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writes:want to make my girlfriend cum from touching/fingering her. is there any goog technigues positions to get her in. i can make her cum from oral but it would be nice to do it with fingers. I know it can happen because she told me she cums while masterbating Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): the first three said it all. I say, 'strewth mate.' mal
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (30 December 2009):
 "Finger cum"
In sexual play, what one understand by 'foreplay' is it is sensual play, Oral and Fingering is in essence belong to sense of touch, rather than 'intercourse'. The penetration through male sex organ and through finger has different effect. When finger is used as penetrative devices, then there is nothing like 'ejaculation'. When finger is used, it is also highly charged with sexual energy, and it give unbelievable height of sexual pleasure. The reason is this: The substance 'semen', is preserved and work with high efficiency in spreading the wave [or vibration] of energy. Where as in 'intercourse', the very substance 'semen' is put under pressure through pumping motion to 'ejaculate' and hence it cannot lead any 'orgasm' but it give 'jerk' to male body, and and quick relaxation and 'switch off'. Where as female remain totally unaffected with this 'ejaculation', almost without feeling pleasure or 'orgasm', which is highest point of pleasure.
If you apply skill of fingering with this knowledge, then both will be in driving seat, and feel able to control and direct their sensual play, to bring as many 'orgasm' as deem necessary, and that even with mutual consent through discussion, appreciation, and nice talk!!!
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reader, old-spinstah  +, writes (30 December 2009):
Ask you to show you or ask her to guide your hand/finger
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 December 2009):
The best thing to do is to get her to show you what she would like. If she knows what will work for her, then she will be able to enlighten you to how she wants it.
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