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writes:i'm 14 and i want to have sex with my 15 year old girlfriend. ive been with her for 3 months now, and i really like her alot for such a short space of time. you guys probably think im too young to know what love is but i do, i was with this other girl for over a year and was pretty f*cked up wen it finished, i seriously loved her. and now im starting to have the same kinda feelings towards the girl im with now, and i really wanna have sex with her. i'm a virgin and so is she, but i had a lot, a lot alot of experience with my previous girlefriend (the one i mentioned earlier), experience the girl im with now hasnt had. when i go to finger her or something she starts to giggle haha. i mean thats cool, i like having fun with her, im not one of those guys thats just out for one thing. but anyway she says she wants to wait till shes 16 before we have sex and i guess it isn't too long, her birthday's in october, but i don't really want to wait, i love her and i want her now lol! she's really really hot! but i don't want to rush her. how can i speed things up without being a jerk??? please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, Alex22 +, writes (30 December 2011):
Well I'm 15 years old and I've been single for 2-3 months. Your one year or two years younger than your girlfriend and the legall age for sexual intercourse is 16 so wait until you are both 16 then you will be the legall age to have sex
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reader, dannabo  +, writes (12 February 2009):
 Son, listen to an old man of 60. You are much too young to know what real love is. Though I am sure you think you do. You will be infatuated with more girls as you grow. Don't pressure any girl into doing anything she does t want to do. Sex has responsibilities that go along with it. can't you just enjoy your young life while you can? Love is much more than just sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): never rush someone, they might hate you for it. let her come to you when she is ready, if she is not ready and you push her into i it might make her depressed, if she is not ready hold back for her or find some one who has alredy had sex and see her instead, dont mess her life up just because you want to fuck, ive seen it happen and know girls who have killed them selves as they had sex too early
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): tell here the way that you feel and then see where it goes
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reader, Krystelle +, writes (29 January 2008):
you say you love her. but if you truly loved her youd wait for her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey, thanks for your answers.
I guess you're all pretty much right.
Thanks ;]
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (29 January 2008):
The only way to speed up things is for you to slow down your thinking.Will you die if you don't sleep with her? She's too young.Either wait or waste! Why don't you find sum1 older and more willing to have sex.I've seen it takes a little while for you to fall in love,i'm sure you'll soon fall in love!
Take care bro.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): Just keep it in your pants, kid. Trust me if you are so obsessed with sex that you can;t wait for a few years... then it better for all concerned that you not run the risk of spreading your DNA around and polluting the gene-pool even more than it already is.Serious though kid, wait. Just stick to using your hand, in the privacy of your own home for the time being.Flynn 24
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reader, hello1 +, writes (29 January 2008):
 She'll regret it if she slept with you, do you want that? if you really love her, then wait till she's 16. Thats what she wants and you shouldn't push her, if you keep pushing she may end up dumping you.
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reader, xxmissxx +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Shes made up her mind, and in a very mature, smart way.She will not have sex til shes 16. Not only is this very smart, but its a legal decision. In the uk it's illegal to sleep with a girl under the age of 16. Bear this in mind. You might want it now, but young man, you will have to wait.I've been told in the past that losing your virginity is like a pint of guinness " good things come those who wait " have some respect for her because if you try enforcing the whole sex thing you could end up driving her away. Just let her decide when shes ready, and when she is, you'll know that good things actually do come to those who wait.
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