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writes: Dear Cupid Okay, well I have had sex. But I've never got on top(ride). I think if i did then he would say something like you're not doing it right. So what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2005): Past girlfriends I've had usually have rocked their hips back and forth in a grinding motion or as if riding a horse. If this does not suit you try simply rising up and down, and somewhere in between you should find your happy place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2005): Get on top and start riding. If he says you aren't doing it right then ask him for pointers. Sex is a learning game and chances are the next guy will like it a different way. Then again, if he's on top and not doing it right for you, do you tell him? Communication is the key to great sex for both partners. If he's lunkhead enough to be that brutal, give it back in spades.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): I would say first time for every thing, but it's better for the person you are sleeping with tells you the truth. It's like having non-great sex so the person you are sleeping with just can't fake it all the time. If the person asks you to do it again then it is quite serious that you did it right!Thank you!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): Hello sweety.If you really want to do this then there is no reason why you shouldn`t.As far as worrying about not doing it right, hey, we all have to start somewhere and with every couple there will be different things about the way you touch each other move with each other etc that will work for you both but others may not like.Just remember to relax don`t pressure yourself worrying, "am I doing this right?" Sex is the most intimate way that two people can show their love for each other. I really don`t think that your partner would say you are doing it wrong but hey even if he does, all you have to do is simply say "well how about you show me how you like it to be done?"Don`t see it as a bad thing. As I saids we all have to learn things right through our lives and believe me sex is no different. Relax, feel sexy about yourself, let your worries go and enjoy the intimacy.I hope this will ease your mind a little and help you. Take care and the best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): There is two things...Technique and ConfidenceIf he is a guy who you could tell him that then you should, otherwise, you shouldn't have doubts and lose your confidence, and if he questions how yo're doing it say that you feel tired! (Or you could be honest)
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2005): I felt that way too, and the 1st time I was on top, it was with my boyfriend who I was in love with. The 1st time he told me to get on top I told him I didn't know what I was doing, and he told me "it's ok, I'll show you" Whenever someone wants me to try something new I flat out let them know I've never done it before and most guys are ok with that. They'll usually tell you they will show you or tell you. And that way they know your situation. I always felt weird, wondering if they will think I'm bad or something, but I always feel better when I tell them, "hey Im not a hoe, and I don't do this all the time, I'm new at this," and they'll help ya out
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