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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Myself and my husband to be have been trying for a baby for almost a year without any luck. My cycle has become erratic, has anyone got any suggestions please help!!!...

Is it true the longer you wait to have sex the harder it gets ??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey I am 16 and I am still a virgin I feel worried that I will never find anyone to have sex with because all my friends have boyfriends and are having sex and saying how good it is. I am afraid that the longer I wait the harder it will get. Is it ...

I'm a girl and worried about what to do during my first time.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - what does the girl do in sex? i am a virgin but am thinking about having sex woth my bf of 15 months. We are both virgins so he's not sure either but what does the girl do in sex?? do i jst lay there or do i hav to move or what? obviously i am going ...

Can the size of your vagina change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5287 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Can the size of your vagina change? Or, does it just stay "tight" if it is that way, or loose if it is that way? My guy sometimes will say that mine isn't tight, and it hurts my feelings....

Should a guy satisfy the girl first and then themselves??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Is it just me, or should guys care about satisfying the girl first, and then themselves during sexual relations? It just seems like the guy I am with only cares about pleasing himself. ...

I'm still worried I could be pregant!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, Well about 3 days ago i lost my virginity and he was protected , we had sex for about 30 mins , but we had to discontinue because my mom came home . so he came over the next day and we had sex once again but unprotected this time ,ye...

I've moved from germany to USA when i was 12. Why do people here not feel its right for teenagers to have sex under 18?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5956 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - I was born in Germany, and I moved to the USA at the age of 12, since I've moved here I have always been curious as to why having sexual intercourse is such a bad act and disrespect to the parents for Teenagers under 18. In my town, it was ...

My girlfriend doesn't seem very turned on with oral sex. Am I just doing it wrong or is it her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6014 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't seem to get very turned on with oral sex. Am I just doing it wrong or is it just her? I've known her for a while, and I've spent a lot of time giving her oral sex. I usually go in deep and long (about an hour) but I've n...

Sex has become routine after a year together. Anyone got any tips to spice it up a bit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for over a year and have been having sex for about a year and things in the bedroom feel like a routine. can u help me maybe give me tips on how i can spice up our sex life please, we like extreme things to do, its ...

She insisted I am the one for her, now we're married but I found her messages to other men with sexual implications!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - i am a saved man, who is married to a womam who just can't seem to break a way from her lovers in the past. Before we married i told her that maybe God had someone else for her. She has persude me for 1 1/2 years telling me that i am the only man ...

Are ultra thin condoms more likely to break?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - how effective are ultra thin condoms with spermicide. Because they are ultra thin are they more likely to break??...

I think I am too tight

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - hi. im 16 and recently lost my virginity, the thing is, i did not bleed and stopped him before it hurt me too much.i don't think that i let him penetrat all the way in me and it also tore my skin at the bootem of my vagina. did he break me through? ...

I need some tips on oral sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ...

I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when she is on her period and I insist that she sits on my face...

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

31 August 2007 (M) - hello my name is vince and I am curious to know whether anybody else out there believes in vampires, I believe I am of this origin. I love to perform oral sex on my girlfriend on a daily basis, as many times as possible, but it is even better when ...

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...

WHY do people masturbate?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi this may sound really stupid but its always been something i'd like to know the answer to. Why do people, both men and women masturbate? Are there any particular reason why they do it? I have before and i've never known why mainly just because i ...

My friend is Bi curious and I love her! She said she wanted to experiment with me. Should I tell her I love her????

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I hope you can help! I'm 20 and I was recently joking with my friend that's also a girl that I would give her oral sex and have sex with her because she has never had it and I said that she is missing out on it! She's never had any sexual e...

I'm not keen on giving oral. But I want to please him. I feel a bit guilty?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - ok well me (20) and my new boyfriend (26) have started having sex and hes given me oral but i havent given him yet because it makes me feel sick doing it so ive only done it twice before. i want to please him but im worried as i will be rubbish as ...

I've gone on the pill but now I'm worried my mum will find out? I'm a teen..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I Have Just Went To The Doctors to Get The Pill.. But Now Im Scared My Mum Finds Out.. I Cant Tell Her Why I Have Them Because She Will Go Crazy, What Should I Say?...

He loses his erection when it comes to condoms. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend never has any problems getting an erection during foreplay. He can whenever and wherever. But when it comes to sex he goes limp. He says its due to nerves. Ive tried helping him right before but when he goes to put the condom on it ...

The condom kept splitting, I'm not worried, I've got no symptoms. But what do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and frequently have sex. The condom always seems to split and we're going to go to the Doctors soon so I can get put on the pill. Because the condoms have been breaking we got worried s...

I have been having sex with a married man. He says he loves me and his family. Could he just be after sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - i have a colleague at work who is married with a 3 year old kid..i was new and got atrracted to him, i was the only one single in the office and many guys wants to court me, but i fell inlove with this married man and we see each other secretly,we ...

When she and I started having sex she always and still does complain about pain but my concern is that her vagina does not seem tight at all.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi I have a problem with my girlfriend but she doesn't know of it. She is not a virgin (neither am I); she said she had very infrequent sex with her ex who by the way took her virginity. Furthermore she never bled with him nor with me. They had sex ...

We never seem to be alone to try to have sex together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I really want to have sex with my boyfriend and he says he wants to as well but we never have a place to do it because there are people always in my house and his so we can never be alone and also I wouldn't know what would start us off, would it be ...

I am 14, pregnant and haven't told anybody! What do I do?

This question has 82 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - ok so i had sex with my bf and we used a condom and i still got pregnent, I'm only 14 and nobody knows, not even my bf, I'm scared to tell anyone, my mom said if i ever got pregnant that i would have to get an abortion. What do i do??? HELP PLEA...

My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me!

This question has 76 answers - newest was posted 2877 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - My husband is using call girls and escort services? I am devastated. Please help me! Two weeks ago my husband received a call from someone at 11:30pm on a weekend. He didn't pick up, but someone had apparently left a message and upon asking him ...

I don't want my increased desire for sex to ruin my marriage, my husband says I'm an addict!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I am 25 and married. my husband in the begining of our courtship was able to keep up and now he says i want it all the time and i am a sex addict and he is 26. I do want it everyday many times and that is how i was since 14 as well and have not ...

I've just slept with my best friend's boyfriend....

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6273 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - So my problam is kind of confusing.... me {Amanda} and my bestfriend {Taylor} are going out with these two guys {Dylan and Josh}. Taylor and Josh have been going out for over a year and a half and me and Dylan have only been going out for about 3 ...

Problem in keeping the erection. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6285 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I have a problem. When I masturbate I can get pretty hard but I think it may be harder for me than most people, but I can definitely get there. When I try to have sex with my girlfriend I can't ever make it hard! And she is always so in the mood, ...

Do men really CARE, or is their mind set to sexual desires, generally speaking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - this is just a general question for all the guys out there. Do guys really CARE about girls? Do they love us like we love them? or is your mind 99% sexual desires? just trying to get the gist of it....

Friends have told me to go to a prostitute in compensation for my high sex drive! Is it right, since I have a girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - My urge for sex has abnormaly gone so crazy that even my girlfriend just can't take it all the time. Some friends have told me to try out prostitutes to save my relationship. Do you think it's right?...

He told me he prefers oral over regular sex? Is that normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6285 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - It is normal for a guy to prefer head over regular sex? My guy loves for me to go down on him... now don't get me wrong... he loves to have sex as well but he told me that he prefers head over sex. Now is that a normal guy thing or should I be kinda ...

I have come to terms with wanting to have sex with a guy, to see what it is like. I just don't know how to go about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6284 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I am constantly fantasizing about sex with a man. Not as much as fantasize about women but the gay fantasy was always there. I have a friend who is openly gay... I would feel safe experimenting with him. I have come to terms with wanting to have sex ...

Can anyone explain impotence????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I have been reading about ED (impotence), i would like to hear some general opinion on how to determine if one has it. would it means unable to achieve an erection at all, or only at times, or persistent, if so, how often is called consisten...

I feel so much need to sleep with a woman nowadays, should I go get a prostitute?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Please ladies and guys out there, I feel so much need to sleep with a woman nowadays, should I go get a prostitute?...

I want to be casual with my ex but she's made it clear that would hurt her. How can I deal with this???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - hey, ive recently become mates which my ex girlfriend, after a year and half relationship there were plenty of arguments after, but it is all good now. The problem i'm having is I feel like I'm having sexual attractions over her which in one half I ...

Any tips on how to spice up our sex life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - me and my gf have been going out afew yrs now and want to spice things up abit. We both fancy trying sex in public-obviously not where people can see but the risk of getting caught just makes it really exciting, we also want to make it really ...

Is it normal not to come from sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from ...

What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...

We slept together and I like him, now. He's a lot older..can anything come of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - ok, i slept with a guy i really should not have, never thought anything of him before, but now i think i like him. nothing can come of it, but i dont know if i should talk to him about our encounter. He is alot older than me, and can be quite ...

I've taken the morning after pill twice, can i take it again? Is this safe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I had sex just as i was coming off my period, but the condom split, am i stil able to take th morning after pill. also iv taken th pill twice before. is this safe? would it affect my babies later in life?...

Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Can I get pregnant if let's say I touched my vagina right after wiping my hands off my boyfriend's cum with tissue and wash my hands with water only?? I'm getting paranoid lol help me thanks! =)...

When in a relationship is it right to become sexually active?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - When in a relationship is the right time to start becoming sexually active? And does an age difference from say 17-23 would make any difference?...

Any advice as to how I can arouse him without touching his male members would be greatly appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi all. I am having problems. I am in a fairly new relationship and he knows just what to do to arouse me sexually, but I don't know how to arouse him. He is a little inexperienced and doesn't know what he likes. Any advice as to how I can arouse ...

Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finall...

I lose my erection when trying to penetrate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6285 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - i have a problem which has been troubling me for a long time, about 3 years. i have no problem having sex, but there are many, and i mean many, occasions where i lost my erection while trying to penetrate, the moment i went in i would slowly los...

Is it normal to smell a little "down there"?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hey i know this maybe too much but... I am 15 and am a virgin. I am worried about "down there" as i smell a little. Is this usual in anyway???? Pleasse help, i am worried and feel so dirty!! x...

I'm 15 and I crave sex all the time! How do I stop feeling like a slag?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4028 days ago

28 August 2007 (?) - how do i stop craving sex? every time i go to see a boy i feel the need to sleep with him. i always fee horny and kinky i always wanna have sex. im 15 so im not even old enough but i cant help it. i know ya probs think im a slag when you read thi...

I'm 28 and a virgin. Sometimes I wonder if I shouldn't wait for someone special?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I´m a 28 yrs old female virgin too (seems that are a lot of us around here). In my case, it havent´t happened for lack of opportunity. I´ve been always been too "right". With my first boyfriend, when I was about to do, he dumped me. Then nev...

I was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - i was drunk and stoned he took advantage last night what should i do...