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writes:i really want to perform oral sex on my girlfriend (she wants it too) but im not sure how to do it!ive never had it done before and neither has she so neither of us really know what to do or know what feels good! this is my first relationship that ive ever felt i want to be sexual because ive only ever been with guys before and never felt sexually attracted to them! now im in my first lesbian relationship with the girl of my dreams and im not exactly sure how to pleasure her!! we are definately ready to do it but im scared im going to do it wrong so id thought id ask for some tips from you guys first! how do you do it? what feels good? how will i know if she is enjoying it?? i dont mean to sound thick ive just never been in the situation before so i feel a little lost!!thanx guys! xxx
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reader, duce00  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Thats awesome! Glad you were able to put these new methods into action. No doubt you will begin to come up with some of your own in time. Pass on your insight when you do, we all love to learn. Especially on this subject!!
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (1 September 2007):
 hey hun i think that is great that you did it :) i am so happy that we could help. have a great time with your gf and if you need anymore help we will be here for you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG guys!!! i love you guys soooo much, you are absolutely fantastic!!!
i met up with my girlfriend this afternoon and after reading your comments i wasnt going to wait around, i wanted to try it all out!! lol so i didnt tell her that i had asked for advice i wanted to suprise her!! so we got in the mood and although i was absolutely sh**ing myself i started doing everything you guys suggested!!! and the response was fantastic!!!! she was squirming and moaning and she absolutely loved it!! she was holding the back of my head and like pushing my head into her further which was amazing!! she orgasmed which made me soooo happy!!! it was just absolutely fantastic and it made me feel so good knowing that i managed to give her that pleasure!!
and also it gave her more confidence to do it all back to me and i loved it!!! youve really helped us out and i look forward to a good sex life together!! thankyou guys!
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reader, duce00 +, writes (31 August 2007):
Well the advice on oral youve gotten is great and they have the same equipment you do so its definately from the "source". Thanks for the pointers chrissy32789 and cheerycharlie :)
I will humbly add my opinion here if I may because I, like you ladies, LOVE to give oral on a woman.
Yes, use all of the techniques given. You could also bring your hands and fingers into play. Rub around the outer lips while licking her clit. Try fingering and licking at the same time. Theres also her G-spot, massaging that while licking can cause huge orgasms in my experience. I also have a personal favorite which is to gently suck her clit into my mouth and tongue it. Its a somewhat difficult task at first and sometimes it over stimulates her but its alot of fun. I think that oral shouldnt be limited to just using your mouth. Grab her ass when it seems right, massage her legs when your getting started. Massage her nipples (if you can reach them). Treat it like a great big smorgasborg of pleasure.
ENJOY LEARNING!!
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reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (31 August 2007):
hey hun its ok to be scared and not to know what to do. But it is fun and you will both enjoy it :x but anyways, for oral sex on a female is easy, first of all just start licking on the clit with the tip of your tongue, and then use the whole toungue as you was licking an ice pop then just start to suck on the clit for a little while, and go down the clit into the hole with your tongue and keep going back and forth from the hole to the clit...Then just ask her what did you like the most, and tell her to tell you when you hit the spot that gets her the most, sometimes it tickles so when that happens just move your tongue to a diffrent spot. Have you ever masterbated? because if you have when you rub your clit you know where it feels good the most, well when you go down on her, then its kind of the same thing but instead of with the fingers it is with the tongue. if you need anymore advice you can just private message me on her and i can help you out. but just try what i told you and you should be good! good luck and have fun!
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reader, cheerycharlie +, writes (31 August 2007):
 hi. oral sex is great using the tounge to pleasure somebody is also good. hmmm...using the tip of the tounge and slowly and softly liking the clit and liking aroud it is nice to and turns you o. use the tounge inside th vagina to lick and move it ronud. you will normally tell if its enjoyed if they become wet and sometimes twitch xXx
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