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writes:I masturbate, but I can't seem to orgasm! I've come close, but I can't seem to get there. My boyfriend fingered me, and I couldn't come then, either. Is fingering just not my thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): You definately need to learn to masturbate so you know what works for you. Try the Magic Wand by Hitachi and you won't ever have a problem again.
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reader, Cindy303 +, writes (31 March 2008):
 Sometimes you need to just enjoy the feelings you have during the playful period and dont worry about the orgasm. As a woman, I have found that I usually climax when I have clitoral stimulation. I would relax and just take your time and enjoy what you are feeling. If you are uptight or focus on your body having an orgasm, it wont happen. You are also young still. Take it slow, relax and enjoy yourself. Best Wishes,
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Try giving it a few days in between playing with yourself. Try to totally relax and allow your frame of mind to be taken over by lustful thoughts and start slowly, with or without your b/fs help, to work yourself off with the thought of how pleasureable the feeling is. Don't try to achieve an 'ending', just enjoy the feeling of being touched for what it is, not what it can achieve and you will eventually get there.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (30 March 2008):
 Could be, depends what you mean by it. Clitoral stimulation is more important it seems then vaginal penitration.
If you only insert a finger, then it might simply not be enough. Explore around some more, also remember that for women the mental state is important, if you are too nervous or stressed it just won't happen.
You could also simply be too young.
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