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writes:My ex recently told all my friends how "tight" I was. unfortunatly he's right. What can I do to stop being so tight? Sex is really painful, and its really starting to make me depressed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2008): You got some great advice here. But it is important to tell your Gynecologist. Only he or she can truly tell what's up. Sometimes women need a a little help which involves a minor procedure.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (30 January 2008):
I think most people have made great suggestions but one last thing i can tell you is that you need to train your mind.The mind is the biggest and strongest sexual organ as it's connected to every part of your body.You need be psychologically ready for sex and i don't think you are right now.I suggest you cool off a bit and try later.That'll also teach him not to embarass you about such private matters.
Take Care.
Good Luck.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Fast track 10 years and the ex would be complaining about how his new girlfriend isn't as tight as his old girlfriend.
Seriously, don't worry about it, and don't take it as an insult if he persists you can always say: "that's funny, because his dick is so small I'm surprised he found me so tight"
When I was around your age I found that my first girlfriend was way too tight as well, but then we discovered lube. Just rub it over his penis after he puts the condom on ( Ky Jelly or whatever )and you shouldnt have too many problems it will be very slippery but its amazing how easy it changes things once you are well lubricated. You are young as well, tell your boyfriends to slow down its not a race!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): thanks for the advice! its really helped me, cus its something thats been really annoyin me for a good while, n its good to know im not the only one its happened to!AND i think i will knock his teeth out for being so immature to tell people something so private.thanks again! =]
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reader, nailglitter18  +, writes (29 January 2008):
 Make sure you have lots of "warmup" before the sex! As you get into it, and relax, your vagina loosens a little and becomes wet with your body's natural lubricant. This makes sex a lot more fun! Also, if you're having TOO much sex, that can make you sore for a while!! So take a little break, let yourself heal.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): I had the same problem. Relax, don't clench your vaginal muscles, which you can end up doing if you're nervous about being hurt again. Think of it like inserting a tampon; it's uncomfortable to try to do it if you're tense/clenched.Also, make sure there's lots of foreplay and/or lube involved (you can get some at Spencers the next time you hit the mall).And I'd tell my boyfriend to not tell his friends about your sex life. My boyfriend almost got his teeth knocked it when I found out he said something about me.
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