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writes: I am 16 years old and me and my new girlfriend have really hit it off. It was like love at first sight. I care so much about her and she feels the same way for me but she found out that I had sex with like her best friend before I even met my girlfriend, and she says that she doesn't want to break up with me becuase she loves me but that it's just weird. And ever since she asked me that, things have been a little different. Like she doesn't talk as much to me when we're on the phone because I won't be able to see her for like a week and a half, and I don't know what's gonna happen in person. It's not all the time, but she seems to bring it up a lot and she says "I don't know how I'm going to lose my virginity to you" and all that. What should I do? Stay with her because she says she wants that and so do I? Is she gonna get over this or what?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2005): well..........it deppends some girls are diffretn so it takes time to get over things . my boyfreind had sex with another girl before he ment me and well..........i wasent to happy about ti but i got over it becasue hes with me and so some girls do get over it and some dont you just have to wait and see . and show her that its in the past and that your with her now and the other girl dosent matter anymore . if you love her then take the time to show her that you do and that all that stuff was in the past
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2005): You are in a hard situation. I think that you should talk to her in person. You should sit her down and tell her how you feel and what you are going through. If you love each other enough, you can get past this, but if your relationship carries on the way it is then you should end it. Otherwise you both will never be happy.
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