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writes: I am 14 and think I am ready to have sex with my 15 year old boy-friend but I don't know how to tell him. I knoq I am underage but we love each other and have been going out with each other for 11 months. Please help!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): Right I am in the same position except I'm male, I'm 13 and so's my gf we both are ready and have told each other but really think about what we're doing. We haven't had intercourse but we still have fun just stick to the type of fun young teens have save your virginity atleast for a couple of years cos is it worth it really? However long you've been going out and however much you love him you may break up after sex and he might tell people about it even accidentally and trust me it is no fun when it goes around school even though I haven't there are such rumours going round that I have. You don't want to be called the "school slag" now her mum won't leave us in a room alone.Think about what your doing pleaseRegard xxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2006): look hon take your time dont go jumping ahead when you lose it its gone forever so be ready to say good bye to the no return
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reader, xxxmixed_mamixx +, writes (14 June 2005):
Please right now I know you're thinking you've been together for this long or whatnot but I'm 15 and lost my virginity when I was 13 and I regret it. I wish I would have waited. At the time I wouldn't listen to my older friends when they told me to wait. I know what you're thinking but give yourself time. Sex isn't something you're supposed to share with guys you think you care about; it's supposed to be shared with that someone special. Give yourself some time. Believe me I know what's going through your mind, all the "I'm ready. I really care for so and so", but this advice column is here for a reason.
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reader, shrty8846 +, writes (1 June 2005):
Please take your time with this. You are too young to be thinking about sex. I know, I'm 16 years old and started having sex when I was 13. It is nothing to be proud of. Sex is a privilege that you should only do with the person you marry. You are different from everyone else because you have something they can never get back and that's virginity. I regret ever doing it, so please think long and hard about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2005): Baby you need to take your time. If it is meant to happen it will. I was in your same place and now me and my boyfriend broke up. So don't rush anything, you make him wait and when the time is right it will happen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2005): I know you don't want to hear this, but DONT do it! Save it. You will regret it if you have him take it this soon in your life. But if you really want to, I wouldn't say something because you might scare him! So if it happens, it happens. Good luck
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reader, fechon +, writes (26 May 2005):
If you don't agree with the first answer from a reader, then my advice is after you are sure you want to have sex with him, not just think, but know it in your heart without a doubt, then to maybe suggest watching porn together. That always puts people in the mood. And have on nice lingerie, which tells him you're ready, and ALWAYS ALWAYS be a wise gal, use a condom for godsakes. No one is worth your life or an unwanted pregancy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2005): Hi there.This is probably not what you are wanting to hear, but if you cannot even tell him you want to have sex, how are you going to feel about actually doing it??Seriously, though, I'm 30 and lost my virginity at the age of 14 too.And regretted it.It would be much better to wait until you are older, I mean, what you think is love now may be viewed very differently later on in life, and you dont really want to be stuck with regrets yourself, and bad memories.I speak from experience!After all, if you are in love, then your boy will still be around later on, and if he isn't, well you made the right choice by saving yourself for someone who will be!Don't give your best away lightly.You cannot get it back, once it's gone.Hope this helps.
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