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writes: I got married one month back and we were having good sex for almost 15 days. My wife is away from me as she is studying for her post graduation.Now I don't get excited and I am losing interest in Sex. I even don't get erection and i don't want to masturbate which I used a lot before marriage.How can I regain my sexual desire? Is there any problem for me ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2005): Hi there. First of all I think you need to let up on yourself a bit. Your wife is away studying to better her career prospects in the future. You have to wait for her to come home. It sound to me like you are suffering from absent partner anxiety stress. don`t think this is a medical condition but I am not a doctor. I think you will hopefully find that when she comes home things will get back on track for you. The occasional bit of masturbation whilst she is away could help you to relieve some of that pent up stress and worry and you will get the erection back. You could also always use visualisation techniques. Just picture your wife the way she was when you were just married and remember the soft touch of her body next to yours, things like that. If you have a vivid imagination it can sometimes work wonders. But like I said, don`t get stressed out by this as it is not uncommon. I really hope this will be of some help to you. Good luck.
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