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writes: Dear cupidHow do I seem experienced when it would be my first time? My boyfriend thinks I'm a non-virgin. Please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2005): I had the same problem, but when it came time for us to have sex I really enjoyed it. If you love this guy and care about him I promise sex will come naturally to you. Don't worry about it; worring only makes your body tense and you wont be comfortable. Relax and enjoy it.Good Luck.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (15 May 2005):
Few options1. Gain the experience before hand...2. "Confidence" makes you seem more experienced
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (15 May 2005):
 You might do better to just come clean with him and admit that you wanted him to think you were more worldly than you are, so you led him to believe that you'd had sex before. What's wrong with that?Having sex with someone is just about the most intimate act that you're capable of... if you're ready to do that with your boyfriend, then surely you can tell him the truth about your level of experience? If you find yourself thinking "Oh, I couldn't admit that!" then I would urge you to consider how close you really are to him.Unless he's a virgin too, there's a really good chance that he'll intuit that it's your first time, so why not just admit it? Many men think having sex with a virgin is just about the most desirable sex imaginable, because it makes them the first one.I'm afraid I don't have any suggestions on how you can trick him into thinking you know more about it than you do, so give some thought to being honest about it.Good luck.
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