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writes: OK, I have a problem with this boy who loves me and I love him, but well when the subject of sex it's all about us doing it! See I know he's ready and I am too, it's just if my parents ever found out they would move me and I would not come back until he forgot about me! We are engaged to be wedded and I have known him since 6th grade and well he also said he would just masturbate until we were married but I feel guilty about that! What should i do? Do it with him or wait?
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reader, Christie +, writes (24 May 2005):
This is a very complex situation, that no one should have the authority to tell you what to do. The decision to have sex is a very important one which ONLY you can make. I understand that your parents' opinion means a lot to you but really it is your body and your chioce. Your boyfriend sounds like a very understanding person who will respect whichever decision you make, but please your first time should be special for you when you want, not when everyone else wants.
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