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*ellaFiamma
writes:I am 22 weeks pregnant and my husband does not want to touch me in an intimate way at all!! I try and get his attention and suggest sex and let him know I am watching porn, which usually helps, but I am just not getting anything...Any suggestions as to what I can/should do. Its been a month and I have 4 more to go and I don't know if I can survive them without sex.
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (20 September 2009):
Although not having had sex for the last twenty years (I am now 46 and a man) nor having made a woman pregnant, even I can understand your frustrations. Your husband has to realise that you will probably be told to abstain from sex for a certain length of time after the birth and in the worst case scenario you may even go off sex.
He needs to enjoy you now and espcially as some womens hormones go on the rampage during pregnancy. He is in a very fortunate position to be with you at (I would say when a woman is at one of her most sexiest stages during pregnancy - personally I find it very erotic). He may just need reassurance from a Medical Practitioner that he can continue to have sex with you.
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reader, BellaFiamma +, writes (20 September 2009):
BellaFiamma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have talked with him and I know and can understand that a pregnant (getting bigger) wife is not very attractive to him. But it is still difficult. I have needs!! And when I inquire about being intimate with him, he is always tired. Thank you for the advice. It really does help.
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (20 September 2009):
 You need to talk to him about this seriously and tell him you need him to try with you. Obviously he's worried that having sex with you might hurt the baby, or he's put off a little about having sex with a pregnant wife.
But he really does need to spend time with you and make you happy as best he can. The best thing to do is just keep talking to him and be very loving and forgiving about it.
He needs to tell you why he's not interested or holding back.
Once you get down to that, I think he'll appreciate the fact that you need the sex now and if he doesn't give it to you, you may have to go shopping for it (just kidding).
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