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Archived questions from: September, 2009 (see latest in Pregnancy category)

Pregnancy: Help and advice

Test all say negative but my husband thinks I"m pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - hey, i am 19 year's old and my husband thinks im pregnant. and every test that i have taken said negative. and im having all of the symptoms. and not to mention i got off of the depo shot almost a year ago.. and i have had my period but not a normal ...

My boyfriend has threatened to break up with me if I have an abortion! How do I get him to understand it is my choice?

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 5526 days ago

30 September 2009 (F) - Yesterday morning I did a pregnancy test and it came up positive but I don't know how many weeks yet. I have no desire to be a mum or ever have a baby I just don't like them so I knew straight away that abortion is the only option. Howev...

I regret the name I gave my baby! What can I do now?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5534 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Dear all, I have a problem that is in my head! I know many of you wouldnt think its such a big issue but i just delivered my baby girl on july 14th and called her a name i really liked at the time.. and we agreed on... on the 6th day he went to r...

Can I be pregnant if I got my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I had sex about two weeks ago which links to my previous question two days age. I had unprotected sex whch I'm not proud of at all!!! It was my first time having sex period. Anyways I was wondering if I could be pregnant if my period came. My period ...

The test came back negative but I still havent had my period! Am I pregnant or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - I have this amazing boyfriend when we together everything just feels so perfect. The problem Im having now is I don't know if Im pregnant or not. In july I got my period on the 20th of the month it lasted for about 5 days. Than in august I got my ...

How do I tell my parents I'm pregnant again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Im pregnant for the second time and how do i tel my parents,my first baby is three years and my parents are pastors and wel knwn people they wil b ashamed of me wat must i do...

Should I worry about being pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

29 September 2009 (F) - Alright. So I met this guy about a month or so ago that works with my mom..This sounds really bad but he is only 19, I will be 18 in October...he already has a baby that is 13 months old. Well..my mom decided to let me start staying the nigh...

Ejaculation accidentally touched my vagina

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Before you all say I am too young(or something) for this, I would like to say. I have made a huge mistake by doing this. I know what I did wrong, and is very regretful. Any nurses/doctors/concerned adults please help! I touched male sperm on my...

Can you bleed when you're PG and on the pill?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - If you are on the pill and you're pregnant, are you still forced to bleed a little when it comes to the pill that starts your period? Just as a matter of interest. ...

Pregnant, cheated and now don't know who the father is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - my last period was in august.i am not sure of the date although it was round about the end.i had sex with my long term partner on the 4th,5th,6th and 10th of september and although i hate myself for doing it i cheated on the 12th.my boyfriend is ...

Should I go for the new or hold out for the old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am pregnant and 28. My new ex is 49. I have a met a new man who is 34. Anyway I don't know what to do about this. I have not been with the new man yet and am taking it extra slow. I want my ex back but he has ignored me for 5 wks now. So there ...

If you have irregular periods will a pregnancy test be accurate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi i have a quick question if u have an irregular period will a pregnancy test show correct? ive done an ultrasound and there is nothing in my uturus..did a pregnacy test came out negative but i have this weird pains here and there in my stomach and ...

Am I pregnant? Symptons went away and now back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - hi i was wondering if this has ever happend to any one okay well i found out i was pregnant and had all the symptoms but then i started to bleed for about five days it was really light with some clots so i thought i was having a miscarriage because ...

I'm pregnant, lost my job, and feel like my life's spinning out of control

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

28 September 2009 (F) - Help me I don't know what to do. My lifes spinning out of control in a downword spiral. I just lost my job on friday. I'm pregnant. My fiance don't want to move in with my family because he can't stand them. But it would be the best choice cause if ...

Sex, stomach hurts after, pregnancy concerns?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I had sex with a guy i met in class last night. This is the only 2nd time ive done sex. But this time my stomach hurts today. We used a condom but, idk how i will be able to tell if im late on my period because i got off birthcontrol a lil before ...

He can't have sex with me because I'm pregnant

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

27 September 2009 (F) - I am 24 weeks pregnant and today I tried to have sex with my bf. We started but then he stopped, stating that we shouldn't keep going. I asked why and he said he doesn't know. What? I wanted an answer. He told me that he think it's a males intuition ...

I want what's best for the baby -- how soon should the father be left to care for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - I've just recently split up with my boyfriend of 6 years and i'm comeing up to my eighth month in pregnancy. We spoke on the phone last night and both decided that we would like to get back together at some point,(when he has sorted himself out and ...

Sex, pregnancy and health problems

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

26 September 2009 (F) - i had sex for the first time and the condom slipped when he just pulled out but not pulled out in the sense of being close to ejaculation but it just slipped after a few minutes of intercourse and we put it right back on , but since then ive been ...

Dating 5 months, 4 months pregnant and we're not happy!

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25 September 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 months and I'm 4 months pregnant with his baby. Everything has moved so quickly!! Sadly we just don't seem to be happy. In fact we just seem to argue most of the time. I do love him but I am not sure that he ...

Do I have a disorder?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 years old and I don't remember the last time I was truly happy. Sure, I laugh and I smile but I can't remember what true happiness is like. I haven't felt it in a long time. I don't have a bad life, I think I am a good looking girl and...

When do I say enough and just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - Ok here goes, I was married for 17 yrs.to a physical and emotionally abusive man. Finally got the courage to dump him and 4 mos. Later began a relationship with (A). We fell deeply in love but cause of my past didn't trust him. We moved in ...

I feel my boyfriend's mother is overstepping a little with our plans for the baby!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

25 September 2009 (F) - I don't know if i'm thinking to deep into this matter or wether or not i have some valied resson for concern. Me and my partner are expecting are first child in a few months but frew out the whole pregnancy I have had some concern as to wether or ...

His reaction to my unintended pregnancy has made me doubt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm not exactly sure what i'm asking for here, but i couldn't find any 'answers' from any other source, so i thought i'd give it a go. I have just experienced a miscarriage. I think the most part came yesterday but i have been having a lot of ...

Pregnant, no job, no money, no home of my own, and no boyfriend... I need advice and support!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I'm in the bigest mess ever and i've never felt so vuerable and helpless in my whole life :-( I'm 32 weeks pregnant leaving me with 8 weeks left until my due date. I'm homeless as iv'e only just plucked up the courage to leave my boyfriend of 6 ...

When do I tell the guy I just started dating that I'm pregnant by him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Eight months ago I got a divorce from my high school sweetheart. We started dated when I was 16 and were together for 11 years. During that time we stopped using birth control because it didnt matter to us if we expanded our family. (we have 2 kids ...

How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi there!! I'm new to this site so am hoping u can help me please. I'm pregnant, and I dnt no how to tell my boyfriend, I know I have to but I just can't find the words. I was on the pill...and really have no idea how this has happened. I've b...

Was the pregnancy test correct? Is there a chance I could still be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - I had unprotected sex last month and a day after that i took the ECP 'emergency contraceptive pills', and my period came for 3 days. but my period normally last for 6 to 7 days. I have done it again after that but with a condom. I got checked by the ...

My partner doesn't want our baby.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

24 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 30yrs old and I just found out that I am pregnant 3 days ago. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years he already has 3 children and his reaction when I told him I was pregnant was like I ruined his life. We did use birth control ...

First time sex worries!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - I just had sex for the first time and we used a condom, but it slipped for a second and we both decided to put it back on the right way of course, he didnt ejaculate and we didnt do much intercourse action, but i was just wondering about it and ...

I'm still a virgin but could I be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Im 14. Still a virgin. Problem is me and my boyfriend of 7 months now well we've been messing around. And, i know of cases where a girl can be pregnant yet still a virgin. I know how that happens. What im worried about is i should of had my period ...

Will a puppy heal my loneliness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

23 September 2009 (F) - Hey.. umm I have a question. Im 18 years old, i just started college and im about to go away to school next semester. i met this boy in school, and we got together. i fell in love with him and as my first love, i lost my virginity to him. when i was ...

Helppppp!!!! Could I possibly be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid, I've been on the pill fot 3 months now and I'm on my 7 day break from it, but I have yet to get my peroid. I'm starting again on Thursday and I am starting to worry. I have not had sex in over two months but on Saturday, two da...

Twins at 13 - this site helped me out they followed me on my jorney and I am going to tell you it.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - On the 20th of febuary i found out i was pregnant one month gone and turned to this site for help - i didnot effect the reception i got off everyone that has folowed me through my remarkable jorney up to the babys where born i had up to 109 ...

I'm married but my ex boyfriend who claims he loves me keeps cancelling our dates! Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

22 September 2009 (F) - i have a complicated story, well my boyfriend and i broke up years ago cause i found out that he cheated on me and got some girl pregnant. i finished the relationship as soon as i found out. He tried to convince me that that it was not his baby but ...

Pregnant used vibrating toy and now I'm bleeding

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - i am so scared i am 3 months prego and lastnight i had sex with my partner and we used toys "vibrating dick ring" but its not the first time.. i feel asleep and woke up and i went to pee and wiped my self and i saw blood nothing huge but something ...

What do I do for the best? Keep the baby or terminate?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hello, I am 7 weeks pregnant, me and my partner were togther for about 4 years and now have been broken up for almost a year now but he now has a new girfriend of about 6 months. He wants to terminate, he feels as if he's not ready and that he is ...

I'm having my brother's baby and I'm worried

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I need serious help! Im pregnat and its my brothers. Im 2 months along and Im affraid of the outcome might be. This is my first pregnancy. We're both very young. I want to keep it because Im against abortions but at the same time I don't want to ...

The Condom Came Off Inside Me, Could I Be Pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - ...is there a high chance of pregnancy when the condom comes off inside you??...

Yikes!!! Am I pregnant? Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm 16 but I'm really worried. I had sex with my ex boyfriend and we used a condom but I've missed my period, I'm 28 days late and I'm really scared because I've had this funny feeling in my stomach and sometimes I feel like I'm about to come ...

How long should I wait to take a test again if I don't start my period?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5545 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - My husband and I are trying to have a baby, so maybe just like every other month I am just anxious, but... I took a test today because today is the day I should have started my period and I was negitive. How long should I wait to take a test agai...

Considering abortion insure if its right for me or how I will cope

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - Im 20 years old and already have a young son whos 2 and 9 months, i love him very much but i found it really hard raising him on my own, i wos lucky to have a good family support. And also i started dating my partner and iv been with him for about a ...

How can I increase my chances of getting pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - im trying to get pregnant is there any things i should try to up my chances? i had leukemia when i was 7 and they told me that i have a slim chance of getting pregnant. i want a kid very bad and im scared that im not able to get pregnant. ive looked ...

I'm pregnant and my husband won't have sex with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - I am 22 weeks pregnant and my husband does not want to touch me in an intimate way at all!! I try and get his attention and suggest sex and let him know I am watching porn, which usually helps, but I am just not getting anything...Any suggestions as ...

Too early to tell if I'm pregnant and I don't want to have an abortion!

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20 September 2009 (F) - okay, im 15 and just started having sex with my boyfriend. im really happy with him and we always use protection but there has been a few times when he's done it without just for a few seconds. he didnt finish it or anything but ive heard you can ...

Experienced Mothers: Can you help a pregnant teen with some questions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

20 September 2009 (F) - hi people. I'm a new parent to be, ill be 18 in a month exactly, I know im young but thats not why I'm here, to be told that. So, I was wondering if anyone has had similiar symptoms as I have, Im in my first trimester and ive lost my appetite...

Shall I tell the girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Ok, so my sister (30ish) met a guy (30ish) on a two week business trip. They had a couple of brief encounters but it was essentially a friendship. Anyway she has recently found out that she is pregnant. The guy has a girlfriend of a year and a hal...

Do I need to take the morning after pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Hi I need help, i had unprotected sex last night with my bf and my period is due today/tomoorrow, is it likely that i could get pregnant? I had heard that this time (just before period is due) is safer because I am not ovulating? if not then i will ...

Is loss of appetite normal during pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Okay so I have a question. I'm going to be 18 next month on the 19th, I know I'm young but I didnt post this question to be critisized or told how I'm making a mistake and ruining my life. Sooo with that said, is there anyone else out there who's ...

We want to have a baby, I'm almost 17!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

19 September 2009 (F) - Well I'm very confused. im extremely happy with my boyfriend, we've basically been together for a year and ive never in my life felt for anyone the way i feel about him, i understand this sounds typical for a 16 (almost 17) year old girl to say, but ...

She doesn't always take the pill at the same time. Can I ejactulate inside her??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5545 days ago

18 September 2009 (M) - I have a question about birth control. My girlfriend was on the pill (Ortho Tri Cyclen Low) for about 4 years. She took a 6 month break and has been back on it for about 10 months now. She takes it each morning when she gets up, but that time ...