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Archived questions from: January, 2008 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

19, I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I am now 19 years and I totally lost my sexual desire 2 years ago. I also consulted a doctor who checked my hormone that appeared to be normal. Whats my problem and how can I solve it? ...

We don't have a good sex life because of a bad experience in my past, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 years and recently got engaged! the problem is that we dont have a great sex life! I had a bad experience with an ex boyfriend (which i dont relly want to go into). I dont really think about it any mor...

Cut or uncut, what do girls prefer?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Do women prefer foreskin or no foreskin?...

He hates condoms!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (?) - I've recently began having sex with my boyfriend, and I went on the pill, so we could have unprotected sex together (as we know we have no STIs and are regularly checked anyway). Yet, now I've decided to not be on the pill, as its easier if he just ...

A good position for our first intimate encounter? (we are both not virgins)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - i've been friends with this girl for a while now but i think we are ready to get intimate now. i want this to be comfortable, she's definitly not a virgin and i'm not either but what would be a good position to start off with. ladies any help would ...

I have two men on the go at the moment. Any insight into this?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I have found myself in a situation where I have two men in love with me, both of which are younger than myself. I am petite, successful, educated and attractive, look many years younger than my age (41). I do not feel comfortable with having two ...

My fiance doesn't want sex with me anymore...

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5156 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I am 23yr old and i have been with my fiance for 4yrs. Over the last year or so he has become less and less interested in sex with me all he wants is handjobs. I understand that this might be something he is into but it just seems its all about him, ...

Is my partner finding fault in my sexual performance, if she wants a vibrator?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - My girlfriend wants a vibrator, but I don't want her to. Why does she want one? Is it becuase I'm terrible in bed? Will she ever want sex again?...

I'm embarassed at my friends' behaviour. Was it my fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - They had Sex in my presence, I am unable to come from that trauma..... Dear My plight is a v troublesome one. I belong to a traditional indian background, am a virgin bachlor female in mid twenties.I had two best friends, a female-23, and m...

She wants to start birth control but her mother wont let her

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend have been having sex for 6 months now and recentley she had to go get the morning after pill due to a split in a condom.i now find it hard to trust a condom in case it splits again, i know the chances are very low but i am ...

Is it normal to want sex when he comes near me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - I am 46 and just met this man 64. We gets on well and have been together for 6 months now. We have sex 3 or 4 times a week. I really enjoy it. We dont live together and just see each other 3 times a week. And recently he starts to complain I am ...

I'm undecided - should I give in to my brother's urges and have sex with him?

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 5647 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - My brother trying to seduce me. He's been trying for a long time, from time to time he was making a move on me, but now I think he's serious. When we were in early teens (13-15) we already had a kind of sexual relationship with him - we've been tou...

My girlfriend has a high sex drive, its driving me crazy, is there something wrong with her?

This question has 209 answers - newest was posted 4485 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - this is a question mostly for the ladies- how high is your sex drive? I am asking because I am with a girl who is just about insatiable, we've been going out for three years and she's ALWAYS after sex. All the time! In the beginning we had it two o...

My boyfriend won't go down on me anymore, any ideas?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

31 January 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. We're both in our early - mid 20's. When we first started dating for about the first 3 months he would ALWAYS give me oral sex(though not very good) and always talked about how much he liked giving ...

What's wrong with 'My Guy'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

31 January 2008 (M) - Ok today i was gonna have sex with my gf and for some reason i just couldnt get it up...i mean it would get hard but when id put the condom on and go for the kill nothing my guy just couldnt perform...whats wrong with me?...

Is talking dirty to my college teacher wrong?, I'm 18 he's 31

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - I am talking dirty with a teacher and i dont know what i should do? It started last week when i seen him out in a club. We got chatting and then i emailed him via the college and said i was sorry if i said anything i shouldnt because i was so drunk ...

Me and my guy are ready for sex. Will it hurt?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Me and my bf have been together a long time, and he and I both feel we are ready to have sex. But.. Im scared it will hurt. I was just wondering.. is the pain realy bad? I have been horse riding for 13 years now and I heard that can break your hym...

Information about spermicide. Is there any risk of pregnancy in given situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - does spermcide really work? B/c i bought a box full of thin desolving spermcide where u put it in u and wait for 15 minutes then have sex. but my boyfriend thought it was ok birth control so he cummed in me. is there a chance where i can be pr...

Should I give blow jobs at parties because all my friends do it?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - i am 16 and go to quite a lot of parties with people my age (house parties) whenever i go all my friends go and give head (blow jobs) and seem to think nothing of it. and some of then often have the favour returned. i am th eonly one who doesn't ...

My ex wants sex. Does she still love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - My ex-fiance said she broke up with me over my temper,I got mad because she would not tell another guy to stop calling her while I was present. She said she had nothing to say to him, she recently said he does the same thing to his ex-wife. She says ...

Once a month sex life ...if I'm lucky

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - My bf and I are very much in love with each other and planning a long term future together, only problem is he says he has a very low sex drive. We only have sex about once a month which to be honest is not my usual way, as I have quite a high sex ...

Can I go on and off the Pill, and still be safe?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Ok, I have a problem!! I am in a long distances relationship. and I only get 2 see him like every 2 or 3 weeks maybe longer! We don't have sex every time we see each other, but most of the time we do! We use condoms EVERY TIME! But, I wanna go on ...

She won't have vaginal sex with me, only the back door kind!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

30 January 2008 (M) - Hi, I have been dating this girl from past 3 years now. We tried having vaginal sex many times but every time i have been unable to penetrate her for some or other reason. Either she is too scared of the pain either she is too tense etc.We tried ...

Is it normal to get wet just thinking about sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

30 January 2008 (F) - Hi. i am new at sex and i was wondering if it is normal to get wet just thinking about it. like out of nowhere in the middle of class just get wet. also what do i do about it? ignore it or run to the bathroom and finger myself and get it ove...

Married women and sex toys. Opinions please....

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4476 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I would like to ask women who are married and using toys. Do you think these toys can substitute your husband? Why do you use them? and would it be possible that woman will get addicted to the toy and enjoy it more than her husband? I need an hone...

My vagina is too tight, sex is painful. How can I fix that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6130 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - My ex recently told all my friends how "tight" I was. unfortunatly he's right. What can I do to stop being so tight? Sex is really painful, and its really starting to make me depressed....

My boyfriends best friend makes me horny!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hey people.... i really need help... basically,theres this boy iv liked for SOO long,and he knows it,,but now im going out with his best friend,he doesnt know about this,and at school he comes up to me ,,,and touches my but and stuff,,and it ma...

My boyfriend can't come. How can I help?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5354 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Apologies for this being so long, but I feel that background information could help a little. I've been with my current boyfriend for over 10 months now, and we both love and care about each other more than anything. I lost my virginity to him after ...

Been ignoring him after the sexual encounter as he is too silent in bed for my taste. Should I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6131 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am recently a single girl again and very passionate in bed. I started seeing this guy, we had sex, but I am totally turned off by him because he does not make noise in bed. Sorry if I sound like a man but say something already, I ...

I had fantasies about my wife being slutty with other men, but now we're acting them out I'm not so sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6079 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - well where do i start,im 35 and been married for 16yrs,i have 3 children with my wife,i have worked away from home for the past 14yrs and i am away for long periods at a time,for yrs we have had fantasies about my wife being a slut,as of recently ...

How do you please a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - I want to know some good tips on pleasing your man sexually? what will keep him coming back for more like a man would with his mistress. I am ready to end my 5 year relationship and experience other men. I have a vision to give him?(when I meet him) ...

How can I get sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - I'm a 15 year old boy who needs sex, and I don't know how to get it. Any Suggestions?...

In the middle of the act he withdraws saying he ejaculated, when he did not. This problem is minimising our sex life. Any ideas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Guys here is a question 4 U women if its ever happened 2 U please please give advise. In the middle of sex all of a sudden he takes it out and says I came but there isn't anything there he didn't ejaculate but he says it feels like he did. Then it ...

How do you know if you're gay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6128 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - Okay, so I don't know if I'm gay, straight, or bi. My first pornographic experience was near 5th grade, and I sorta got hooked since. I've been looking at boys from time to time, and I even thought some of the boys in my school were cute as I grew ...

I'm 16, I'm LATE, told my boyfriend, he's being mean,help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to ...

I want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend, how can I speed things up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

29 January 2008 (M) - i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other ...

I want a baby, but I'm scared of sex, help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6114 days ago

29 January 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i have a problem.. i really really want and feel ready for a baby, trouble is i wont let myself be close to anyone as i fear sex so much, and as soon as i think things are going to lead that way.. i sort of freeeze! it sounds odd but ...

Techniques to make it last longer.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of almost 5 months have started to have sex. It was his first time when we did it a while ago but my third. We have only had sex three times but every time we did he came pretty fast. like 5 miutes or so. this time it was rele ...

Once in a lifetime opportunity? Should I show my LD friend I'm sexually attracted to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello again, I'm 15, I have been speaking to a girl over instant-messager for just about a year now, I've always found her attractive (seen pictures and webcam) and she has a amazing personality. We have spoken of sex and we share fantasy's with ...

I pulled away from a threesome. Should I go back and go with the flow?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Hello, this is kind of a last resort because I know my friends would not understand. I am 15 and I am not eager to lose my virginity. Last night, I was with two friends (girls 14 and 16) in a bed and they both tried to touch me in a sexual way, I ...

I'm in a relationship with a man, but get turned on with lesbian porn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - Hi, I am having a bit of an issue at the moment. I am in a relationship with a man but i seem to be really turned on by lesbian porn. I love it. When my boyfriend goes down on me I sometimes think he is a woman.. does this make me a lesbian. I don't ...

Does my boyfriend have a low sex drive or is there more to it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend for over a year now and we get on great only problem is we don't have sex very often. He is very shy about his body and to be honest i don't know why as he has a lovely lean body. Anyway, he insists that he has a low sex ...

Why would my fiance use viagra?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6118 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My fiance is using viagra but we seldom have sex We don't live together and he gets a lot of free time to himself but I can't understand why he uses it Do you think he's cheating on me or do you know why men use this stuff when in a happy, lovi...

My best friend wants to take me to a hotel for sex, I need advice!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - My best friend and I have been hooking up. No sex. just kissing and stuff. But, recently he had the idea of going to a hotel and just having sex. I'm well up for it when he asked, and he isnt making me, but I'm so afraid I'll get attatched. He says ...

I fantasize about sex with other girls, whats wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (?) - I have a boyfriend that I really love, and we have a great relationship together, but I love the thought of a girl licking me out, possibly more than a guy... I'm so worried because the thought seems to turn me on more. It wouldn't feel right if a ...

How can I prove to her that I won't pressure her for sex like her ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

28 January 2008 (M) - Well theres a girl that i think im starting to fall for. Well she a few weeks ago got out of a relationship because he kept pressuring her to have sex and thats all he talked about all the time. and she has been hitting on me. Asking a lot of ...

I'm thinking we're better of friends than lovers

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6133 days ago

28 January 2008 (F) - I really need advise. I have been with my boyfriend for two years. He is 26 I am 31. I am very sexual and had great self confidence in bed until now. He always had issue with sex from the begining. Couldn't get it up or keep it up. I don't ...

What do people think of the pill for contraception?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I've been seriously thinking about contraception lately and i'm not sure which way to go. I'm going to make a family planning appointment to talk things through with a professional but i'd like some opinions from other people too. I'd like to go...

Do Mum's appreciate honesty about the sexual behaviors of their teens?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - I know all about different types of contraception and the effects and side-effects and popularity of all different types of contraception. I'm trying to be very open with my mum about everything but obviously not too much detail and i was just won...

How do I get over the stupid things I did when I was depressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

27 January 2008 (F) - A year ago I sunk into depression and had to take 6 months off college to recover. I'm sure other people who have suffered from depression would be able to relate when I say 'I wasn't myself'. During this time I did some incredibly stupid things, ...