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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Ok here goes, I've had anal sex for the first time and think I'm pregnant but my mom does not know this and she'a making me take a laxative, can it harm my unborn child?...

I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever from my wife...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - I need love so bad and can't get any hardly ever. I don't look bad 210 and 5 11, a small gut but oh well. What is a man to do to get some sex back in his life? I have tried a lot of things with my wife, but nothing really changes, everything is ju...

When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe ...

I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - hi. I need help. I masterbate quite a lot, but I'm getting bored of using my fingers. I recently rubbed myself against a teddy and it felt really good but I'd like to know if there's any other way of pleasuring myself without using toys. tha...

I offered him oral on our third date, after that he did not utter a word to me! Your opinions about his change in behaviour?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi...I've met a guy..we've been out three times... I gave him oral(my first)...and after he came he was all weird. he didn't say a word to me. He just took me home without kissing me godbye. This happened three days ago and I haven't heard from him ...

I mistakenly touched my private area after playing with his penis, what are the risks in this case?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were together last night,, that is only kising, hugging and sort of things, i was playing with his penis and he was almost cumming on my hands, i mistakely placed my hand in my private part, is there any possiblity for me t...

Getting pregnant through clothing material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - is it possible to get pregnant through clothing material?...

I had to kick my boyfriend out, he's still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - How do you get over a bad breakup? Tonight I had to kick my boyfriend out after I found out he is still seeing the guy he'd been cheating on with me, see http://www.dearc...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

Could I have been that bad in bed, that he didn't want sex with me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - A couple weeks ago, me and a guy friend slept together. We met through a mutual friend but we've only known eachother a few months, it's not like we're really close or know eachother realy well. Well i was attracted to him, and he seemed into me, ...

I'm nervous to be seen naked by my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend but I am kinda nervous being naked around him! I've tried to like get over it but it just wont go away! I really like my boyfriend and he would never force me to do anything I didnt like! I am dying to ...

I have a terrible issue with her past as she has slept with around 30 guys to my 6 women.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - First of all I am in a long distance relationship with a girl (33) who I have been seeing for the past year. She moved back to another European country 6 months ago. We fell very much in love, but like many guys I have a terrible issue with her...

MY boyfriend wishes for me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6012 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - MY boyfriend wants me to give him oral.... I'm a virgin and I don't know how to do it.... I'm kinda nervous about it... do I swallow or spit..? What exactly do I do? Can you get STD's? Do you use a condom? I don't know. Please help if you can ! ...

I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

31 March 2008 (?) - I have a SEXY sexy sexy boyfriend. I love him so much. I'm always craving sex form him.... is that normal.... like he'll send me a text saying "Mmm baby I want you" and I automatically get horny .Is that normal to get that way over nothing ? I'm ...

When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4662 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee? like I mean when I'm with my guy, it feels like im going to pee and even when he's doing oral stuff on me.. i feel like im going to pee, is that normal? im afraid I will so I alway...

I've never bled before while having sex but I did this time. What could have happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I were in bed, and he started to finger me, it hurt a bit, I'm not sure why because I'm not a virgin or anything and he's fingerd me before, after a while I noticed I was bleeding, what could have happened? ...

Vibrators how often is too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Hi Guys, just a question about vibrators? Is it bad for you to use them a lot??? I use mine almost everyday I cant help it!!!! help!!!...

I can't quite orgasm! How can I 'finish up'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I masturbate, but I can't seem to orgasm! I've come close, but I can't seem to get there. My boyfriend fingered me, and I couldn't come then, either. Is fingering just not my thing?...

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant. What should I do?...

Why won't he give me more oral?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

30 March 2008 (?) - I give my long-term bf oral almost every day, but I only really get oral once a week maybe.. He does it so well and I love it, he knows i do, but he just never gives me it as often as i'd like.. He knows I like it. I've tried stopping giving h...

Ok I'm sooooo not gay or bi so what's the deal with these feelings I have about my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Just to Let You know that i'm not gay or Bisexual! Okay..I had a crush on this English Teacher. She is young and really pretty and in her 20s (But i'm not gay..i'm straight). this all started since the school trip last june. Yeah..i lik...

The joys of oral sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for almost two years now. At the begining I was afraid to tell her that I enjoyed giving rather than receiving oral sex. Since she seemed to enjoy it so much I never said anything, but after a while she started to ...

'How.......?'

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - How can I please my boyfriend in bed?...

How come I don't want sex as much any more? Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend thinks that I am cheating on him because I don't want sex. We've had sex before and are engaged to get married sometime next year. For the past month I haven't felt the want to have sex with him. Now he thinks that I am getting it ...

What's the least painful way to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hey guys. My boyfirend and I have been dating for about 1 1/2 now. Me and boyfriend talked about having sex and we're both ready to have sex. I talked to my mom about it and she helped me get the birth control pills. I've been on them for about 2 ...

I don't feel ready... but he does.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I really need help. I recently got this boyfriend and we like each other alot. He is a couple years older and I feel that I need to be up to his standards. I feel too young to be doing anything and I don't want to but I feel pressured and I feel ...

Survey: how old were you when you performed your first fellatio, did you choose a special person and did you like it from the very beginning?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I have question for you women and girl on this site: How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? The reason I ask is that I went to high school in a small town in the 1970s, before oral sex was known. So I am curious as to when to when girls ...

She's had more sex experience than me and I'm still a virgin, could we just keep it platonic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 17, and I've never really had a proper gf until now. I'm a very innocent virgin, but I've met this girl who's 17 too and I think I'm madly in love. But she has so much sexual experience; long term relationships, casual sex, same-sex se...

All he wants me to do is give him oral sex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I've only been with my boyfriend a month, and at first he couldn't wait to have sex. We had sex twice and it wasn't all that good. I was more than willing to give it another chance for his sake. Now all he wants me to do is give him oral sex. Now i'...

Married one year and I've never had sex because I lose my erection whenever I attempt intercourse! Where can I get treatment in the Netherlands or anywhwere else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - i am married 1 year before still i dont have sex with my wife. becoase when i try to insert my pene into my wifes virgina. my peney was going down(become strongless) so i am so sad that i cant have a sex with my wife. i thing it was related mental ...

I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on 27/03/08, which also was the day after my period ended. It only lasted like 40 seconds but niether of us ejaculated so to speak. I'm paroniod because my lower stomach makes noises sometimes and kind of move...

Please tell us how can we satisfy our feelings without sex or oral kisses?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I love my g/f very much, i'm 21 and she's 19. I even want to marry her...and she too wants marry me....but whenever we go for a long drive... we make lots of love. Sometimes we get horny...but i have not touched her naked body or lip kissed her y...

How can I reduce my sexual interest??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I am not getting sexual satisfaction as i have expected that minimum once or twice a day with my wife. But my wife is not ready to cope up with this, she simply forcefully agrees and shows no interest. This becomes a big headache for me. I dont w...

I'm on a pill break, why do I have this 'spotting' ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hello. I'm recentely on Microgynon 30 and I've not missed any pills. I was a bit late say for 1 hour on some of the last pills and at the moment I'm on my pill break for 7 days. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend but he did not ejaculate in...

My boyfriend wont talk to me until I tell him if I will have sex with him or not

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and he is younger then me, he said when he turns 18 will i have sex with him, and now he wont talk to me until i answer him with yes or no help! stuck in the middle ...

I need to know urgentyl whose fluid was running down my leg when we were having sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Ok, me and my boyfriend were having sex, and towards the end I started feeling this liquid running down my leg. So I told him to stop and pull out because I thought it might have been cum, but he didn't cum until he pulled out. So I'm kind of ...

Help!-I am obsessed with my mom!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Ok,this sounds very creepy but,ever since i was 8 i have wanted to have sex with my mom Extremely Badly!! i mean u have no idea.i am only 13 but you know i have had soo many dreams about having sex with her and i just cant tell her how i feel. i mean...

How do we know if emergency contraceptive will work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Hi I posted about how you tell if a condom's split before and thanks for the replies to that one. But speak of the devil, today the condom did split!! Atleast now I know how to tell... anyway, here's the thing: my gf is on day 7 of her cycle ie ...

I divorced my mean husband but my new older boyfriend also prefers to save rather than spend although otherwise he is an sexy and attentive lover. Should I stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I divorced my husband of 22 years. I wanted to leaves for years. He is selfish and unkind and very mean with money. We always argue over money cuz he just want to save. I met this new man 18 years older than me right after my divorce. His ...

Is emotional arousal for women the same as porn for men?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - okay just wanting some point of views i brought this up in another question and some said it was interesting so here it is exact question: just curious and this might get a rise out of a few people and i don't agree with the writer i feel its wrong ...

My sheets were stained with blood..was it from my period starting??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi, just wondering if anyone could help, i am 18years old and have been with my bf for 2years and sexually active for 1. I usually have regular period cycles, starting between 1st-6th of every month, but on wednesday after sex, i found the sheets ...

We have two children, he says he loves me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man i thought was the one for me we have 2 children together and we have not long split up. We have still been having sex but he has a new girlfried. He says he doesn't love her and he is only with her because her aunt...

Only been married a year and my wifes gone off sex!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - We are married for a year but we seldom have penetrative sex (almost none). My wife says its the trouble of her professional career (not finding a good job) thats putting her off sex. I have been co-operative but its getting on me now.. pls help.....

How long will this take to heal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - i have recentley had an operation for testicular torsion,and i was wondering how long it will take to heal and how long i must wait to be able to have sex? thankyou to anyone who knows the answer....

Should I ask her to let me watch porn to get me aroused when we have sex?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Been in a relationship with a girl for 5 years now... she's my second long-term girlfriend. Before I met her I was into porn, and lad mags, and generally just liked looking at women all the time. After I ended my relationship with my first long term ...

My boyfriend wants us to stay exactly the way we are... but without the sex!!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year has just broken up with me stating he does not love me. He said he just doesn't feel the same way for me as I do for him. He was having problems sexually and I don't know if this is having a bearing on things. Anyway, he ...

Any tips on going on top and dominating in general?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6074 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi. How do i go on top, missionary style. I've been having sex for the past 4 months with my boyfriend (I lost my virginity to him) and every time he's been on top but I want to take a bit more control and surprise him and be on top for once. ...

Are there any alternatives to shaving or waxing 'down there'?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Personally, I think that it's more attractive to be totally hairless 'down there,' but I've got incredibly sensitive skin, and whenever I shave it gets red and bumpy, and ingrown hairs all the time, which is even more unattractive! Most unfortuna...

Any tips to be sexually aggressive in the bedroom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hey- My bf absolutely loves to be controlled during sexual activities. It's odd, because he's normally the more agressive one and I the more passive, but it's totally different during our personal encounters. Is there a reason for that? Anyone hav...

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two...