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writes: Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. I am 18 and he is 19 so we are still very young. We have always had a long distance realtionship and the time has come for me to graduate and go to school. I want to move to where he is, but I don't know if that is making a mistake. We get along great. We're like best friends! In fact, this is the best we have ever gotten along BUT the problem is I'm losing interest in sex. I don't feel that "connection" anymore. Should I still move there and live with him, and see how things go or just end it now, and move on with my life? We have talked about marriage, and if it's worth it for me to put my life on hold for a year so we can finally be in the same city. Is it too late to bring back that "spark" and how can it be done? . . . Previously, about the beginning of the second year of our relationship we fought nonstop and loved the sex!! What has happened??
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (11 May 2005):
If you are losing interest in sex at your tender age, if I were you I would give up and join a monastery!Maybe the fighting has put you off him. It's simple really, either get back that spark with the guy or move on.
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