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anonymous
writes: Hey I'm 16. Me and my b/f have been together for almost 2 yrs. Well we've had sex quite a few times... we're each others 1st and only. We use a condom everytime... but I haven't had my period yet, and since I told him I was late, hes been mean to me. I just need alot of help here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): hey ,
im 16 and just found out im expecting.:[ ant told da folks yet lol.atleast your with the dad mine was a 1 of thing and now he just told me to get an abortion.So you know what.Im not.Im going to have this baby whether or not he supports me.I am scared what my mam n dad will say but if they choose to disown me thats their problem not mine i love my baby all ready.I cant believe he is being mean to you.If it turns out you are pregnant and he starts being horrible ,dont let him force you into anything e.g abortion because you will have to live with that for the rest of your life.Keep in touch and tell me how it goes.:] xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): well first thing to do is do a pregnancy test so you no 4 sure. and if hes bein nasty he ent worth the hassle ask him why hes being like that!!!
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (29 January 2008):
Can't really much add to what's been written here, he's being mean because he's scared, just reassure him that you may not be pregant but don't allow him to get away with being mean but try and avoid a confrontation which is just going to pile on the stress to you both even more.
Get a test so you can set both your minds at rest, in the meantime try and confide in a friend or somebody you can trust to support you through this time. Good luck :)
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (29 January 2008):
It could be anything, you could be stressed, your diet or pregnant...you could have even gotten your mind to think you are pregnant which can make your period late...get a test done soon and tell your boyfriend he should love you and support you.best of luck x
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (29 January 2008):
He's being mean, I imagine, because he's scared, which is only to be expected! Try talking to him and make sure he understands that this doesn't mean for a fact you're pregnant
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