December 2009):
 Ok let's go!
The pain couldve either been from having sex too hard or it could be the fact that you are pregnant, it has happened to me and I ended up being pregnant. It is different for everyone, so dont worry too much, but prepare yourself.
The more you worry the longer it will take for you to get your period if you are not pregnant, but if you are you need to consult with planned parenthood, thats what I did.
You wiill not know if you are pregnant for another month or so, but you need to do research and figure out what you would do if you are. I got an abortion because at the time I was 17 and I knew that I wasnt prepared for anything as extreme as taking the responsibility of another human. It is a HUGEEEEEEEEEEE responsibility and you need to think about your future. Whether to tell your exboyfriend or not is your decision, but you need to be smart.
If you have any other questions you can email me at [email address blocked]
I hope I helped!!
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