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writes:I really need help. I recently got this boyfriend and we like each other alot. He is a couple years older and I feel that I need to be up to his standards. I feel too young to be doing anything and I don't want to but I feel pressured and I feel that I need to to keep this relationship. He has told me that "having fun" balances a relationship. I guess he wants to do stuff cuz he is older and ready but I am not and I've told him that I don't want it to be like that.. but I guess he doesn't understand. I am very confused as of what to do.. I want to stay with him but I want him to understand... it hasn't even been long since we met and I think he is taking it way too fast.. it can't be that he only wants to do stuff cuz he is like in love with me, not really but you know what I mean.. btw I am only 15.help please? thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks babes, means alot. 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): If your not ready don't do it . I have an older boyfriend and I also don't feel ready and I felt the same as you do. I told him I wasn't ready and he accepted it. Don't give in if you ur not ready !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2008): Hunny
You are a very wise young lady, Do not ever let anyone pressure you no matter what..If he really cares for you sweetheart he will wait, You are young and not ready and he should appreciate your choice so hunny if he does go off because you dont wish to do anything then let him as he is not for you...If you need a chat at anytime sweetpea message me WITH LOTS OF LOVE N SQUISHY HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, MissKin +, writes (29 March 2008):
 The major problem with being someone older when you're still so young yourself is the problem you're facing right now - you often find yourself at very different stages to one another. Don't let yourself do anything you're not ready to. It's natural to feel pressured - but it's not right to give into it. I think if you've explained to him that ur not ready, that u don't want to do anything and he's guilting you into it or making u feel pressured and isn't willing to listen to how you feel then you shouldn't be with him. If he cared about you, i mean really truly cared about you, he'd be more understanding.
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