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Help!-I am obsessed with my mom!

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Question - (29 March 2008) 10 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *reaksk8r writes:

Ok,this sounds very creepy but,ever since i was 8 i have wanted to have sex with my mom Extremely Badly!! i mean u have no idea.i am only 13 but you know i have had soo many dreams about having sex with her and i just cant tell her how i feel.

i mean she is funny very outgoing we always talk inappropriately.we get along great.my dream has been to have sex with her.she is very beautiful and sexy.i m afraid if i dont ask soon,she will get older and uglier.what do i do!!!?? should i ask?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2008):

people may say sex with momcrazy.but moms also fantasy sexual bouts with growing sons.servey may reveal this.what is taboo today may be a normal and acceptable behaviour tomorrow.during my adolescence my mother would squeeze me ,pasionately kiss in the night &i would so sexually get arousedthat iwould then slowly undress her naked. she would then become sexually hot and undrss me naked.our sexual intercourse was so pasionate she would scream for more.she would tell me in my ear lying naked that ishould fuc again.consenting sex cant be stopped.my mother told me she gets heavenly sexual pleasure when she has intercourse with me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008):

Hey,

Well you hit the first step, you are being honest with yourself. This is a normal complex that some people experience growing up. In your case, as a boy, it is the Oedipus Complex. For a girl, it is the Electra complex. You can look stuff up on it, get some insight, and perhaps realizing that it is just a base impulse, you might get in touch with what feelings you are really going through. Your mom may not look so hot after you realize that you are going through something that is probably a leftover from prehistoric days. You are more evolved now, as a human, and can make better choices...

Ignore the guilt-trippers, they just want others to feel as miserable and repressed, as they do.

If you find that the obsession becomes so much that you lose your impulse control, and you think you might actually act out, please seek professional counseling.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

Umm kay, babydoll.. have you ever heard of a man named JESUS? If you don't know him, maybe you should get to know him. One of the guys that responded to your situation is as confused as you are. It is, however, LUST. I do agree. The reason you are feeling like this is satan offered the idea to your mind, and you do not understand that thoughts are offered to us on a daily basis which we can choose to recieve as our own or rebuke it and place it aside. I think you just THINK you want to have sex with your mother. You may be fascinated with the idea. I suggest you read your bible, and focus on other things. Each time the thought comes to mind and is offered to you rebuke it in the name of Jesus. THis is the only way to change your mindset. Hope it helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008):

Don't bother asking - you're just a horny teenager, and there are plenty of other women out there. You are feeling lust, not love for your mother, which is obvious by "I'm worried she will get old and ugly." So once she is old and ugly, you just toss her aside like a 1 night stand? Your mom deserves better. I understand the desire to have sex with your own mom, I admit, it is a desire I have shared. My mom is 50, like 100 pounds overweight, and really not attractive, but I would have sex with her because I love her. If you are just lusting after her body, then don't try - you'll only ruin your relationship with her.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

I've never seen my mother in this way or ever wanted to have sex with her, but being a psychologist I see a lot of these cases. No matter how many people deny it, it is actually normal especially during your teen years. Most likely you will get over it, but if you get married, you will realize that your wife is shocking similar to your mother. If you feel you cannot stop thinking about it, then just talk to your mother about it and get everything sorted out. Hope this helps.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008):

I have had a sexual obsession with my mum since I was more or less the same age, I am now thirty. Having sex with my mother is the only thing I have allways wanted to do, my mother comes from a strict and staight background and I am fairly sure this is why I have never approached the subject with her. I make do with masterbating to the smell of her dirty panties and sox and when she is away on holiday I lounge around her house in her underwear and make use of her sex toys. I would love for my fantasies to come true but I think this will never happen.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008):

Of course you do dear...

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A female reader, brooke5426 United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

brooke5426 agony auntthis question is obviously fake. an 8 year old who wants to have sex with his mum? please. but on the tiny but unlikely chance it is real, no you should not tell your mum. she will be disgusted but you should tell her about whichever form of sexual abuse you have suffered which made you think in a sexual manner at all at 8 years old let alone think sexual thoughts about an adult in your immediate family.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (29 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntMy darling, I think you seriously need to find yourself a girlfriend and these thoughts will fade from your mind, eventually.

Whether your mum be horrified or flattered, it's just doesn't seem right. I'm sure your mum is gorgeous and hot,

but you can't have her in that way.

Like many other teenagers like yourself your hormones are wild, yours probably way far beyond others. It's a feeling that 'should' disappear in time, once you have a girlfriend and occupied your mind - your fantasies will venture elsewhere.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008):

i think ur confusing ur unconditional love for your mother as lust. u cant tell her, ul freak her out and ull ruin her and urs life. any normal mother wouldnt dare sleep with their child, she'd ratha disown them. u got serious issues, deeply suggest u get help cuz dats sum fucked up shit ur dealing with. sort it out b4 it gets worse

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