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writes:Im 20 years old and already have a young son whos 2 and 9 months, i love him very much but i found it really hard raising him on my own, i wos lucky to have a good family support. And also i started dating my partner and iv been with him for about a year n a half, he treats my son like his own and loves him too, iv known him for about 4 years and hes great. The real father is not around. Anyways i recently found out im pregnant, and my partner is really happy about it. The thing is, i recently started working and studying full time because i felt like my son was old enough to go to day care fulltime, he really enjoys it. Im studying to be a qualified carer in disabilities studies and im aiming for my cert 3, im already working as carer in a disability hostel but im still only a student till i finish next year in around june. My partner and i dont really want to have an abortion but he also wants to be finacialy stable and ready before we have another child and he also thinks that ive worked really hard to get where i am back at school and working, he doesnt want me to stop and stay home because he knows i love working and i honestly believe i am too young to be a stay at home mum. I do not want to be 26 when my children start school and have no qualifications in any thing. I dont want to be working in a factory or a dead end job to make ends meet. i want to be able to support my children the best i can. We think it would be best if i had an abortion, but honestly i dont think i will cope well after if we really did get one. I am really unsure and sometimes i get really upset because i know i will feel so guilty and ashamed
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reader, jENN891AU +, writes (22 September 2009):
jENN891AU is verified as being by the original poster of the question we have deceided to keep this baby.
we cant kill this baby. and it deserves life
im going to continue with work and studies.
thank you for taking your time to answer
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009): Some people if you are lucky let you continue to see the child. Although i think that would be really hard for me. Honestly i would not get an abortion and i would give it up for adoption. If you cant afford another kid someone else can. And sooo many people arent lucky enough to have kids and want them sooo bad. So if you have to choose, choose a wonderful family to give the baby to.
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reader, jENN891AU +, writes (20 September 2009):
jENN891AU is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou :)
we have been considering adoption
still really unsure of what we might do
we really want to keep it
but we are more scared we cant afford it right now
:(
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reader, tranny  +, writes (20 September 2009):
 PLEASE consider adoption over abortion.
It will give the child a chance at a good life, while still freeing you of the burden.
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