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anonymous
writes:Ok today i was gonna have sex with my gf and for some reason i just couldnt get it up...i mean it would get hard but when id put the condom on and go for the kill nothing my guy just couldnt perform...whats wrong with me?
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reader, Jugurtha  +, writes (31 January 2008):
I've had trouble getting an erection before, and once I was impotent for about a fortnight. For me, the reason was stress. Even though I was hot to trot with my girl, external factors meant that I wasn't actually in the mood for sex.
Another time, it was due to the pressure I was putting on myself to perform. I really wanted to impress, so much so that (at first) I didn't... You have to relax a little. Don't worry about whether or not you'll be the greatest lover in the world, just be comfortable with yourself and your girl and have fun!
If your guy droops, go back to the foreplay - don't sweat it, concentrate on giving your girl a good time. Your guy will soon get his act together again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): Hi Hunny
Nothing is wrong with you, I take it you havent had this problem before? Do you feel comfortable? Sometimes this can happen for no reason. The more you worry the more it will happen, condoms have always been abit of a killer but obviously needed try not to worry to much its probably a one of, If this does continue for a longer period of time go to your doctor for advice but for now just see how things go TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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