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My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant.

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Question - (30 March 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant. What should I do?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

Use an additional form of birth control, such as the pill. Seems a rather obvious solution, no?

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (30 March 2008):

LazyGuy agony auntGet on the pill or another female birth control method?

You can also use the extra strong kind meant for anal sex. They are thicker and therefor less prone to tearing. If a condom is put on correctly it doesn't tear, practice and make sure you got plenty of spares.

Also, your boyfriend wants to have sex with you. Do you want to have sex with him? Is your fear just a way of saying you don't feel ready yet? No shame in that, if you don't want to, you don't want to.

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A male reader, lifecycle United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

I agree, there is a very low chance of the comdom breaking. If your still worried and you dont feel comfortable, maybe the pill could ease your mind.

Just relax, and take care x

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A female reader, -NothingLasts4ever- United Kingdom +, writes (30 March 2008):

-NothingLasts4ever- agony auntThe chances of the condom splitting are low... very low. And if the condom does split, you could always take the morning after pill.

But the chances of it splitting are very low so i wouldn't worry about it, go and have fun with your boyfriend =]

xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008):

Condoms splitting is not a common occurrence. It's only ever happened to me once in my whole life. If you go on the pill or have a coil fitted as well, it'll be a 'belt and braces' approach and the chances of getting pregnant will be drastically reduced to just about nigh on impossible.

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