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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

My wife won't give me a blowjob. She won't even talk about it!

This question has 149 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I am in a perfect relationship in every way except for one thing. I adore oral sex - nothing else quite does it for me - but I haven't had a complete blowjob for 3 years. When I first met my wife, she did it every time - she even swallowed. But afte...

Our mismatched sex drives are making me wonder, "Are we normal"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Making this short, I've been with my girlfriend for 3+ years and living with her for 2+ years. We are both early 20s. I have a very high sex drive and she has a pretty low one. She will get 'sore' after 15 minutes or so, or she definately will if ...

Can someone tell us some sex positions we can use, so he doesn't keep slipping out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I am in a very loving relationship that seems soon headed for marriage. My question is this... My guy is not all that well endowed and when we try it "doggie style", he keeps slipping out. Can you recommend postions that might make this adv...

My girlfriend says she's had sex with too many people, so she won't have sex with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

30 May 2005 (?) - My girlfriend has had sex in previous relationships but now says she doesn't like it. I feel hurt because her only reason behind not wanting sex is that she doesn't like it and thinks she has had sex with too many people already, because she is only ...

My b/f says "stress" is the reason we don't have sex, but he still has cybersex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7106 days ago

28 May 2005 (?) - I meet this guy since 10 month. Our relationship is great except we are not having sex anymore, rarely . We used to have it every day. When I ask him he says 'stress from work' but he masturbates on the net every night and don't have a problem with ...

What can I do? I lose my erection after about 10 minutes...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6412 days ago

28 May 2005 (?) - I am a 32 year old male. I have had a problem sustaining an erection for about 10 years. I can get a full erection for about 10 minutes, then it just dies off. It has been getting me down for years, and wonder is this normal, and how can I combat ...

Sex is so infrequent now that I wonder if I should even bother staying with him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7108 days ago

28 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and get along pretty great. I am in love with him and I know he is with me. When we first met, we used to have sex frequently, now it is maybe once every 3-4 months. I would like to be with him...

Masturbation gives me reliable orgasms, but sex... not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7085 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I can easily have orgasms when I am masturbating, but when I am having sex with my boyfriend I haven't ever had an orgasm. Do you know what I can do to solve this?...

Thought I had sex all figured out, but I was wrong. Now I want to rock my boyfriend's world...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - Okay. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about four months and well, this is going to be a bit long. I need to explain my situation well, so whoever is reading can get the best understanding of what my problems are. I want to thank ...

I think I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend, but don't know how to tell him...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am 14 and think I am ready to have sex with my 15 year old boy-friend but I don't know how to tell him. I knoq I am underage but we love each other and have been going out with each other for 11 months. Please help!!!...

Is my girl ever going to get over the fact that I had sex with someone else before I knew her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am 16 years old and me and my new girlfriend have really hit it off. It was like love at first sight. I care so much about her and she feels the same way for me but she found out that I had sex with like her best friend before I even met my ...

My guy is 15, so what if he's ready for something that I'm not ready for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7039 days ago

24 May 2005 (?) - This boy I went out with is 15 and I am 13, but I love him, and he wants to go back out with me. But I think it is serious and I don't know what to do. Now I'm afraid that he will dump me if I don't give him head, (blowjob) and he might find me ...

Don't know if I should wait until we're married to have sex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7112 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - OK, I have a problem with this boy who loves me and I love him, but well when the subject of sex it's all about us doing it! See I know he's ready and I am too, it's just if my parents ever found out they would move me and I would not come back ...

We're both new at sex and it seems pointless and boring...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7111 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - Me and my bf are both 16, We started having sex a few months ago, but neither of us gets much out of it. If I'm on top I get nothing out of it and he gets a little. When he's on top, he gets nothing most of the time and I've never got anything...

My boyfriend called out someone else's name in a dream...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7113 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - What does it mean when my partner calls out a woman's name in his dream real passionately? he said he was dreaming of having sex with me but my name ain't ????? and I have been away for a week. Do you think he has cheated while I've been away?...

Could my girlfriend get pregnant if the condom went in with a trace of pre-cum on it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend see each other rarely, well only on weekends, due to her exams. We are both always wanting to have sex. The only problem is, when I was getting ready *putting the condom on* I accidently went to put it on the wrong way and put ...

My wife has a god medical reason for not having sex, but we seem to have lost all our intimacy now...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

22 May 2005 (?) - I have been married 33 years and have 2 grown children. We've had our usual ups & downs but generally been very happy. Although it was usually me that initiated sex,it was almost always very good, even when we were 50. However, now at 55, my wife ...

He wasn't able to have sex with me, so I broke up with him..

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7113 days ago

22 May 2005 (?) - I broke up with a man who I had a four month relationship, love him so much, everything was perfect except sex, he could not perform intercourse, he said he was not impotent, but I think it is psychological, he is only 41. I wrote him a letter, ...

Somehow, I just don't think I'm any good at sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7116 days ago

20 May 2005 (?) - I feel that I am rubbish at sex. I have had several sexual partners but always feel that I am doing it wrong and am not giving them enough pleasure. I enjoy doing foreplay with them but when it comes to sex, I feel that I am not moving in the way ...

I feel good about my "new" breasts, but sex with my boyfriend is nonexistant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7113 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - I recently moved in with my boyfriend and had my breasts enlarged. I feel so good about myself now and want his attention sexually...the problem: we don't have sex anymore. We dated before and the sex was great, his performance started to decline ...

Three to six minutes is about my average in bed... and it makes my wife angry...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6946 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - Hi everybody I think my question is not uncommon. I ejaculate within 3-6 mts. I try to think about my work, my boss and any other non-sex stuff but it doesn't work out. My wife gets angry with me whenever this happen. I think some people out here...

Orgasm is so easy when I masturbate... why can't I do it when I have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7098 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - Since the first time I had sex, I have trouble reaching orgasm. I can do it when I masturbate, but it is a lot harder to due during sex. What's wrong with me, why is it so hard to cum during copulation?...

No sex for 18 months, but my wife says it's not me. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7120 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am a married man, with what I think is a wonderful woman. We have our problems just like all couples do, but we work them out and get along for the most part. We have been married for 6yrs now, and have two boys. Since our first son my wife's s...

My friends bought me a vibrator... but I'm too tight to use it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I am still a virgin, but my friends bought me a vibrator for my birthday.I want to use it but when I tried for the first time it really hurt. I think my vagina is too tight. Is there any way I a "stretch" my vagina muscles?...

I dream about feet and find them a turn-on. Does this make me a freak?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7120 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - I love Feet. Am I a freak? I seem to have a foot fetish, I find myself looking at women's feet and find them a turn on. I even dream about massaging feet and, well, it does not seem right....

How can I seem more "experienced" when I have sex with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7099 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - Dear cupid How do I seem experienced when it would be my first time? My boyfriend thinks I'm a non-virgin. Please help? ...

Does sex have to be performed naked? Will I look odd if I want to leave some clothes on?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 7010 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Hello, My question is about sex. As I am a virgin female aged 20, I am nervous about sex mainly because I don't want to be naked. I am not embarrassed but think it would be nicer to leave some clothes on or use a blanket to feel less exposed ...

Thinking about having sex with my boyfriend, but I don't know how he really feels about me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I've known my bf for like 5 months now, but we have only just started going out. I don't know if he actually likes me. We live far apart and he is always busy at the weekends. My mate lives like down the road from him and I usually go to her ...

Concentrating so hard on first-time sex that I lost my erection. Oh no!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6629 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I was having sex for the first time. It was with my new girlfriend. We were going at it, and about 5 minutes in I got really nervous and completely lost my erection. I have been dwelling on it so much that it's actually killing me. WHAT DO I DO? ...

Only a month into my marriage, and I can't get in the mood for sex any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7124 days ago

12 May 2005 (?) - I decided to wait to have sex until marriage, and I just got married about a month ago. My problem is that I cannot get in the mood no matter what, and if I do I usually get out of the mood before my husband and I end up having sex, then it ...

My girlfriend won't swallow. Can I talk her around to seeing it my way?

This question has 92 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - hiya, I was just wondering. I have been going out with my gilfriend for 3 years and I really want her to swallow my cum. Are there any ways in whichI can get her to do this? Thanx...

We used to have sex at least twice a day. Now we're down to once a week and I can't get her in the mood! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7122 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - My girlfriend and I are experiencing a major problem in our relationship. We love each other very much with no doubts, but when it comes to sex, we don't seem to have a connection. When we first started dating, it was almost a total physical...

We've always been long-distance, but now I can move to where he is... except I've lost interest in sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7125 days ago

11 May 2005 (?) - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. I am 18 and he is 19 so we are still very young. We have always had a long distance realtionship and the time has come for me to graduate and go to school. I want to move to where he is, but ...

Sex is the same routine over and over and it's getting hard to get excited about it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7122 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend & I have been together for now 9 months. He is 23 and I am 19. I'm his first real G/F & his 3rd sexual partner. And, I have had my share and most of them were ***holes. We have a great relationship get along well; everything is perfe...

He reaches orgasm so soon that I don't even get to participate!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 7122 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend seems to always cum very quickly and even orgasms from just playing with me. How can I slow his orgasm rate down long enough for me to enjoy the sex too? What sort of tricks are out there?...

There's a big difference in the size of my penis, between when it's soft and when it's hard...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7128 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm worried and confused at my penis size, I'm 16 and it's about 6-7cms long at most times, sometimes as small as 4cms but when erect its 6.0-6.5". I thought (maybe I am just different) that when erect they are like 1-2 inches bigger, but ...

Having sex with my boyfriend just seems to leave me... embarrassed.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7128 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I am 19 and have been seeing my boyfriend, who is 21, for 11 months. We have had an sexual life for 6 months and neither of us have ever had sex with anyone else. When we do have sex, during and afterwords I don't feel great and happy like my ...

Sex feels like nothing & it's affecting my relationships.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7128 days ago

7 May 2005 (?) - My problem is that I don't enjoy sex at all. I have gone to doctors and they say that am fine but I don't enjoy it. I either feel pain or have no feeling at all. I always get aroused and well lubricated (naturally) but penetration feels nothing or ...

Lost my sexual desire... is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7128 days ago

7 May 2005 (?) - I got married one month back and we were having good sex for almost 15 days. My wife is away from me as she is studying for her post graduation. Now I don't get excited and I am losing interest in Sex. I even don't get erection and i don't want to ...

Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?

This question has 225 answers - newest was posted 2214 days ago

6 May 2005 (?) - Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...

I have a boy mate and we started having sex... but I'm supposed to keep it a secret.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7131 days ago

5 May 2005 (?) - I have a boy mate and he is like my best friend. He had a girlfriend for over a year and all this time I liked him. He then split with his girlfriend. I remained good mates with him, then the other night we had sex. He doesn't want to be with me ...

I've tried everything I know, but nothing seems to turn my girlfriend on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7131 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I've been with my girl since December and I still can't turn her on. I don't think it's completely my fault though, I've tried everything I know and nothing works. She can't get turned on until we're already having sex. This means without lube its ...

Since he's been chatting to women on the Web our sex life has slowed right down, and I'm worried...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7131 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my fella for over four years now and in the last two years the sex has slowed right down. I am sure he is chatting to women on the internet, as he is coming to bed later and later. He said it is because he doesn't want to have to ...

I'm wondering if my past experiences might mean I'm bisexual..?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - When I was younger I had a close friend (a female) and we used to dry hump each other. I don't remember how we ended up even starting it, but we then started to do it every time we were together. Then, one of my other close friends (also a female) ...

As soon as a man shows he's interested, I hop into bed with him...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 7127 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I can't seem to ever say no. As soon as I met a guy I will sleep with him as soon as he starts showing signs he wants me. I love the attention and I just love sex. Although I don't go around telling my friends who I have and haven't slept with, ...

I want to try being on top, but I think I might not do things "right"...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7115 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid Okay, well I have had sex. But I've never got on top(ride). I think if i did then he would say something like you're not doing it right. So what do I do? ...

Five months since we had sex and my g/f says our relationship is "so strong we don't need it"...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7134 days ago

2 May 2005 (?) - Hi all, I'm at a bit of a loss, So here's my story and I hope you can help. I met MJ 2 years ago and who things were so perfect. We used to have sex all the time, and it was great. I work a lot of shifts and whenever we saw each other we'd jump ...

Something's missing when we have sex. It's good for him, but not for me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7135 days ago

1 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I just started having sex and I have no idea what to do or what positions to be in to make myself have an orgasm :/ It starts to hurt after a while because it's just not good for me...I dry up and so does the condom...I want to make ...