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Question - (30 March 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How can I please my boyfriend in bed?

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A male reader, Baby boy United States +, writes (30 March 2008):

Baby boy agony auntyou know him best so just ask.if not,expeiriment with new things untill you find something he likes.men dont shy easy so dont be afraid to try new things.my girlfriend constantly pushes the bar in our sex life and i couldent be more happy.(dont be shy)

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (30 March 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntNot every man is the same .

You can find out what he likes by trial and error.

What is meat to a man ,maybe poison to another.

Happy experimenting and you can Google your questions for more tips online.

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A male reader, Namatjira United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

It is all a bit trial and error. However if you both tell each other what feels good and when the other has got it right, then it will work out. Each person is a little different so what feels right for one will not quite hit the spot for someone else.

I do advise you in wanting to pleasure him, do not forget about yourself. While there are a lot of selfish guys out there who do not really care about how to please their woman, there are also a lot of guys who get really turned on when they know they have really turned on their partner. So make sure you tell him when it feels good for you. Also, don't fake it. A lot of guys can't tell, but some can and it never does well. It is all about you as much as him and if you fake it you are cheating him as well as yourself.

One last thing, respect the delicate bits and only get rough with them if he tells you clearly that is what he wants.

Good luck.

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A male reader, medic999 United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

Honey....the others' advice sounds great...honestly..but perhaps you could sit with him when you are both aroused and before you begin making love, ask him what he would like, what he'd like you to do"? tis a suggestion but worth a try!

:)

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A female reader, Tanyas247 United States +, writes (30 March 2008):

Tanyas247 agony auntWhen you say "please him in bed," what do you mean? If he ends up ejaculating, you shouldn't worry too much. I hope he is thinking the same way about you, as men can be selfish in bed. As a teen, I hope you are considering pregnancy and disease prevention as well.

Best to you.

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A female reader, BigSis United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

BigSis agony auntMy darling, you could bounce up and down and see how high you can go...he would love it! You both would come to think of it. I do, it's very pleasing.

No seriously, (sorry about that) There are so many things you can do, they loved to be caressed and stroked, teased and kissed all over...get that foreplay going. It will all come naturally, to both of you.

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