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writes: I have been married 33 years and have 2 grown children. We've had our usual ups & downs but generally been very happy. Although it was usually me that initiated sex,it was almost always very good, even when we were 50. However, now at 55, my wife has a problem with what the doctors describe as a thinning of the vaginal wall and this makes lovemaking painful. So she obviously doesn't want sex at all any more. I understand that she can't, but it is very frustrating for me, she seems to accept there is nothing she can do and doesn't seem to show me any feelings, which being a tactile person, I miss and feel unloved. It worries me that that my sex life may have ended! and if I suggest we can do other things together, she thinks I'm making too big a thing. Neil
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): This appears to be more than just a physical inability to have sex for your wife, she seems to have lost her interest in it too....But to be sure you really need to sit down and have a very clear conversation with her...making it very ,very clear that your needs are not just physical ones. But yes they still need to be addressed...A sex therapist may be of assistance to you both.
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