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writes: I've been with my girl since December and I still can't turn her on. I don't think it's completely my fault though, I've tried everything I know and nothing works. She can't get turned on until we're already having sex. This means without lube its painful for her for the first minute or so. She was a virgin before me so she cant tell me what turns her on, cos she doesn't know. Advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): Perhaps you need to ask her of her feelings for you...To improve the situation I suggest the following:a) as sorta TJ said...imagination can improve everything, currently it seems that she isn't to keen on you but more likely because she is new to it all and doesnt know how to...b) more foreplay, possibly masturbating each other, oral sex etc.c) I dont know if they work or not but you can buy herbal tablets that suppose to increase a woman's sex drive etc. They work by increasing blood flow etc. to the vagina and also stimulate the mind, supposedly after an hour of taken a few of these tablets a women suppose to feel overwhelmed and ecstasy, and the good thing with these tablets are that no chemicals involved. It's all natural so there shouldn't be any side effects.
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reader, TJ +, writes (4 May 2005):
This will sound mad but it works: tell her to have a bath and to let her imagination work its magic. Ask her to imagine that her hands are no longer her own and that they belong to you. She is to imagine your hands travelling over her body and doing all the things that she wants you to do. Once she gets the hang of it she will be able to tell you where you are going wrong. Good luck
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