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writes:On the 20th of febuary i found out i was pregnant one month gone and turned to this site for help - i didnot effect the reception i got off everyone that has folowed me through my remarkable jorney up to the babys where born i had up to 109 comments! i love how everyone was intrested in folowing my story but two ants mean millions to me and with out them i would not have coped they talked me through step by step they are TISHA-1 and GINALOLABRIDGA they are angels thankyou both millions well anyway on to my story .... at the beguining people where telling me to tell my mam and i am so glad i listened and any young girl in my position to tell there mum it sounds like the worst thing to do but its the best it is a weight off your sholder..the next step was keeping or get an abortion which i could have easily have done and swept this under the carpet and carried on in life but what would this have gaind nothing at all, after all this might have been my only chance to have a child my mum said she would surport me and so did my boyfriend(who later left me).. when i went for my first scan i was in for a shock! i remember the doctor staring at the screan and then got the head doctor in to have a look i was about to cry i thought i had lost it but when they looked at me and said you having twins sweetheart i started crying in a good + bad way when i came home and told my boyfriend of the time he left me and said he didnot want twins.i got over it! at around 10 weeks i started getting cravings e.g. sugery sweets and icecream then when someone on a post about pickles and then i started on them haha here is the link to my post but comment on this first please all answer questions and write back so post away http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-14-and-pregnant-help.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2009): Hey there
Great to know you, btw!!
ANd, am glad that there is a man to help you out!! We women are strong and stuff, but I know that having a man kind of eases it up a little bit... even if it is just a strong set fo shoulders to lean one's head on!!!
Hey, I'm very happy to know that you will be continuing with your studies. YOu know, no matter how much help you have at hand, ultimately your kids are your responsibility and a good education goes a long way in helping one secure a future!!!
And, yeah you are very young and I'm sure that life has taken on another dimension for you... but remember that you are a kid yourself... and sometimes do things that will make
you feel good!!!
Lots of love
(hope you don't mind my interference...)
: )
Looking forward on getting to know you more...
XXXOOOOXXXXOOOO
(these are for the twins!!!)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey
yeah clariss i would love to help this young girl in her experiance please send her my html.
my twins are great the boy is called andrew kai lewis and the girl is called maddison ebony paige they are lovley and very unique even though they are twins, they are healthy and at a healthy weight of 6 pounds 4ibs and 6pounds 1 ibs. I am planning to take everything in my stride and i am going to start getting home schooled me and my boy friend (who is not there real dad but is great with them) and we will swap over every hour so we always have someone with the children also i am working on weekends for a cople of hours on a friday and saterday just for extra money but i am not starting that to the end of october.
I love been a mum making bottles, feeding them, bathing them, dressing them, putting them to bed and even when they cry in the middle of the night even though i am shattered i like ironing there clothes and everything, i try to do as much as i can by my self but i have realised i need help and when offered it i should accept.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2009): HiYour story is interesting. How are the twins? Are they healthy? What have you named them. I'm Clariss, btw. Recently there was a poster of abt 21yrs, in the same dilemma, that is she was pregnant at a young age. I recommended that she speak to someone who has been through this. I think I will forward her your link, if it's okay with you. Hey, what are you planning to do next? How does balancing it all feel like? In your next post (whenever you find the time) please let us (and me, specially) know all these little details of your life... you know... like a timetable. I am eagerly looking forward to hearing more from you. Lots of love, to you and the twins and your MOm. May God bless your entire family. XXOXXXOOOXXXOXX
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